Chizolowezi 1 - Khalani okhazikika: Yang'aniraninso moyo wanu

Ngati mukuyang'ana kuti mukwaniritse maloto anu ndikuchita bwino m'moyo, Stephen R. Covey's "The 7 Habits of Highly Achievers" amapereka uphungu wofunikira. Mu gawo loyambali, tipeza chizolowezi choyamba: kukhala wolimbikira.

Kukhala wokhazikika kumatanthauza kumvetsetsa kuti ndinu woyendetsa sitima yanu. Ndinu olamulira moyo wanu. Sikuti kungochitapo kanthu, koma kumvetsetsa kuti muli ndi udindo pazochitazo. Kuzindikira kumeneku kungakhale kothandizira kwambiri kusintha.

Kodi munayamba mwamvapo chifundo cha mikhalidwe, mutsekeredwa ndi kusokonekera kwa moyo? Covey amatilimbikitsa kuti tiziona zinthu mosiyana. Tikhoza kusankha zimene tingachite pazimenezi. Mwachitsanzo, tikakumana ndi vuto, tingalione ngati mwayi woti tikule m’malo mokhala chopinga chosatheka kuwathetsa.

Zochita: Kuti muyambe kuchita chizoloŵezi chimenechi, ganizirani za posachedwapa pamene munadziona kuti mulibe chochita. Tsopano ganizirani momwe mukanachitira zinthu mwachangu. Kodi mukanachita chiyani kuti zotsatira zake zikhale zabwino? Lembani mfundo zimenezi ndipo ganizirani mmene mungawagwiritsire ntchito nthawi ina mukadzakumananso ndi vuto ngati lomweli.

Kumbukirani, kusintha kumayamba ndi masitepe ang'onoang'ono. Tsiku lililonse, fufuzani mipata yolimbikira. Pakapita nthawi, chizoloŵezichi chidzakhazikika ndipo mudzayamba kuona kusintha kwabwino m'moyo wanu.

Osamangoyang'ana moyo wanu kumbali. Tengani ulamuliro, khalani okhazikika ndikuyamba kukwaniritsa maloto anu lero.

Chizolowezi 2 - Yambani ndi mapeto m'maganizo: Tanthauzirani masomphenya anu

Tiyeni tipitilize ulendo wathu kudziko la “Zizolowezi 7 za Anthu Ochita Bwino Kwambiri”. Chizoloŵezi chachiwiri chimene Covey akutchula ndi "kuyambira ndi mapeto m'maganizo". Ndi chizoloŵezi chomwe chimafuna kumveka bwino, masomphenya ndi kutsimikiza mtima.

Kodi moyo wanu ukupita kuti? Muli ndi masomphenya otani pa tsogolo lanu? Ngati sukudziwa kumene ukupita, udzadziwa bwanji kuti wafika kumeneko? Kuyambira ndi mapeto m'maganizo kumatanthauza kulongosola momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa. Ndikumvetsetsanso kuti chilichonse chomwe mukuchita lero chimakufikitsani pafupi kapena kutali ndi masomphenyawa.

Onani m'maganizo mwanu kupambana kwanu. Kodi maloto anu okondedwa ndi ati? Kodi mukufuna kukwaniritsa chiyani pamoyo wanu, pantchito yanu kapena mdera lanu? Pokhala ndi masomphenya omveka bwino a zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa, mukhoza kugwirizanitsa zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi masomphenyawo.

Zochita: Tengani kamphindi kuti muganizire za masomphenya anu. Kodi mukufuna kukwaniritsa chiyani m'moyo? Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe mumazikonda? Lembani chiganizo cha cholinga chanu chomwe chikufotokoza mwachidule masomphenya anu ndi zikhulupiliro zanu. Onani mawu awa tsiku lililonse kuti akuthandizeni kukhala olunjika komanso ogwirizana.

Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti "kuyambira ndi mapeto m'maganizo" sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala ndi tsatanetsatane wa ulendo wanu. M'malo mwake, ndi kumvetsetsa komwe mukupita ndikupanga zisankho zogwirizana ndi masomphenyawo.

Dzifunseni nokha: kodi zonse zomwe mukuchita lero zikukufikitsani kufupi ndi masomphenya anu? Ngati sichoncho, ndi njira ziti zomwe mungatenge kuti muyang'anenso ndikuyandikira cholinga chanu?

Kukhala wokhazikika komanso kuyambira kumapeto ndi malingaliro awiri amphamvu omwe angakuthandizeni kuwongolera moyo wanu ndikukwaniritsa maloto anu. Ndiye masomphenya anu ndi otani?

