Ukunambitheka kokuthi "Zikholelwe"
"Zikholelwe Kuwena" kaDkt Joseph Murphy ingaphezu nje kwencwadi yokuzisiza. Ingumhlahlandlela okumema ukuthi uhlole amandla engqondo yakho kanye nomlingo ongenzeka uma ukholelwa kuwena. Kubonisa ukuthi iqiniso lakho lilolongwa izinkolelo zakho, nokuthi lezo zinkolelo zingaguqulwa zibe ikusasa elingcono.
UDkt. Murphy usebenzisa inkolelo-mbono yengqondo engaphansi ukuze achaze ukuthi imicabango nezinkolelo zethu zingathonya kanjani iqiniso lethu. Ngokusho kwakhe, konke esikubonayo, esikwenzayo, esikutholayo noma esihlangabezana nakho kuwumphumela walokho okwenzeka engqondweni yethu enganakile. Ngakho-ke, uma sigcwalisa i-subconscious yethu ngezinkolelo ezinhle, iqiniso lethu lizofakwa nge-positivity.
Umbhali udonsa ezibonelweni eziningi ukuze abonise ukuthi abantu ngabanye baye banqoba kanjani izinselele ezibonakala zingenakunqotshwa ngokushintsha izinkolelo zabo ezingaqondakali. Noma ngabe ufuna ukuthuthukisa isimo sakho sezezimali, impilo yakho, ubudlelwano bakho noma umsebenzi wakho, "Zikholelwe kuwe" ikunikeza amathuluzi wokuhlela kabusha ingqondo yakho engenalutho ukuze ufeze izifiso zakho.
Le ncwadi ayikutsheli nje ukuthi kufanele ukholelwe kuwena, ikutshela ukuthi kanjani. Ikuqondisa ngenqubo yokususa izinkolelo ezinemikhawulo futhi esikhundleni sazo ufake izinkolelo ezisekela izinhloso namaphupho akho. Uhambo oludinga isineke, ukuzijwayeza nokubekezela, kodwa imiphumela ingaba nenguquko ngempela.
Dlula ngale kwamagama ukuze uhlanganise "Kholelwa wena"
UDkt. Murphy uveza emsebenzini wakhe ukuthi ukufunda noma ukulalela le miqondo akwanele ukushintsha impilo yakho. Kufanele uzihlanganise, uziphile. Kulokhu, le ncwadi ihlanganiswe namasu, ukubonwa kanye neziqinisekiso ongazisebenzisa ukuze uguqule izinkolelo zakho ezinganakile. Lawa masu enzelwe ukuthi asetshenziswe njalo, ukuze wakhe umthelela ohlala njalo nonenjongo empilweni yakho.
Enye yezindlela ezinamandla kakhulu ezethulwa nguDkt. Murphy yindlela yokuqinisekisa. Uphikisa ngokuthi iziqinisekiso zingamathuluzi anamandla okuhlela kabusha ingqondo enganakile. Ngokuphindaphinda njalo iziqinisekiso ezinhle, singafaka izinkolelo ezintsha ekwazini kwethu okungase kubonakale eqinisweni lethu.
Ngaphandle kokuqinisekisa, uDkt. Murphy uphinde achaze amandla okubuka ngeso lengqondo. Ngokucabangela ngokucacile lokho ofuna ukukuzuza, ungakwazi ukukholisa ingqondo yakho enganakile ukuthi sekuvele kungokoqobo. Le nkolelo ingasiza ukuheha lokho okufisayo empilweni yakho.
"Kholwa Kuwe" akuyona incwadi ongayifunda kanye bese ukhohlwa. Iwumhlahlandlela okufanele kuxoxwe ngawo njalo, ithuluzi elingakusiza ukuthi uhlele kabusha ingqondo yakho enganakile ukuze ufinyelele imigomo ozibekele yona. Izimfundiso ezikule ncwadi, uma zisetshenziswa futhi zenziwe ngendlela efanele, zinamandla okudala ushintsho lwangempela empilweni yakho.
Kungani "Kholwa kuwe" kuyimfuneko
Izimfundiso namasu anikezwa uDkt. Murphy awaphelelwa yisikhathi. Ezweni lapho ukungabaza nokungaqiniseki kungangena kalula emiqondweni yethu futhi kuvimbe izenzo zethu, "Zikholelwe Kuwe" inikeza amathuluzi aphathekayo okukhulisa ukuzethemba kwethu nokuzethemba.
UDkt. Murphy wethula indlela eqabulayo yokuhlomisa umuntu siqu. Ayinikezi ukulungisa okusheshayo noma isithembiso sempumelelo esheshayo. Esikhundleni salokho, igcizelela umsebenzi oqhubekayo, oqaphelayo odingekayo ukuze uguqule izinkolelo zethu ezingenalutho, ngakho-ke, iqiniso lethu. Kuyisifundo esisabalulekile namuhla, futhi mhlawumbe iminyaka eminingi ezayo.
Le ncwadi ingase ibe usizo ngokukhethekile kulabo abafuna ukunqoba izithiyo zomuntu siqu noma zomsebenzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho, ukunqoba ukwesaba ukwehluleka, noma umane nje ube nesimo sengqondo esiqondile ngokuphila, iseluleko sikaDkt. Murphy singakuqondisa.
Ungakhohlwa, izahluko zokuqala zethi “Zikholelwe Kuwena” ziyatholakala kuvidiyo engezansi. Ukuze uthole ukuqonda okujulile kwemfundiso ka-Murphy, kunconywa ukuthi uyifunde yonke incwadi. Amandla okuqaphela makhulu futhi awahlolisiswa, futhi le ncwadi ingase ibe umhlahlandlela oyidingayo ukuze uqale uhambo lwakho lokuziguqula.
