Bazi kahle uchungechunge oluvamile lokubhala okunomthelela
Isithako sangempela esiyimfihlo ekukhuphuleni izinga lokubhala kwakho kochwepheshe silele ekwazini intambo evamile. Isitatimende esakheke kahle, esinengqondo ecacile eqondisa umfundi ngobumnene, sizoba nomthelela omkhulu kunochungechunge lwezinto ezihlakazekile.
Ukuze ufeze lokhu, qala ngokuchaza ngokucacile umlayezo wakho oyinhloko esingenisweni. Beka izingqinamba, izinkinga ozobhekana nazo. Kusukela lapho kuya phambili, iqembu ngalinye kuzofanele libalekele, lakhe phezu kwalokhu okungenhla ngendlela ehambisanayo.
Sebenzisa izinguquko ezisebenzayo ukuze uqinisekise ukuqhubeka okuphelele phakathi kwezigaba ezihlukene zokucabanga kwakho. “Okokuqala nje…”, “Ngaphezu kwalokho…”, “Ngakho-ke…” amagama amaningi ahlanganisayo abalulekile ukuze angashiyi zikhala ohlelweni.
Ekupheleni komdlalo ngamunye noma ukulandelana, khumbula lokho osekusunguliwe futhi ucacise isinyathelo esilandelayo esizayo. Akukho ukuphumula okungazelelwe, yonke into kufanele yembuleke ngokugeleza okunengqondo okuphelele, okuhlanganisa amaketanga e-causality.
Ungasishiyi isiphetho esiqinile esizobuyela emaphuzwini abalulekile kuyilapho ugcizelela lesi simiso esiyisiqondiso sigcinwe kuze kube sekupheleni. Umfundi wakho kufanele ahambe ewuqonda kahle umyalezo wakho namandla empikiswano yakho.
Nikeza impilo ekuthuthukeni kwakho
Ukuze ugweme isitatimende esidabukisayo futhi esiyisifundiswa, qiniseka ukuthi ufaka umoya omncane owamukelekayo phakathi nokucabanga kwakho. Lokhu kuzodala kabusha isigqi esithile futhi kugcine ukunaka komfundi ngokushintsha njalo ukuma kwezwe.
Hlangana nezibonelo ukuze ubonise izici ezithile ezibalulekile. Ngokuhlanganisa imiqondo yakho ngamakesi aphathekayo, azoba nenjongo futhi akhumbuleke. Kodwa qaphela ukuthi ungazisakazeli uzacile kakhulu ukuze ungalahlekelwa umkhondo!
Ngokufanayo, ungangabazi ukufaka izibalo ezithile ukuze usekele okunye okushoyo ngamaqiniso akholisayo. Izingcaphuno ezimfushane ezivela kochwepheshe zinganikeza nokuqonda okwengeziwe.
Ungakwazi futhi ukudlala ngesigqi semisho, phakathi kokwakhiwa okufushane ukuze uhlanganise imibono ebalulekile ekhaya, kanye nentuthuko ende ukuze ujulise amaphuzu athile abalulekile. Umoya ozobuyisela amandla kuwo wonke.
Fingqa futhi ukhumbule izinto ezibalulekile
Ukuze uqedele ukuphawula kwakho ngempumelelo, buyela emigqeni emikhulu evelayo. Fingqa izindawo eziyinhloko ezimbozwe ngokugqamisa uhlaka oludumile olugcine ngokuhambisana.
Dwebela ukuthi lolu chungechunge olulawulwa kahle luzokwenza kanjani ukuthi kube nokwenzeka ukuphatha isihloko ngokuphelele, ukumboza wonke ama-engeli kanye nemithelela ngendlela enengqondo nehlelekile.
Sikhumbuze ngamanani abalulekile umfundi azokwazi ukuwathola ngemva kokubonisana nawe. Gcizelela ukubaluleka kwezimali zaleli khono lokwakha intuthuko ecacile yekhwalithi yokubhala kochwepheshe okunomthelela.
Ngokulandela lezi zimiso ezihlakaniphile, abafundi bakho bazokwazi ukubona kalula futhi bagcine ingqikithi yokubhala kwakho, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngamazwi ahlukene. Ukukwazi kwakho uchungechunge oluvamile kuzolenza libe okuqukethwe okukhethekile!