Chizoloŵezi Chachitatu - Kuyika Zinthu Zoyamba Patsogolo: Kuika patsogolo Kuti Mupambane

Tsopano tikufufuza chizolowezi chachitatu chofotokozedwa mu "Zizolowezi 7 za Anthu Ogwira Ntchito Kwambiri" lolemba Stephen R. Covey, lomwe ndi "Ikani Zinthu Zoyambirira". Chizoloŵezichi chimayang'ana pakugwiritsa ntchito bwino nthawi yanu ndi chuma chanu.

Kukhala wolimbikira komanso kukhala ndi masomphenya omveka bwino a komwe mukupita ndi njira ziwiri zofunika kuti mukwaniritse maloto anu. Komabe, popanda kukonzekera bwino ndi kulinganiza bwino, nkosavuta kudodometsedwa kapena kusochera.

“Kuika zinthu zofunika patsogolo” kumatanthauza kuika patsogolo zinthu zimene zimakufikitsani kufupi ndi masomphenya anu. Ndi za kusiyanitsa pakati pa zomwe ziri zofunika ndi zomwe siziri, ndi kuika nthawi yanu ndi mphamvu zanu pazinthu zomwe ziridi zatanthauzo ndi zomwe zimathandizira ku zolinga zanu za nthawi yaitali.

Zochita: Ganizirani zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndi ntchito ziti zomwe zimakufikitsani pafupi ndi masomphenya anu? Izi ndi ntchito zanu zofunika. Kodi ndi ntchito ziti zomwe zimakusokonezani kapena zomwe sizikuwonjezera phindu pa moyo wanu? Izi ndi ntchito zanu zosafunika kwenikweni. Yesetsani kuchepetsa kapena kuthetsa izi ndikuganizira kwambiri ntchito zofunika.

Kumbukirani, sikuti ndikuchita zambiri, koma kuchita zomwe zili zofunika. Mwa kuika zinthu zofunika patsogolo, mungatsimikize kuti khama lanu likuika maganizo pa zimene zili zofunika kwambiri.

Yakwana nthawi yoti muyang'anire, ikani zofunika zanu ndikuchitapo kanthu pafupi ndi kukwaniritsa maloto anu. Ndiye zinthu zoyamba kwa inu ndi ziti?

Chizoloŵezi cha 4 - Ganizirani kupambana-kupambana: Khalani ndi malingaliro ochuluka

Tikufika ku chizoloŵezi chachinayi mu kufufuza kwathu kwa buku la "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" lolembedwa ndi Stephen R. Covey. Chizolowezi ichi ndi cha "Kuganiza kupambana-kupambana". Chizolowezichi chimazungulira lingaliro lakukhala ndi malingaliro ochulukirapo ndikufunafuna mayankho opindulitsa onse.

Covey akusonyeza kuti nthaŵi zonse tiyenera kufunafuna njira zothetsera mavuto amene angapindulitse onse okhudzidwa, osati kungofuna kudzipezera tokha zambiri. Izi zimafuna kuchuluka kwamalingaliro, komwe timakhulupirira kuti pali chipambano chokwanira komanso zothandizira aliyense.

Kuganiza zopambana-kupambana kumatanthauza kumvetsetsa kuti kupambana kwanu sikuyenera kuwononga ena. M'malo mwake, mutha kugwira ntchito ndi ena kuti mupange zinthu zopambana.

Zochita: Ganizirani za posachedwa pomwe munasemphana maganizo kapena kusamvana. Kodi mukanafikira bwanji ndi malingaliro opambana? Kodi mukanapeza bwanji yankho lomwe lingapindulitse onse okhudzidwa?

Kuganiza zopambana-kupambana sikutanthauza kungoyesetsa kuchita bwino, komanso kuthandiza ena kuchita bwino. Ndi za kumanga maubwenzi abwino ndi okhalitsa ozikidwa pa kulemekezana ndi kupindulana.

Kukhala ndi malingaliro opambana-kupambana sikungakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu zokha, komanso kupanga malo abwino komanso ogwirizana. Ndiye mungayambe bwanji kuganiza kupambana-kupambana lero?

Chizolowezi 5 - Fufuzani choyamba kuti mumvetsetse, kenako kuti mumvetsetse: Luso lolankhulana mwachifundo

Chizoloŵezi chotsatira chomwe timafufuza kuchokera ku "Zizolowezi za 7 za Anthu Ogwira Ntchito Kwambiri" ndi Stephen R. Covey ndi "Fufuzani choyamba kuti mumvetse, ndiye kuti mumvetsetse". Chizoloŵezi chimenechi chimakhazikika pa kulankhulana ndi kumvetsera mwachifundo.

Kumvetsera mwachifundo ndi kumvetsera ndi cholinga chomvetsetsa mmene ena akumvera komanso mmene amaonera zinthu popanda kuweruza. Ndi luso lamtengo wapatali lomwe lingathe kusintha kwambiri maubwenzi anu apamtima ndi akatswiri.

Kufunafuna kumvetsetsa choyamba kumatanthauza kuika pambali malingaliro ndi malingaliro anu kuti mumvetse bwino ena. Pamafunika kuleza mtima, kumasuka maganizo ndi chifundo.

