Mawu aulemu: Zolakwa zochepa zomwe muyenera kuzipewa!
Kalata yachikuto, kalata yothokoza, imelo ya akatswiri... Pali nthawi zambirimbiri njira zaulemu amagwiritsidwa ntchito, m'makalata oyang'anira komanso maimelo aukadaulo. Komabe, pali mawu ambiri aulemu oti apereke omwe amaphatikiza mu imelo yaukadaulo yomwe imatha kusokonezeka mwachangu. Mu gulu ili, tazindikira, kwa inu, ena mwa iwo omwe muyenera kuwachotsa. Iwo alidi otsutsa. Ngati mukufuna kukonza maimelo anu akatswiri, mwafika pamalo oyenera.
Chonde ndiyankheni kapena Zikomo pasadakhale: Mitundu yaulemu kuti mupewe
Ndi kulakwa kuganiza kuti kuthokoza mkulu kapena kasitomala pasadakhale kudzawalimbikitsa kuvomereza pempho lathu kapena pempho lathu. Koma zoona zake n’zakuti, timangothokoza chifukwa cha utumiki womwe waperekedwa kale osati thandizo lamtsogolo.
Pomwe muli muukadaulo, fomula iliyonse ili ndi kufunikira kwake ndipo malingaliro amawu siyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Lingaliro ndiloti kupanga kudzipereka ndi interlocutor. Pachifukwa ichi, bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito zofunikira?
Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi mukadali aulemu. M'malo molemba kuti "Zikomo pondiyankha", ndi bwino kunena kuti: "Chonde ndiyankheni" kapena kuti "Dziwani kuti mutha kundifikira pa ...". Mukutsimikiza kuganiza kuti mafotokozedwewa ndi ankhanza kapena amphamvu.
Ndipo komabe, awa ndi mawu ochititsa chidwi kwambiri aulemu omwe amapereka umunthu kwa wotumiza imelo pamalo odziwika bwino. Izi zimasiyana ndi maimelo ambiri omwe alibe chidwi kapena amawonedwa ngati amantha kwambiri.
Mafotokozedwe aulemu okhala ndi mawu oyipa: N'chifukwa chiyani amawapewa?
"Musazengereze kundilankhula" kapena "Tidzabweranso kwa inu". Izi zonse ndi mawu aulemu okhala ndi malingaliro oyipa omwe ndikofunikira kuletsa maimelo anu akatswiri.
Ndizowona kuti awa ndi njira zabwino. Koma mfundo yakuti iwo amanenedwa molakwika nthaŵi zina imawapangitsa kukhala opanda phindu. Zimatsimikiziridwa ndi sayansi ya ubongo, ubongo wathu umakonda kunyalanyaza kunyalanyaza. Mafomu olakwika samatikakamiza kuchitapo kanthu ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala olemetsa.
Chifukwa chake, m'malo monena kuti "Omasuka kupanga akaunti yanu", ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito "Chonde pangani akaunti yanu" kapena "Dziwani kuti mutha kupanga akaunti yanu". Kafukufuku wambiri wawonetsa kuti mauthenga abwino omwe amapangidwa molakwika amatulutsa kutembenuka kochepa kwambiri.
Ndi chikhumbo chofuna kulumikizana ndi olemberana nawo ma imelo anu akatswiri. Mupeza zambiri posankha mawu otsimikizira ulemu. Wowerenga wanu adzakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chilimbikitso chanu kapena pempho lanu.
