Ukuqinisekisa ukuba udibaniselwano okanye uluntu uluvo, kuhlale kuyimfuneko ukuhamba ngokuthetha ngokuthetha, kodwa kwakhona nxi be lelwano. Awuyi kuphumelela xa ungenalo amandla okugweba okufunekayo ukubandakanya abaphulaphuli bakho. Yingakho ufuna ukugcina amandla akho enkohlakalo njengobungcali, okwesibini. Indlela yokuhlakulela amandla akho enkolelo? Funda apha indlela yokwenza ngayo.

Kuthetha ntoni "ukukholisa"?

Ngokwezichazili, "ukukholisa kukukhokelela umntu, ngenxa yezizathu okanye ubungqina, ukuqonda into enyanisekileyo okanye eyimfuneko. ".
Kumele unike iingcamango zakho okanye iingxabano ezixhaswe yimimandla okanye ubungqina. Ubugcisa bokukholisa Enyanisweni, kubaluleke kakhulu kwishishini nakubomi boshishini, ngakumbi xa uthetha isivumelwano phakathi kwamaqela amabini.

Kutheni kunzima ukukholisa?

Asikho isidingo sokuxhalaba xa kukho inkcazo nganye yeprojekthi entsha, iingcamango zakho zihlala zijongene nenkcaso yabanye osebenza nabo okanye ophakamileyo. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba ukuchasana neengcinga ezintsha kuyindlela yokwenza i-psychic. Ngokubhekiselele kumalungu okuguquka, iziganeko zokulahlwa zihlala zibonakala. Yingakho izidakamizwa zokuchaswa zichazwe ukuba zithintele ukulahlwa kwegraft ngomzimba.

Ukoyisa le meko yokwaliwa, kubalulekile ke ukuyiphepha impazamo eyenziwa ngabantu abaninzi: eyokukholisa abanye ngokunyanzelisa izimvo zabo ukusuka kwintetho yokuqala. Ewe, intetho elula ephikisanayo neziphumo kunye neziphumo ezilungileyo ezinokuzivelisa yanele umboniso wokuqala. Kuza kuhlala kukho imeko yokwaliwa, kodwa esi sigaba siya kufutshane ngeeveki ezimbalwa kakhulu.

Ukuba iingcinga zakho zifanelekileyo, kuya kuba nzima kulabo abanomdla ukuba bangabandakanywa. Yisiphumo somsebenzi ophantsi komnxibelelwano wakho oza kuwamkela ngokukhawuleza sakho isiphakamiso emva kwenkcazo yesibini. Oorhulumente baye bakuqonda oku kuba kuba kulo mxholo ukuba iiprojekthi zihanjiswa kumaphephandaba ngaphambi kokuzaliseka. Uluntu luya kuba nzima ukuvuma ukulungiswa.

Iingcamango ezinhlanu zeengqondo kwiindlela zokukhohlisa

Njengeenkolelo, ukukholisa kuhlose ukufumana iphrojekthi yakho eyamkelwe ngu-interlocutor yakho okanye ngabaphulaphuli. Ngokungafani nokuxhaphaza okungekho ukuphela kweendlela, ukukholelwa kunye nokukholisa kufuneka kube njalo kwicala lenyaniso. Nazi ezinye iingcamango zengqondo ukufumana amandla okukholisa okanye inkolelo.

I-hypothesis yokwandisa

 Ukugqithisa iingcamango zakho kukuzisa nayiphi na unxibelelwano onayo kunye nomnxibelelwano wakho okanye uluntu, nokuba ngaba imvakalelo, inkcubeko, imilinganiselo ...

Ithiyori yegunya

Ngokomgaqo-siseko, le ngqungquthela iqulethe ukunika ulwazi olupheleleyo, olufanelekileyo kunye nolunenyaniso malunga nesifundo esinikwe. Oku kubonisa ukuba ulungiselele kakuhle intetho yakho kwaye uye wazi kakuhle isifundo kwaye ubuchule bakho bubalulekile.

