Gonjetsani mantha anu kuti mufike pamwamba

Mantha ndi kumverera kwapadziko lonse komwe kumatsagana nafe pa moyo wathu wonse. Zingakhale zothandiza potiteteza ku ngozi, koma zingathenso kutifooketsa ndi kutilepheretsa kukwaniritsa maloto athu. Momwe mungagonjetse mantha ndikusandutsa kukhala injini yopambana?

Izi ndi zomwe buku la "Lamulo la 50 - Mantha ndi mdani wanu woipitsitsa" limapereka kuti tipeze, lolembedwa ndi Robert Greene ndi 50 Cent, wolemba nyimbo wotchuka waku America. Bukuli lidauziridwa ndi moyo wa 50 Cent, yemwe adadziwa kuchira kuchokera ku ubwana wovuta ku ghetto, kuyesa kupha komanso ntchito yoimba yomwe ili ndi misampha kuti akhale nyenyezi yeniyeni padziko lapansi.

Bukhuli limatengeranso zitsanzo za mbiri yakale, zolembalemba ndi filosofi, kuyambira ku Thucydides kupita ku Malcolm X kudzera pa Napoleon kapena Louis XIV, kuti afotokoze mfundo za kupanda mantha ndi kupambana. Ndi phunziro lenileni la njira, utsogoleri ndi luso, zomwe zimatipempha kuti tikhale ndi mtima wokhazikika, wolimba mtima komanso wodziimira paokha poyang'anizana ndi zopinga ndi mwayi umene moyo umatipatsa.

Lamulo la 50 ndilophatikiza ndi 48 malamulo a mphamvu, Robert Greene's bestseller yomwe ikufotokoza malamulo ankhanza a masewera a anthu, ndi lamulo lachipambano, mfundo yofunikira yomwe imayendetsa 50 Cent ndipo ingathe kufotokozedwa mwachidule mu chiganizo ichi: "Sindikuwopa kukhala ine -ngakhale". Pophatikiza njira ziwirizi, olemba amatipatsa masomphenya oyambirira ndi olimbikitsa a chitukuko chaumwini.

Nazi maphunziro akuluakulu omwe mungatenge m'bukuli

  • Mantha ndi chinyengo chopangidwa ndi malingaliro athu, zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhulupirira kuti tilibe mphamvu pazochitika. Zoona zake n’zakuti nthawi zonse timakhala ndi chosankha ndi kulamulira tsogolo lathu. Ndikokwanira kuzindikira zomwe tingakwanitse komanso zomwe tili nazo, ndikuchitapo kanthu.
  • Mantha nthawi zambiri amakhudzana ndi kudalira: kudalira maganizo a ena, pa ndalama, pa chitonthozo, pa chitetezo… Kuti tikhale omasuka ndi odalirika, tiyenera kudzipatula tokha ku izi ndi kukulitsa kudzilamulira kwathu. Izi zikutanthauza kutenga udindo, kuphunzira kuzolowera kusintha ndi kulimba mtima kutenga zoopsa zowerengeka.
  • Mantha amabweranso chifukwa chodzikayikira. Kuti tigonjetse, tiyenera kukulitsa umunthu wathu ndi kusasiyana kwathu. Zimatanthauza kusachita mantha kukhala wekha, kufotokoza malingaliro athu, luso lathu ndi zilakolako zathu, osati kugwirizana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Kumatanthauzanso kukhala ndi zolinga zokhumbira ndi zaumwini, ndikugwira ntchito molimbika kuti mukwaniritse.
  • Mantha amatha kusandulika kukhala mphamvu yabwino ngati ayendetsedwa m'njira yolimbikitsa. M’malo mothawa kapena kupewa zinthu zimene zingatiopseze, tiyenera kulimbana nazo molimba mtima komanso motsimikiza mtima. Izi zimatipatsa mwayi wopanga chidaliro chathu, kukhala ndi luso komanso luso, ndikupanga mwayi wosayembekezereka.
  • Mantha angagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati chida chothandizira kukopa ena. Mwa kulamulira maganizo athu ndi kukhala odekha tikakumana ndi ngozi, tingalimbikitse ulemu ndi ulamuliro. Mwa kukopa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mantha kwa adani athu, tikhoza kuwasokoneza ndi kuwalamulira. Mwa kuyambitsa kapena kuchotsa mantha mwa ogwirizana nawo, tikhoza kuwalimbikitsa ndi kuwasunga.

Lamulo la 50 ndi buku lomwe limakuphunzitsani momwe mungagonjetsere mantha ndikuchita bwino m'moyo. Zimakupatsani makiyi oti mukhale mtsogoleri, woyambitsa komanso wamasomphenya, wokhoza kukwaniritsa maloto anu ndikusiya chizindikiro padziko lapansi. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri mverani buku lathunthu m'mavidiyo omwe ali pansipa.