Kuti akhulupirire munthu wothandizana nawo kapena gulu labwino, nthawi zonse ndi koyenera kupitiliza kulankhula, koma komanso kulankhulana kwachikondi. Simungapambane ngati mulibe mphamvu zokhutira zoyenera kuti muyanjane omvera anu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mukuyenera kukhala ndi mphamvu yakukhulupilira ngati luso, chachiwiri. Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chikhulupiriro cholimba? Phunzirani apa momwe mungachitire.

Kodi "kukhutitsidwa" kumatanthauzanji?

Malinga ndi adiresi, "kutsimikizira ndiko kutsogolera munthu, chifukwa kapena umboni, kuzindikira chowonadi kapena chofunikira. ".
Muyenera kupereka malingaliro anu kapena zifukwa zothandizidwa ndi zitsanzo kapena umboni. Luso lokhutiritsa Zoonadi, ndizofunika kwambiri mu bizinesi ndi mu bizinesi, makamaka pokambirana mgwirizano pakati pa maphwando awiri.

Nchifukwa chiyani ziri zovuta kutsimikizira?

Palibe chifukwa chodandaulira ngati patsiku lililonse la polojekiti yatsopano, malingaliro anu nthawi zonse amayang'anizana ndi kutsutsidwa kwa anzako kapena apamwamba anu. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa kutsutsa malingaliro atsopano ndi kayendedwe ka psychic. Ponena za ziwalo za thupi, zochitika zotsutsa zimawonekera nthawi zonse. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake mankhwala osatsutsa amalembedwa kuti athetse kukanidwa kwa thupi.

Pofuna kuthana ndi vuto lakukanidwa, ndikofunikira kuti tipewe zolakwika zomwe anthu ambiri amapanga: zokopa ena powakhomera malingaliro kuyambira pachiwonetsero choyamba. Zowonadi, ulaliki wosavuta wotsutsana ndi zotsatirapo zake ndi zabwino zake zomwe ungapange ndikwanira koyamba kuwonetsa. Padzakhala zochitika zokana nthawi zonse, koma gawoli lifupikitsidwa ndi milungu ingapo.

Ngati malingaliro anu ali ofunikira, zidzakhala zovuta kwa iwo omwe sakufuna kuperekedwa. Ndichotsatira cha ntchito yosamvetsetseka ya interlocutor yanu yomwe ingavomereze mosavuta pempho lanu pambuyo poyambira yachiwiri. Maboma amvetsetsa izi chifukwa ndi momwe polojekitiyi imayesedwera kwa makina osindikizira asanafike. Chiwerengero cha anthu chidzayamba kuvomereza kusintha.

Mfundo zisanu za maganizo pa njira yokakamiza

Monga kukhudzidwa, kukopa kumafuna kuti polojekiti yanu ivomerezedwe ndi interlocutor yanu kapena omvera. Mosiyana ndi kusokoneza komwe kungakhale kosavomerezeka, kukhudzidwa ndi kukopa kumayenera kukhala kumbali ya choonadi. Nazi malingaliro ena amalingaliro kuti apeze mphamvu ya kukopa kapena chikhulupiriro.

Kukulitsa kwakanthawi

 Lonjezerani malingaliro anu ndikuwonetsa chiyanjano chilichonse chomwe muli nacho ndi interlocutor kapena anthu anu, kaya maganizo, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe ...

Lingaliro la ulamuliro

Mfundoyi ndi yopereka mfundo zenizeni, zofunikira komanso zowona pa nkhaniyi. Izi zimatsimikizira kuti mwakonzekera bwino nkhani yanu komanso kuti mwadziwa bwino nkhaniyi komanso kuti luso lanu ndilofunika.

Chiphunzitso cha priming

Chiphunzitso ichi chimaphatikizapo kugwirizanitsa malingaliro anu ndi kukumbukira kawirikawiri kumakhala ndi anthu. Mungathe kugulitsa mkaka mosavuta pochotsa nthawi yopuma panthawi ya ubwana wanu.

Muyeso wabwezeretsanso

Ndizofanana ndi "kubwezeretsa", koma mosadziwa. Ngati mukufuna omvera anu amvetsere lingaliro lanu kapena ndondomeko yanu, samverani mauthenga awo ndi zosowa zawo.

Mfundo ya kuchepa

Zatsimikiziridwa kuti chinthu chosavuta kwambiri, ndicho chokongola kwambiri. Tsopano muyenera kusonyeza kuti ndiwothandiza komanso kukwanitsa kuthana ndi zosowa kapena kuthetsa mavuto a interlocutor.

Njira YOMWE YAPEREKA

Tsopano kuti mumvetse bwino chomwe chiri, apa pali njira yomwe imagwirizanitsidwa mosavuta ndi kupititsa patsogolo maganizo komwe kunaperekedwa kale. YOYENERA KUYAMBA ikuphatikizapo kufunsa mafunso angapo amene mayankho awo adzakhala "INDI". Kuvomerezana kotereku kumapangitsa wokambirana kapena omvera anu kukhala ndi maganizo abwino. Izi zimatchedwa conditioning.
Mfundo iyi yokhudzana ndi kukhazikitsa ndikuphatikizana ndi wina kuti "Inde" nthawi zingapo, monga momwe zingapitirizire kuvomereza ngati malingaliro anu akugwirizana ndi mafunso omwe munapempha kale.

Kufunika kopanda kulankhulana

Malinga ndi akatswiri, mukamapereka ntchito zanu, ngakhale malingaliro anu akhale oyenera kapena mfundo zotani, ngati angawerengedwe modetsa nkhawa, mudzakhala ndi mwayi woti musangalatse omvera kapena omvera anu. Mwachidule, chidebecho ndichofunikira monga zomwe zilipo, chifukwa kulumikizana kuli pafupifupi 80-90% osalankhula. Izi zikuphatikiza kuyang'anitsitsa, chilankhulo cha thupi, mphamvu, kupuma, mtunda, kumvera, chidwi ndi mgwirizano. Chifukwa chake kumbukirani kuti mukutsimikiza kokha ngati mwatsimikizika ndi zomwe mukunenazo.

Kukhala ndi chilankhulo chabwino, komabe sikutanthawuza kukhala ochepa kwambiri. Ponena za kuika zochita zanu mogwirizana ndi mawu anu. Kuti mukwaniritse izi, dzifunseni kuti mumakhudzidwa ndi zotani kuchokera kwa omvera anu. Komabe, nkofunika kuti zosankha zanu zigwirizane nazo. Mwachitsanzo, mwina simungakhale okondwa ngati mukuyenera kulengeza zochepa.

Post-amasonyeza

Ngati mphamvu yokhutira si yoyenera kwa inu, tsatirani malangizo awa pang'ono kuti mupereke ndemanga yanu.

  • Konzani ndondomeko pokonzekera zikumbutso kuti zikuthandizeni kuona
  • Konzani nokha kuti muwonetsere nokha,
  • onetsetsani kuti zolinga zanu zimapezeka mosavuta ndipo sizikulowa mu ufumu wa utopia,
  • kumwetulira panthawi yanu, omvera anu adzachita bwino ndipo adzakhala omasuka kukumverani. Phunzitsani izo pamaso pa galasi,

Kaya muli pachionetsero chanu chachiwiri kapena chachiwiri, musaiwale kutsatira ndikuwona zotsatira ndi kusintha kwa mphamvu yanu yokhutira. Kotero, mudzatha kudziwa bwino momwe mumadziwira ndi luso lanu kumunda kuti nthawi zonse muzikhala omasuka komanso omvera omvera anu mosavuta, kaya muli ndi polojekiti yotani.