Gonjetsani mantha anu
Mu "Kusankha Kulimba Mtima," Ryan Holiday akutilimbikitsa kuyang'anizana ndi mantha athu ndikukumbatira kulimba mtima ngati chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wathu. Bukuli, lozama mu nzeru zakuya ndi malingaliro apadera, likutilimbikitsa kuchoka m'malo athu otonthoza ndi kuvomereza kukayikakayika. Wolembayo akufotokoza mfundo yake pogwiritsa ntchito zitsanzo za anthu amene anasonyeza kulimba mtima pa nthawi ya mavuto.
Tchuthi chimatipempha kuti tiganizire kulimba mtima osati kokha ngati khalidwe losiririka, komanso lofunika kuzindikira kuthekera kwathu. Ikugogomezera kufunika kothana ndi mantha athu, kaya ang'onoang'ono kapena akulu, ndikuchitapo kanthu kuti tithane nawo. Njirayi, ngakhale kuti ndi yovuta, ndi gawo lofunikira paulendo wopita ku chitukuko chaumwini ndi kudzizindikira.
Mlembiyo akuwonetsanso kuti kulimba mtima sikutanthauza kusakhalapo kwa mantha, koma kutha kukumana ndi mantha ndikupitabe patsogolo. Iye amatikumbutsa kuti kulimba mtima ndi luso limene munthu angakulitsire m’kupita kwa nthawi ndi khama.
Tchuthi chimapereka zida ndi njira zothandiza kuti tikulitse kulimba mtima m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku. Iye akugogomezera kufunika kochita ngozi zoŵerengeredwa, kuvomereza kulephera monga zotheka ndi kuphunzira pa zolakwa zathu.
Mu "Choice of Courage", Holiday imapereka masomphenya olimbikitsa a kulimba mtima ndi mphamvu zamkati. Zimatikumbutsa kuti kuchita zinthu molimba mtima kulikonse, kaya zazikulu kapena zazing’ono, kumatifikitsa kufupi ndi munthu amene tikufuna kukhala. M’dziko limene nthaŵi zambiri limakhala ndi mantha ndi kukayikakayika, bukuli limapereka chikumbutso champhamvu cha kufunika kwa kulimba mtima ndi kupirira.
Kufunika kwa Umphumphu
Mfundo ina yofunika imene yatchulidwa m’buku lakuti “Kusankha Kulimba Mtima” ndiyo kufunika kwa kukhulupirika. Wolemba, Ryan Holiday, akuti kulimba mtima kwenikweni kwagona pakusunga umphumphu muzochitika zonse.
Holiday imatsutsa kuti umphumphu si nkhani ya makhalidwe abwino kapena makhalidwe, koma ndi mtundu wa kulimba mtima pawokha. Umphumphu umafuna kulimba mtima kuti munthu atsatire mfundo za makhalidwe abwino, ngakhale zitakhala zovuta kapena zosatchuka. Iye ananena kuti anthu amene amasonyeza umphumphu nthawi zambiri amakhala olimba mtima.
Wolembayo akuumirira kuti umphumphu ndi chinthu chomwe tiyenera kuchikonda ndikuchiteteza. Amalimbikitsa owerenga kutsatira mfundo zawo, ngakhale atakumana ndi mavuto kapena kunyozedwa. Kusunga umphumphu wathu, ngakhale titakumana ndi zovuta zazikulu, ndi kulimba mtima kwenikweni, adatero.
Tchuthi chimatipatsa zitsanzo za anthu amene anasonyeza kukhulupirika ngakhale kuti ankakumana ndi mavuto. Nkhani zimenezi zikusonyeza mmene umphumphu ungakhalire chounikira m’nthaŵi zamdima, kutsogolera zochita zathu ndi kupanga zisankho.
Pamapeto pake, “Kusankha Kulimba Mtima” kumatilimbikitsa kuti tisasiye kukhulupirika kwathu. Tikamachita zimenezi, timakhala olimba mtima n’kukhala anthu amphamvu, olimba mtima komanso odziwa zinthu zambiri. Umphumphu ndi kulimba mtima zimayendera limodzi, ndipo Tchuthi chimatikumbutsa kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi luso la kusonyeza mikhalidwe yonse iwiri.
Kulimba mtima pamavuto
Mu "Kusankha Kulimba Mtima", Holiday imakambirananso lingaliro la kulimba mtima mukukumana ndi mavuto. Iye amatsimikizira kuti ndi m’nthaŵi zovuta kwambiri pamene kulimba mtima kwathu kwenikweni kumavumbulidwa.
Tchuthi chimatipempha kuti tiwone zovuta osati ngati chopinga, koma ngati mwayi wakukula ndi kuphunzira. Iyu wangukamba kuti pa nyengu yo takumana ndi masuzgu, tikhumbika kusankha pakati pa kuchita mantha pamwenga kuwuka ndi kuŵanaŵaniya chitima. Iye akuti kusankha kumeneku kumatsimikizira kuti ndife ndani komanso mmene timakhalira pa moyo wathu.
Amafufuza lingaliro la kulimba mtima, akutsutsa kuti kulimba mtima sikuli kopanda mantha, koma kutha kupitiriza ngakhale. Mwa kukulitsa kulimba mtima, timakulitsa kulimba mtima kulimbana ndi zovuta zilizonse, ndikusintha zovuta kukhala mwayi wakukula kwaumwini.
Tchuthi chimagwiritsa ntchito zitsanzo za mbiri yakale kuti zifotokoze mfundozi, kusonyeza momwe atsogoleri akuluakulu agwiritsira ntchito zovuta monga polowera ku ukulu. Zimatikumbutsa kuti kulimba mtima ndi khalidwe limene munthu angakulitsire ndi kulimbitsidwa mwa chizolowezi ndi kutsimikiza mtima.
Pamapeto pake, "Kusankha Kulimba Mtima" ndi chikumbutso champhamvu cha mphamvu yamkati yomwe imakhala mwa aliyense wa ife. Amatilimbikitsa kukumbatira mavuto, kusonyeza umphumphu, ndi kusankha kulimba mtima zivute zitani. Amatipatsa malingaliro olimbikitsa ndi odzutsa chilakolako cha zimene kulimba mtima kumatanthauza.
