Mfundo Zofunika Pakukopa Ena
Buku la Dale Carnegie lotchedwa How to Make Friends linasindikizidwa koyamba mu 1936.kugwirizana kwa anthu onse.
Imodzi mwa mfundo zofunika kwambiri zomwe Carnegie amalimbikitsa ndi lingaliro lokhala ndi chidwi chenicheni ndi ena. Sizongonamizira kukhala ndi chidwi chonyenga anthu, koma kukulitsa chikhumbo chenicheni chofuna kumvetsetsa anthu omwe ali pafupi nanu. Ndiupangiri wosavuta, koma wamphamvu womwe ungathe kusintha kwambiri ubale wanu.
Komanso, Carnegie amalimbikitsa kusonyeza kuyamikira kwa ena. M’malo modzudzula kapena kudzudzula, iye akufuna kusonyeza kuyamikira kochokera pansi pa mtima. Zingathe kukhudza kwambiri momwe anthu amakuonerani komanso ubale wanu.
Njira zopezera chifundo
Carnegie amaperekanso mndandanda wa njira zothandiza zopezera chifundo cha ena. Njira zimenezi ndi monga kufunika komwetulira, kukumbukira ndi kutchula mayina a anthu, ndi kulimbikitsa ena kulankhula za iwo eni. Njira zosavuta, koma zogwira mtimazi zingapangitse kuti kuyanjana kwanu kukhale kolimbikitsa komanso kolimbikitsa.
Njira zotsimikizira
Bukuli limaperekanso njira zokhutiritsa anthu ndikuwapangitsa kuti azitengera malingaliro anu. M’malo mokangana mwachindunji, Carnegie akulangiza choyamba kusonyeza ulemu kaamba ka malingaliro a ena. Amaperekanso malingaliro opangitsa munthuyo kudzimva kukhala wofunika pomvetsera mosamala ndi kuyamikira malingaliro awo.
Khalani mtsogoleri
M'gawo lomaliza la bukhuli, Carnegie amayang'ana kwambiri luso la utsogoleri. Iye akugogomezera kuti kukhala mtsogoleri wabwino kumayamba ndi kusonkhezera chidwi, osati kuchititsa mantha. Atsogoleri omwe amalemekeza ndi kulemekeza anthu awo amakonda kupeza zotsatira zabwino.
Onani muvidiyo yakuti “Momwe Mungapezere Mabwenzi”
Mukadutsa muzofunikira izi komanso njira zothandiza, mutha kukhala ndi chidwi choyang'ana buku lonse la Dale Carnegie la How to Make Friends. Bukhuli ndi mgodi wa golide weniweni kwa aliyense amene akufuna kusintha mayanjano awo ndikukulitsa gulu la anzawo.
Mwamwayi, tayika kanema pansipa yomwe imapereka kuwerenga kwathunthu kwa bukhuli. Khalani ndi nthawi yoimvetsera ndipo ngati n'kotheka kuiwerenga, kuti mupeze mozama maphunziro amtengo wapatali a Carnegie. Kumvetsera bukhuli sikungakuthandizeni kokha kukulitsa luso lanu locheza ndi anthu, komanso kukupangani kukhala mtsogoleri wolemekezeka ndi wofunika kwambiri m'dera lanu.
Ndipo kumbukirani, matsenga enieni a "Momwe Mungapangire Anzanu" agona pakuchita mosadukiza njira zomwe zaperekedwa. Chifukwa chake, musazengereze kubwereranso ku mfundo izi ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito pazochita zanu zatsiku ndi tsiku. Kupambana kwanu mu luso la ubale wa anthu!