Ithiyori yokuqala

Le ngqungquthela iquka ukudibanisa ingcinga yakho kunye nenkumbulo ehlala ngokubanzi kuluntu. Ungakwazi ukuthengisa ubisi ngokulula ngokukhupha iintsuku zokungabikho kubantwana ngamathuba akho.

Umgangatho wokuphindaphinda

Yona mgaqo ofanayo "wokuphindaphinda", kodwa engakwazi. Ukuba ufuna ukuba abaphulaphuli bakho banakekele ingcamango yakho okanye isiphakamiso, bhala ingqalelo imilayezo kunye neemfuno zabo.

Umgaqo wokunqongophala

Kuboniswe ukuba into engabonakaliyo, yinto ekhangayo ngakumbi. Ngoku kufuneka ubonise ukuba luncedo kunye nokukwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno okanye ukusombulula iingxaki zomnxibelelwano wakho.

Inkqubo ye-YES SET

Ngoku ukuba uyayiqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni, nantsi inqubo edibaniswa ngokukhawuleza neengcamango zokuphakamisa ezenziwe ngaphambili. I-YES SET iquka ukucela uluhlu lwemibuzo eneempendulo eziza kuba ngu "EYE". Oku kulandelwa kwemvume kukubeka umnxibelelwano okanye abaphulaphuli ngesimo esihle. Oku kubizwa ngokuba ngumqathango.
Lo moya umgaqo kukuthi "EWE" amaxesha umntu eziliqela, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kuqhubeka imvume nesiphakamiso wakho ngokuhambelana imibuzo ucele ngaphambili.

Ukubaluleka kokunxibelelana okungabonakaliyo

Ngokutsho kweengcali, xa uhambisa iiprojekthi zakho, nokuba zisebenza kangakanani izimvo zakho kwaye zeziphi iingxoxo ozenzayo, ukuba zifundwa ngendlela emnyama, awuyi kuba nethuba lincinci lokukholisa umntu othetha naye okanye abaphulaphuli bakho. Ngamagama alula, isikhongozeli sibalulekile njengomxholo, kuba unxibelelwano lumalunga ne-80-90% engathethi. Oku kubandakanya ukujonga, izimbo zomzimba, amandla, ukuphefumla, umgama, ukumamela, ingqalelo kunye nokusebenzisana. Ke hlala ukhumbula ukuba uyakholisa ukuba uqinisekile ngale nto uyithethayo.

Ukuba neelwimi zomzimba ezintle, nangona kunjalo, akuthethi ukuba ukucacisa okungakumbi. Ngokuphathelele ukubeka izenzo zakho ngokuvisisana namazwi akho. Ukuze ufezekise oku, zibuze yona imvakalelo oyifunayo kubaphulaphuli bakho. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhetho lwakho lulungele imeko. Ngokomzekelo, awukwazi ukuba nomdla xa kufuneka uvakalise ukulahlwa kwamanani amaninzi.

Post-show

Ukuba amandla okugweba ayilungile kuwe, landela la macebiso ambalwa ukwenza ingxelo yakho.

  • Cwangcisa amanqaku ngokulungiselela ezinye izikhumbuzo zokukunceda ubone
  • uzilungiselele ngenyameko yakho ngenjongo yokuba uqiniseke ngokwakho,
  • qiniseka ukuba iinjongo zakho zifikeleleka lula kwaye aziwa kwindawo yokuhlala,
  • ukumncumo ngexesha lakho le ntetho, abaphulaphuli bakho baya kwenza kakuhle kwaye baya kuthanda ukuphulaphula. Ukuqeqesha phambi kwesibuko,

Ingaba ungowokuqala, wesibini okanye umtshini wesigxina, ungakulibala ukulandelelana ukuze ubone iziphumo kunye nokuveliswa kwamandla akho okukholelwa. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuba nokukwazi ukugqibelela ulwazi lwakho kunye nolwazi kwintsimi ukuze uhlale wenza ngcono kwaye ubencede bakholise abaphulaphuli bakho, nayiphina iprojekthi oyifakayo.