Pezani mtendere wamumtima ndi "Quietude"
M'dziko lachipwirikiti lomwe likukulirakulira, Eckhart Tolle akutiitana, m'buku lake "Quietude", kuti tipeze gawo lina la moyo: mtendere wamkati. Amatifotokozera kuti mtendere uwu si kufuna kwakunja, koma kukhalapo kwa ife tokha.
Malinga ndi Tolle, kudziwika kwathu sikungotengera malingaliro athu kapena malingaliro athu, komanso kuzama kwa umunthu wathu. Amatcha gawoli "Kudzikonda" ndi likulu "S" kuti tisiyanitse ndi chithunzi chomwe tili nacho cha ife eni. Kwa iye, ndikulumikizana ndi "Self" iyi kuti titha kufikira bata ndi bata mtendere wamumtima.
Chinthu choyamba chokhudza kulumikizana uku ndikuzindikira nthawi yomwe ilipo, kukhala ndi moyo mokwanira mphindi iliyonse popanda kupsinjika ndi malingaliro kapena malingaliro. Kukhalapo kumeneku panthawiyi, Tolle amawona ngati njira yoletsa kuyenda kosalekeza kwa malingaliro omwe amatichotsa ku chikhalidwe chathu.
Imatilimbikitsa kulabadira maganizo athu ndi mmene tikumvera popanda kuwaweruza kapena kuwalola kutilamulira. Mwa kuwawona, tingazindikire kuti si ife, koma zopangidwa ndi malingaliro athu. Ndi kupanga danga ili loyang'ana kuti tiyambe kusiya kudziwitsidwa ndi ego yathu.
Ufulu ku chizindikiritso cha ego
Mu "Quietude", Eckhart Tolle amatipatsa zida kuti tisiye kudzizindikiritsa ndi kudzikonda kwathu ndikulumikizananso ndi zenizeni zathu. Kwa iye, ego sichinthu koma kumangidwa kwamaganizo komwe kumatichotsa ku mtendere wamkati.
Iye akufotokoza kuti kudzikonda kwathu kumadzetsa maganizo oipa, monga mantha, nkhawa, mkwiyo, nsanje kapena mkwiyo. Maganizo amenewa nthawi zambiri amakhala ogwirizana ndi zakale kapena zam'tsogolo, ndipo amatilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo mokwanira pakali pano. Kwiinda mukuzyiba bwiinguzi bwesu, tulakonzya kugwasyigwa kwiinda mukubikkila maano kuzyintu zibyaabi, alimwi tulabikkila maano kuzintu nzyotucita.
Malinga ndi kunena kwa Tolle, imodzi mwa makiyi omasuka ku ego ndiyo mchitidwe wosinkhasinkha. Mchitidwe umenewu umatipatsa mwayi wopanga danga la bata m’maganizo mwathu, malo amene tingathe kuona maganizo athu ndi mmene tikumvera popanda kugwirizana nazo. Pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse, titha kuyamba kudzipatula ku ego yathu ndikulumikizana ndi zenizeni zathu.
Koma Tolle akutikumbutsa kuti kusinkhasinkha si mathero pakokha, koma njira yopezera bata. Cholinga sikuchotsa malingaliro athu onse, koma kuti tisakhalenso mumsampha wodziwika ndi ego.
Kuzindikira chikhalidwe chathu chenicheni
Podzipatula ku ego, Eckhart Tolle amatitsogolera ku kuzindikira za chikhalidwe chathu chenicheni. Malinga ndi iye, umunthu wathu weniweni uli mkati mwathu, umakhalapo nthawi zonse, koma nthawi zambiri umabisika chifukwa chodziwika ndi ego yathu. Mfundo imeneyi ndi mkhalidwe wabata ndi mtendere wakuya, woposa kuganiza kapena kutengeka kulikonse.
Tolle akutiitana kuti tiwone malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu popanda kuweruza kapena kutsutsa, monga mboni yachete. Mwa kubwerera m’mbuyo m’maganizo mwathu, timazindikira kuti sitili malingaliro athu kapena malingaliro athu, koma kuzindikira kumene kumawapenya. Ndi chidziwitso chomasula chomwe chimatsegula khomo la bata ndi mtendere wamkati.
Kuphatikiza apo, Tolle akuwonetsa kuti kukhala chete sikungokhala mkati, koma ndi njira yakukhala mdziko. Mwa kudzimasula tokha ku ego, timakhala opezekapo komanso otcheru kwambiri pa nthawi ino. Timazindikira kwambiri kukongola ndi ungwiro wa mphindi iliyonse, ndipo timayamba kukhala mogwirizana ndi kuyenda kwa moyo.
Mwachidule, "Quietude" yolembedwa ndi Eckhart Tolle ndi pempho loti tidziŵe zenizeni zathu ndikudzimasula tokha ku ukapolo wa ego. Ndi chiwongolero chamtengo wapatali kwa aliyense amene akufuna kupeza mtendere wamumtima ndikukhala ndi moyo mokwanira panthawi ino.
Kanema wa mitu yoyamba ya "Quietude" yolembedwa ndi Eckhart Tolle, yomwe yaperekedwa apa, siyilowa m'malo mwa kuwerenga kwathunthu kwa bukhuli, imakwaniritsa ndipo imabweretsa malingaliro atsopano. Tengani nthawi yoti mumvetsere, ndi chuma chenicheni chanzeru chomwe chikukuyembekezerani.
