Ego, mdani woopsa
M'buku lake lokopa, "Ego ndi Mdani: Zolepheretsa Kuchita Bwino," Ryan Holiday akudzutsa chopinga chachikulu chomwe nthawi zambiri chimayima panjira yopambana: kudzikonda kwathu. Mosiyana ndi zomwe munthu angaganize, kudzikonda si bwenzi. Pali mphamvu yobisika koma yowononga yomwe ingatikokere zolinga zathu zenizeni.
Tchuthi chimatipempha kuti timvetsetse momwe ego imawonekera m'njira zitatu: chikhumbo, kupambana ndi kulephera. Tikamalakalaka zinthu zinazake, kudzikuza kwathu kungatichititse kuti tizidziona kuti ndife osafunika komanso odzikuza. Munthawi yachipambano, kudzikuza kungatipangitse kukhala osasamala, kutilepheretsa kutsata chitukuko chathu. Potsirizira pake, pamene tiyang’anizana ndi kulephera, kudzikuza kungatisonkhezere kuimba mlandu ena, kumatilepheretsa kuphunzira pa zolakwa zathu.
Pochepetsa mawonetseredwe awa, wolemba amatipatsa malingaliro atsopano amomwe timafikira zokhumba zathu, kupambana kwathu ndi zolephera zathu. Malingana ndi iye, ndi kuphunzira kuzindikira ndi kulamulira ego wathu kuti tingathe kupita patsogolo kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu.
Kudzichepetsa ndi Kudziletsa: Makiyi Olimbana ndi Ego
Ryan Holiday akuumirira m'buku lake kufunikira kwa kudzichepetsa ndi chilango kuti athetse kudzikuza. Mfundo ziwirizi, zomwe nthawi zina zimawoneka ngati zachikale m'dziko lathu lopikisana kwambiri, ndizofunikira kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino.
Kudzichepetsa kumatithandiza kukhala ndi masomphenya omveka bwino a mphamvu zathu ndi malire athu. Zimatilepheretsa kugwera mumsampha wochita zinthu monyanyira, kumene timaganiza kuti tikudziwa zonse ndipo tili ndi zonse zomwe tingathe. Chodabwitsa n’chakuti, pokhala odzichepetsa, timakhala omasuka kuphunzira ndi kuwongolera, zomwe zingatipititse patsogolo kuchita bwino kwathu.
Komano, chilango ndicho mphamvu imene imatithandiza kuchita zinthu mosasamala kanthu za zopinga ndi zovuta. Kudzikuza kungatipangitse kuyang'ana njira zachidule kapena kutaya mtima tikakumana ndi mavuto. Koma mwa kukulitsa mwambo, tingapirire ndi kupitirizabe kuyesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu, ngakhale zitakhala zovuta.
Potilimbikitsa kukhala ndi mfundo izi, "Ego ndi mdani" imatipatsa njira yeniyeni yogonjetsera chopinga chathu chachikulu kuti tipambane: tokha.
Kugonjetsa Ego Kupyolera mu Kudziwa Bwino ndi Kuchita Chifundo
"Ego ndi Mdani" akugogomezera kudzidziwitsa komanso kuchita Chifundo ngati zida zotsutsa kudzikonda. Pomvetsetsa zokhumba zathu ndi makhalidwe athu, tikhoza kubwerera m'mbuyo ndikuwona momwe kudzikuza kungatipangitse kuchita zinthu zopanda phindu.
Holiday imaperekanso kuyesera kuchitira ena chifundo, zomwe zingatithandize kuwona kupyola pa nkhawa zathu komanso kumvetsetsa malingaliro ndi zokumana nazo za ena. Kuwona kwakukulu kumeneku kungachepetse kukhudzidwa kwa ego pa zochita zathu ndi zosankha zathu.
Choncho, pothetsa kudzikuza ndi kuyang'ana pa kudzichepetsa, kudziletsa, kudzidziwitsa, ndi chifundo, tikhoza kupanga malo oganiza bwino komanso zochita zopindulitsa. Ndi njira Holiday imalimbikitsa osati kuti apambane, komanso kukhala ndi moyo wokhazikika komanso wokhutiritsa.
Chifukwa chake khalani omasuka kufufuza "Ego ndi Mdani" kuti mudziwe momwe mungagonjetsere kudzikonda kwanu ndikutsegula njira yopambana. Ndipo ndithudi, kumbukirani izomvetserani mitu yoyamba ya bukuli sichimaloŵa m’malo mwa kuŵerenga mozama kwa bukhu lonselo.
Kupatula apo, kudzimvetsetsa bwino ndi ulendo womwe umafunikira nthawi, khama komanso kusinkhasinkha, ndipo palibe chitsogozo chabwino paulendowu kuposa "The Ego is the Enemy" wolemba Ryan Holiday.
