Cabanga ngolunye ulimi ulimi lwebele luyinselele lapho ufunda olunye ulimi. Uma ungazange ube lapho ngaphambili, uzothola ukuthi uzofuna ukuhumusha yonke into esekhanda lakho, kusuka olimini lwakho oluqondiwe kuya olimini lwakho lwendabuko. Kungashesha kudle isikhathi, futhi kungasebenzi kahle! Ngakho-ke ungakugwema kanjani ukwenza lokho bese uthola ukushelela nokuzethemba? U-Abbe wabelana ngezindlela ezithile ezingakusiza ukuthi uqale ngazo cabanga ngolimi lwakho. Uzokunikeza nezeluleko ku yeka ukuhumusha ekhanda lakho.

Misa ukuhumusha ekhanda lakho: amathiphu ayi-6 wokucabanga ngolunye ulimi^

Ukuhumusha ekhanda lomuntu kungaba yinkinga ngezizathu ezimbili. Okokuqala, kuthatha isikhathi. Futhi kungakhathaza futhi kudumaze lapho uthola ukuthi wephuze kakhulu ukujoyina ingxoxo. Okwesibili, uma uhumusha ekhanda lakho esikhundleni sokucabanga ngqo olimini lwakho oluqondiwe (isiNgisi noma ngenye indlela), imisho yakho izobukeka iphoqelekile futhi ingemvelo kangako ngoba ilingisa ukwakheka kwemisho nezinkulumo ezivela olimini lwakho lwendabuko. Njengoba ungacabanga, lokhu ngokuvamile akuyona into ehamba phambili