Funda uku qala ingxoxo ngolimi lwangaphandle kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile zamagama. Kunezinkulumo eziningi zokuqinisekisa ukuthi uyaqondakala, uyaqonda futhi uyangena ezingxoxweni nomunye umuntu. “Angiqondi”, “ungayiphinda”, noma ngisho “ubiza ini lokho” izinkulumo ezilula kakhulu ukuzifunda ezizokusiza ukuzikhulumela ngesiPutukezi sesiNgisi, isiJalimane, iSpanish, isiNtaliyane nesiBrazil.
Kungani futhi ungaqala kanjani ingxoxo ngolunye ulimi?
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uqondwa kahle yi-interlocutor yakho kuyisisekelo sokuhola futhi qala ingxoxo ngolunye ulimi. Ngenkathi uhamba kwelinye izwe lapho ungenalo umyalo omuhle wolimi, ukwazi lesi silulumagama kungasindisa impilo ezimweni eziningi. Ukwazi ukuthi uthi "ungayiphinda yini?", "Ubiza ini?" noma "uyangiqonda?" ingakusiza impela ukucacisa izimo nomunye umuntu futhi uzenze uqondakale.
Impela yazi indlela yokuqala ingxoxo akwanele ukunethezeka kuzo zonke izimo. Ngakho-ke ukuze ufunde olunye ulwazimagama, uthuthukise noma uthuthukise amakhono akho ngolunye ulimi, akufani nokuzijwayeza ukusebenzisa uhlelo lokusebenza.
