Zabwino Kuposa Mtundu Wathyathyathya: Yang'anani Njira Zovutazi
Muzolemba zanu zamaluso, ndithudi mwakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chodziletsa komanso cholunjika pa sitayilo yake. Ngakhale kuphweka kumeneku kuli kofunikira, kumakhala ndi chiopsezo: kungokhala chete. Mwamwayi, pali njira zolimbikitsira chidwi ndi kukhazikika kwa matembenuzidwe anu, osagwera mumsewu wosiyana. Ndi awa!
Sewerani ndi zomangamanga zofunsa mafunso
M'malo mongodzinenera nthawi zonse, yesetsani kuswa nyimboyo ndi mafunso ofunsidwa mosamala. Adzaphatikiza owerenga kwambiri powapangitsa kuganiza. Mwachitsanzo: "Koma zoona zake, ndondomeko yatsopanoyi ikutanthauza chiyani pa ntchito yanu?" Njira yodalirika yosinthira zotsatira zake popanda kukhala modzidzimutsa kwambiri.
Gwiritsirani ntchito mawu otsindika kwambiri
Mfundo yanu idzamveka bwino ndi mawu ochepa otsimikizira kufunika kwa mfundo. Yesani “Ndikofunikira kuti…”, “Muyenera…”, “Makiyi ali pamwamba pa zonse mu…”. Akakhazikitsidwa bwino, makiyi awa azithandizira mauthenga ena ofunikira.
Zitsanzo zofotokozera
N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kukhala m'chidziwitso pamene fanizo la konkire lidzafika pachimake? Mukatha kufotokozera, phatikizani chitsanzo chenicheni chamoyo kuti mupereke kuzama kwa zolemba zanu. Onjezani tsatanetsatane pang'ono pazochitika zochititsa chidwi m'malo mongoganizira wamba.
Yesetsani kukhala ndi nthabwala zolandirika
Kupepuka pang'ono sikupweteka! Bwanji osapeputsa maganizo nthawi ndi nthawi ndi kupotoza kosangalatsa, malinga ngati kumakhala koyenera komanso kalembedwe kabwino? Izi zidzakupatsani kusiyana kokoma ndi magawo ovuta kwambiri.
Koma perekani zotsatirazi, ndithudi! Kulinganiza kwa masitayelo osiyanasiyana kumakhalabe chinsinsi cha kulemba kosangalatsa popanda kulemera kwambiri.
Limbikitsani masitayelo anu ndi izi zomwe muyenera kukhala nazo
Matembenuzidwe ena amasinthidwe ali ndi mphamvu yopumira mphamvu ndi kamvekedwe ka mutu wanu. Zosakaniza zomwe zingapangitse kusintha kosangalatsa kuchokera ku kamvekedwe ka monolithic. Nawa ena amphamvu kwambiri.
Kutembenuka kowerengera
“Choyamba…Chachiwiri…Pomaliza…”. Tizigawo tating'onoting'ono timeneti timasindikiza bwino mawu anu. Amatsogolera owerenga kuchokera ku mfundo imodzi kupita ku ina momveka bwino kwinaku akulimbikitsa kuyenda kwenikweni.
Ziganizo zagalasi zogwira mtima
“Mukalimbikira kwambiri, m’pamenenso simungaone zotsatirapo zake.” Magalasi ogwiritsidwa ntchito mwaluso amatha kukhudza malingaliro ndi kusiyanitsa kwake. Osapitirira, koma yesetsani mwanzeru!
Q&A mndandanda
“N’chifukwa chiyani zasintha zimenezi? Kuti tipeze mpikisano. Bwanji ? Powonjezera ndondomeko yathu. ”… Mafunso osinthasintha ndi mayankho amphamvu amakhudza owerenga anu pamene akukankhira mkangano wanu mwamphamvu.
Zithunzi zatanthauzo
"Lingaliro ili likugwira ntchito ngati ulalo ..." "Muyenera kuwonetsa kulimba mtima kuti muthane ndi mphepo zamkunthozi ...". Ma analogi ochititsa chidwi omwe amakopa chidwi ndikuthandizira kuloweza.
Apanso, kumbukirani kusintha mlingo! Kugwiritsa ntchito mopitirira muyeso kwa njirazi kungachititse kuti ataya kuluma kwawo konse. Koma atasamalidwa mwanzeru, amapitilira zolemba zanu ndi mphamvu zolimbikitsa.
Khalani mafumu olinganiza mwanzeru
Kupitilira kalembedwe kake, chinthu chinanso chodziwikiratu chimayamba kugwira ntchito: kamangidwe kabwino ka ziganizo ndi ndime zanu. Luso losawoneka bwino lomwe limafunikira kuyika chinthu chilichonse mosamala.
Malo owonjezera zochitika
"Ngakhale zotsatira zolimbikitsazi, zoyesayesa ziyenera kupitiliza." Poyika chothandizirachi kumayambiriro kwa chiganizocho, nthawi yomweyo mumakokera diso la owerenga ku nuance.
Kuyika kwa matembenuzidwe obwerera
"Monga tanena kale, ...". "Molingana ndi mfundo yomwe yatchulidwa pamwambapa, ...". Mwanjira ikani zikumbutso za mgwirizano izi, kuti mutsegule ndime yatsopano kapena kutseka lingaliro ndi kupindika.
Kuyika kwa mafomu otsindika
"Dziwani izi, bungwe latsopanoli ...". “Ndikhulupirireni, muyenera…”. Mafotokozedwe oterowo amakhala othandiza akamalongosola mwachindunji mu mtima wa kufotokoza. Koma ikhozanso kuchepetsedwa mpaka kumapeto kwa kugwa kwakukulu.
Kulinganiza kwa ndime
Ndime yomwe ili yayitali kapena yayifupi kwambiri imatha kuwoneka yosagwirizana. Onetsetsani kuti mukugwirizanitsa zomangamanga ndi ziganizo zochepa zapakati, zotseguka ndi zomaliza ndi kusintha koyenera.
M'malo mokhala tsatanetsatane yaying'ono, katswiriyu amagwira ntchito pamapangidwe abwino azomwe mukutukuka amathandizira kwambiri kuwerenga. Owerenga anu adzamva momveka bwino za kulimba mtima, kulimba mtima… komanso ukatswiri!