Zochita: Ganizirani zomwe mwakambirana posachedwa. Kodi munamvetseradi munthu winayo, kapena munaika maganizo anu pa zimene mudzanene pambuyo pake? Yesani kuyesezera kumvetsera mwachifundo m'makambirano anu otsatira.

Pamenepo kufunafuna kukumvetsetsani kumatanthauza kufotokoza malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu mwaulemu ndi momveka bwino. Ndiko kuzindikira kuti malingaliro anu ndi ovomerezeka ndipo ndi oyenera kumveka.

Kufunafuna choyamba kumvetsetsa, kenako kumvetsetsa ndi njira yamphamvu yolumikizirana yomwe ingasinthe ubale wanu ndikukuthandizani kuchita bwino m'mbali zonse za moyo wanu. Kodi mwakonzeka kubweretsa kuya kwatsopano pamayanjano anu?

Chizoloŵezi Chachisanu ndi chimodzi - Kugwirizanitsa: Kugwirizanitsa Mphamvu Kuti Mupambane

Polankhula ndi chizolowezi chachisanu ndi chimodzi cha buku lakuti "Zizolowezi 7 za Anthu Ogwira Ntchito Kwambiri" lolemba Stephen R. Covey, tikufufuza lingaliro la mgwirizano. Synergy amatanthauza kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti akwaniritse zinthu zomwe palibe munthu angakwanitse yekha.

Synergy imachokera ku lingaliro lakuti zonsezo ndi zazikulu kuposa kuchuluka kwa zigawo zake. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, pamene tigwirizanitsa mphamvu ndi kuphatikiza luso lathu lapadera ndi luso, timatha kuchita zambiri kuposa ngati tikugwira ntchito tokha.

Kugwirizana kuti mupambane sikungotanthauza kugwirizana pa ntchito kapena ntchito. Zimatanthauzanso kutsimikizira ndi kukondwerera kusiyana kwa wina ndi mzake ndikugwiritsa ntchito kusiyana kumeneku ngati mphamvu.

Zochita: Ganizirani za posachedwapa pamene munagwira ntchito monga gulu. Kodi mgwirizanowu unathandizira bwanji zotsatira zake? Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji lingaliro la mgwirizano pazinthu zina za moyo wanu?

Kupeza synergy sikophweka nthawi zonse. Pamafunika ulemu, kumasuka ndi kulankhulana. Koma tikakwanitsa kupanga mgwirizano weniweni, timapeza mulingo watsopano waluso ndi zokolola. Ndiye, kodi mwakonzeka kujowina magulu kuti muchite bwino?

Chizolowezi 7 - Kunola Macheka: Kufunika Kopitiriza Kupititsa patsogolo

Chizolowezi chachisanu ndi chiwiri komanso chomaliza mu Stephen R. Covey's "Zizolowezi 7 za Anthu Ogwira Ntchito Kwambiri" ndi "Kunola Macheka". Chizolowezichi chikugogomezera kufunikira kwa kuwongolera mosalekeza m'mbali zonse za moyo wathu.

Lingaliro la "kunola macheka" ndikuti ndikofunikira kuti nthawi zonse tizisamalira komanso kukonza zinthu zathu zazikulu: tokha. Zimakhudzanso kusamalira matupi athu pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kudya zakudya zopatsa thanzi, malingaliro athu kudzera mu maphunziro a moyo wonse, miyoyo yathu kudzera muzochita zatanthauzo, ndi maubale athu kudzera mukulankhulana mwachifundo.

Kunola macheka si ntchito yanthawi imodzi, koma ndi chizoloŵezi cha moyo wonse. Ndi chilango chomwe chimafuna kudzipereka pakudzitukumula ndikudzikonzanso.

Zochita: Dziyeseni moona mtima moyo wanu. Ndi mbali ziti zomwe mukufuna kukonza? Pangani ndondomeko yoti "munole macheka anu" m'malo awa.

Stephen R. Covey akuwonetsa kuti tikaphatikiza zizolowezi zisanu ndi ziwirizi m'miyoyo yathu, titha kuchita bwino m'mbali zonse za moyo wathu, kaya ndi ntchito zathu, maubale athu, kapena moyo wathu. Ndiye, kodi mwakonzeka kunola macheka anu?

Wonjezerani ulendo wanu ndi kanema wa bukhuli

Kuti ndikuthandizeni kuzimitsa zizolowezi zamtengo wapatali izi kwambiri m'moyo wanu, ndikukupemphani kuti muwone vidiyo ya buku lakuti "Zizolowezi 7 za iwo omwe amakwaniritsa zonse zomwe amachita". Ndi mwayi waukulu kumva ndi kumvetsa mfundo mwachindunji wolemba, Stephen R. Covey.

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