Kodi mungatani kuti muzitha kugwira ntchito?

Ngati pali malo omwe kumakhala kovuta kudzikakamiza, ndi ntchito.
Zowonadi, sikophweka nthawi zonse kumveketsa mawu anu pamaso pa abwana anu, manejala kapena anzanu.

Kotero ngati mukuvutika kuti mudziwe nokha kuntchito pano ndi momwe mungakwaniritsire pokwaniritsa mwaluso.

Kudzidalira, chinsinsi chodziwonetsera nokha kuntchito:

Kaya akukumana ndi mnzanu, bwana wake kapena wogula, kuganiza kuti mukugwira ntchito sikungatheke chifukwa cha chidaliro chimene muli nacho mwa inu.
Chikhulupiliro chabwino mwa inu chidzapangitsa kudzipereka kuchitapo kanthu ndipo izi zidzakulolani kudziyesa nokha kuntchito.
Kuzindikira makhalidwe anu a luso lanu kudzakuthandizani kupita patsogolo kuntchito ndi kuti mawu anu amve.

Muyeneranso kuzindikira zikhulupiriro zomwe zimakulepheretsani kupeza malo anu pantchito.
Kaya ndi cholowa kapena chopezedwa, zikhulupirirozi zimakulepheretsani ndikulepheretsa chitukuko chilichonse cha akatswiri.

Kawirikawiri, kusowa kudzidalira kumabweretsa mantha.
Inu muli kuopa kupempha kuwonjezeka kwa abwana anu, chifukwa mukuwopa kuti iye akukana.
Koma pansi, kodi ndizoipa kwambiri ngati yankho liri loipa?
Sadzakuwotcha chifukwa mudayesetsa kupempha kuti muwonjezere, mudzakhalanso ndi moyo mutatha kusankhidwa kwanu.
Muyenera kudziwa momwe mungagwirizane ndi kuyang'ana mantha anu olephera.

Kuyika maganizo anu pantchito:

Siwe robot, muli ndi njira yoganiza, malingaliro ndi zikhulupiliro.
Ndiye ndiwe ngozi bwanji mukupereka maganizo anu?
Musamafune kupeza chithandizo cha anzanu onse, chifukwa nawonso ali ndi njira yawo yowonera zinthu.
Ngati mumakhulupirira zomwe mumanena, muli ndi mwayi wambiri wokanidwa kapena osakondedwa.
Kotero mu chokumanako, yesetsani kulankhula.
Mukhoza kukonzanso kutsutsana ndi mawu monga "Ndikufuna kunena", "Kuchokera kwanga" kapena "Kwa gawo langa".

Kudziwa momwe mungayankhire:

Inde, ichi si funso loti ayi, chabwino ndi cholakwika.
Pamene mukufuna kutsutsa chisankho, "ayi" yanu iyenera kukhala yolondola.
Kuti muchite izi, choyamba muyenera kudziwa chomwe chakulimbikitsani kupanga chisankho.
Kunena zowona, kungakhale koyenera kupita patsogolo mwa kufunsa mosabisa kanthu munthu wokhudzidwayo kaamba ka zifukwa zake.
Koma zidzakuthandizani kupereka malingaliro anu ndikutsimikizira mwa njira yolingalira kutsutsana kwanu ndi lingaliro lotsutsidwa. Ndipo izi ndizovomerezeka ngakhale pamaso pa abwana anu.
Kumbukirani kuti bwana wanu sali wamphamvu zonse, ngati mumalimbikitsa kusagwirizana kwanu amatha kumvetsa ndikukumva.