Gano fasahar rashin ba da fuck tare da Mark Manson

Ɗaya daga cikin mahimman ra'ayoyin Mark Manson's "Kwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙarfafawa ) ya koya don yin rayuwa mai gamsarwa. Sabanin abin da mutum zai iya tunani, yin la'akari ba yana nufin zama ko'ina ba, a'a yana nufin zaɓen abubuwan da muke ba da mahimmanci.

Ganin Manson maganin saƙon da aka saba ci gaban mutum wanda ke ƙarfafa mutane su kasance masu kyau koyaushe kuma suna bin farin ciki mara iyaka. Akasin haka, Manson ya yi iƙirarin cewa mabuɗin rayuwa mai daɗi da gamsarwa ya ta'allaka ne cikin koyon karɓuwa da rungumar gazawa, tsoro da rashin tabbas.

A cikin wannan littafin, Manson yana ba da rashin jin daɗi kuma, a wasu lokuta, da gangan na tsokana wanda ke ƙalubalantar imaninmu game da abin da ke da mahimmanci a rayuwa. Maimakon da'awar cewa "komai yana yiwuwa," Manson ya ba da shawarar cewa ya kamata mu yarda da kasawarmu kuma mu koyi zama da su. Ya tabbatar da cewa ta hanyar yarda da laifuffukanmu, kurakurai da kurakuranmu ne za mu iya samun farin ciki na gaskiya da gamsuwa.

Sake Tunanin Farin Ciki da Nasara tare da Mark Manson

A cikin mabiyi na "Ƙararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwa na Ƙarƙashin Ƙarƙashin Ƙarƙashin Ƙarƙashin Ƙarƙashin Ƙarƙashin Ƙarƙashin Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwar Ƙaƙwalwa ), Manson ya yi nazari mai zurfi game da al'adun zamani game da farin ciki da nasara. Ya yi nuni da cewa bautar da ba tare da wani sharadi ba da kuma sha’awar cimma nasara akai-akai ba kawai rashin gaskiya ba ne, har ma da illa.

Manson yayi magana game da haɗarin al'adun "koyaushe mafi" wanda ke sa mutane suyi imani cewa koyaushe dole ne su kasance mafi kyau, yin ƙari, da ƙari. Wannan tunani, in ji shi, yana haifar da rashin gamsuwa da gazawa, domin koyaushe za a sami wani abu da za a cimma.

Madadin haka, Manson ya ba da shawarar yin bitar ƙimar mu da dakatar da auna darajar kanmu ta hanyar ma'auni na nasara, kamar matsayin zamantakewa, dukiya, ko shahara. A cewarsa, ta wurin gane da kuma yarda da iyakokinmu, koyan a’a da kuma zaɓen yaƙe-yaƙenmu da gangan ne za mu iya samun gamsuwa na gaske.

Muhimman Darussa daga "Kwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwararren Ƙwaƙwalwa"

Muhimmin gaskiyar da Manson ke son isarwa ga masu karatunsa ita ce rayuwa ba koyaushe take da sauƙi ba, kuma hakan ba shi da kyau. Neman farin ciki akai-akai a matsayin makasudin karshe shine neman kayar da kai domin yana watsi da kima da darussan da zasu iya fitowa daga matsaloli da kalubale.

Falsafar Manson tana ƙarfafa masu karatu su fahimci cewa ciwo, gazawa, da rashin jin daɗi wani sashe ne na rayuwa. Maimakon mu guje wa waɗannan abubuwan, ya kamata mu yarda da su a matsayin abubuwa masu muhimmanci na ci gabanmu.

Daga ƙarshe, Manson yana ƙarfafa mu mu rungumi abubuwa marasa daɗi na rayuwa, mu yarda da ajizancinmu, kuma mu fahimci cewa ba koyaushe muke zama na musamman ba. Ta wajen karɓar waɗannan gaskiyar ne za mu sami ’yancin yin rayuwa mai gamsarwa.

Kuna iya kallon bidiyon da ke ƙasa wanda ke gabatar da surori na farko na littafin. Koyaya, wannan baya maye gurbin cikakken karatun littafin da nake ƙarfafa ku don samun.