Mena he waahi ka uaua ki te whakakoi i a koe ano, ko te mahi.
Ae, ehara i te mea ngawari ki te whakaputa i to reo ki mua i to rangatira, kaiwhakahaere, hoa mahi ranei.

Na, ki te mea he uaua ki a koe kia rongo koe i te mahi i konei ko te pehea e angitu ai ki te whakaatu i a koe i nga mahi ngaio.

Te ti'aturi-ake-raa, te taviri no te faaite i to oe ohipa:

Ahakoa te aro atu ki tetahi hoa, tona kaiwhakahaere, tetahi kaihoko ranei, ko te whakapuaki i a koe i te mahi e kore e taea e koe te haere i runga i te ti'aturi i roto ia koe.
Ko te whakapono pai ki a koe ka whakapau kaha ki te mahi, a ka whakaaetia e koe te mahi ki a koe.
Ko te mohio ki o maatau o o raatau pükenga ka awhina ia koe te ahunga whakamua i te mahi me te reo kia rongohia.

Me tautuhi hoki koe i nga whakapono e kore ai koe e kimi i to waahi i te ao mahi.
Ahakoa i tuku iho, i riro mai ranei, ka whakawhäitihia koe e enei whakapono, ka aukati i te whakawhanaketanga ngaio.

I te nuinga o nga wa, ko te kore o te pakari-whaiaro e arahi ki te wehi.
Kei a koe wehi ki te tono mo te piki ake ki to rangatira, no te mea kei te wehi koe kei te whakakahore ia.
Engari he hohonu, he tino kino ki te kino te whakautu?
Kaore ia e tahu ia koe no te mea kua kaha koe ki te tono kia piki ake, ka ora tonu koe i muri i to whakatau.
Me mohio koe me pehea te whakahoahoki ma te torotoro i to wehi o te kore.

Hei whakauru i to whakaaro ki te mahi:

Ehara koe i te robot, he huarahi whakaaro, whakaaro, whakapono hoki koe.
Na kei hea koe e kino ana ki te tuku i to whakaaro?
Kaua e hiahia ki te tautoko i nga hoa mahi katoa, no te mea kei a ratau ano te kite i nga mea.
Mena ka whakapono koe ki nga mea e korero ana koe, he iti noa iho te waahi o te whakahē, iti iho ranei te aroha.
Na i roto i whakaminenga, whakamatau ki te korero.
Ka taea e koe te whakahoki i te tautohetohe me nga kupu penei "E hiahia ana ahau ki te korero", "Mai i taku tirohanga" ranei "Mo taku wahi".

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Ki te mohio ki te penei:

Ko te tikanga, ehara tenei i te korero mo te kore korero, he tika, he he.
Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakahē i tetahi whakataunga, me tika to "no".
Ki te mahi i tenei, me tino mohio koe ki te aha i akiaki ai koe ki te whakatau i taua whakatau.
E tika ana, he mea tika kia anga whakamua ma te patai pono ki te tangata e pa ana ki a raatau take.
Engari hei awhina i a koe ki te whakaputa i to whakaaro me te aata whakatika i runga i te tikanga whakahee i te whakatau e tautohetia ana. Na he tika tenei i mua o to rangatira.
Kia mahara ko to kaiwhakahaere ehara i te mea kaha katoa, ki te whakakake koe i to whakahētanga ka taea e ia te mohio me te whakarongo.