Umphathi, umphathi kunye ngamanye amaxesha asebenza nabo banokuthatha inxaxheba ekufakweni kwesimo sezulu esiyingozi.
Indlela yokuqaphela abantu abalimaza impilo yenu emsebenzini kwaye ngokukodwa ukuba bawususe njani, nasi iziphakamiso zethu.

Ukwazi umehluko:

Ukuphuma kwimeko yesimo esinetyhefu emsebenzini, kufuneka siqale siqaphele abantu abanoxanduva.
Yaye le nyathelo ayilula, kuba kuyimfuneko ukuhlukanisa abantu abacaphukisayo kuphela abo batshayayo.
Nazi iintlobo ezi-5 zabantu abanetyhefu eyona nto iphephekayo emsebenzini.

  1. I-egocentric : kude kwaye kubanda, abantu abanomdla baxinezelekile. Bambona abanye njengezixhobo nje zokwandisa ukuzithemba.
  2. Umququzeleli okanye intlebendwane: ukuhleba kuthabatha amandla abo kwilishwa labanye kwaye banomdla kuphela kwiintsilelo zobungcali okanye ubomi babucala boogxa babo.
  3. I-pervert : i-pervert ibonwa ngeenjongo zakhe ezimbi, injongo yakhe: ukulimaza abanye ukufumana ukuzonwabisa okuthile. Uyakwazi ukuyiqonda ngokulula kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyichitha.
  4. Abalingani bomntu : abalawuli iimvakalelo zabo baze bahlasele abanye becinga ukuba baxanduva lwabo. Kunzima ukulahla, kuba abalinganiswa badlala nemvakalelo yethu kwaye basenza sizive sinetyala.
  5. Abantu abazidlayo Laba ngabantu abahlala benengxaki enkulu emsebenzini. Bafihla emva kokuzithemba kobuxoki okwenyaniso kubonakalisa ukungathandabuzeki okukhulu.

Indlela yokuphuma kwimeko yesimo esinetyhefu emsebenzini?

Ukusinda kwimozulu esichukumisayo emsebenzini, impazamo yokuqala yokungazibandakanyi ukungena kumdlalo wabo.
Enyanisweni, ukuziphatha kwabo akulandeli ncamango, akunangqiqo, ngoko ke akunamsebenzi ukufuna ukuphendula.

Ngoko baphume kule mimoya engalunganga kuyimfuneko ukuzidelela xa uhlala uqaphele, kuba umntu kufuneka aqaphele iimpawu ezinobungozi ukukhetha indlela engcono yokubalekela kuyo.
Sivame ukucinga ukuba ngenxa yokuba sisebenza nabantu abanetyhefu akunakwenzeka ukubaleka.
Xa umntu onobuthi echongiwe, ukuziphatha kwakhe kuya kuqikelela kwaye ke kulula ukuyiqonda.
Kusivumela ukuba sicinge ngokusengqiqweni ngexesha esifanele sibanyamezele naxa singamele sinyamezele ngalo.

Kuyakwazi ukusetha imida ngokukhawuleza nje xa ukwenza ngokuzimeleyo kwaye uzigcine ngexesha elide.
Kubalulekile ukuba singavunyelwa ukwenza njalo, kugwema ekubeni kwiimeko ezinzima.
Ngokubeka imida, sinokugqiba isigqibo sokuba nini na umntu onobungozi.
Kuya kuba lula ukuphuma kwimozulu yetyhefu.
Eyona nto inzima kukuhlala kwizikhundla zakho kwaye ugcine imida yakho xa umntu ezama ukugqitha kuyo, nto leyo ahlala eyenza.