Umkhuba 1 - Yiba matasa: Buyisa ukulawula impilo yakho
Uma ubheke ukufeza amaphupho akho futhi uphumelele empilweni, eka-Stephen R. Covey ethi “The 7 Habits of Highly Achievers” inikeza iseluleko esibalulekile. Kule ngxenye yokuqala, sizothola umkhuba wokuqala: ukukhuthala.
Ukukhuthala kusho ukuqonda ukuthi ungukapteni womkhumbi wakho. Nguwe ophethe impilo yakho. Akukhona nje ukuthatha isinyathelo, kodwa mayelana nokuqonda ukuthi unesibopho salezo zenzo. Lokhu kuqwashisa kungaba yisisusa sangempela soshintsho.
Ingabe wake wazizwa unesihe sezimo, ubhajwe ukuntengantenga kwempilo? U-Covey usikhuthaza ukuba sithathe umbono ohlukile. Singakhetha indlela esisabela ngayo kulezi zimo. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho sibhekene nenselele, singase sikubheke njengethuba lokukhula kunokuba sibe isithiyo esingenakunqotshwa.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba: Ukuze uqale ukwenza lo mkhuba, cabanga ngesimo sakamuva lapho uzizwe ungenamandla khona. Manje cabanga ukuthi ngabe usabele kanjani ngokuqhubekayo. Yini obungayenza ukuze ube nomthelela omuhle kumphumela? Bhala phansi le mibono bese ucabanga ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani ngokuzayo lapho uzithola usesimweni esifanayo.
Khumbula, ushintsho luqala ngezinyathelo ezincane. Nsuku zonke, bheka amathuba okuba ubambe iqhaza. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lo mkhuba uzocwila futhi uzoqala ukubona izinguquko ezinhle empilweni yakho.
Ungagcini nje ngokubuka impilo yakho eceleni. Lawula, khuthala futhi uqale ukwenza amaphupho akho afezeke namuhla.
Umkhuba 2 - Qala ngesiphetho engqondweni: Chaza umbono wakho
Masiqhubeke nohambo lwethu emhlabeni “wemikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Abaphumelelayo Kakhulu”. Umkhuba wesibili u-Covey awushoyo “ukuqala ngesiphetho engqondweni”. Kuwumkhuba odinga ukucaciseleka, umbono nokuzimisela.
Iphi impilo yakho? Imuphi umbono onawo ngekusasa lakho? Uma ungazi ukuthi uyaphi, uzokwazi kanjani ukuthi ufike lapho? Ukuqala ngesiphetho engqondweni kusho ukuchaza ngokucacile lokho ofuna ukukuzuza. Kuyaqondakala futhi ukuthi zonke izenzo ozenzayo namuhla zikusondeza noma zikude nalo mbono.
Zibone ngeso lengqondo impumelelo yakho. Ayini amaphupho akho othandekayo? Yini ofuna ukuyizuza empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu, emsebenzini wakho noma emphakathini wakini? Ngokuba nombono ocacile walokho ofuna ukukuzuza, ungakwazi ukuvumelanisa izenzo zakho zansuku zonke nalowo mbono.
Ukuzivocavoca: Thatha isikhashana ucabange ngombono wakho. Yini ofuna ukuyizuza empilweni? Imaphi amanani ayigugu kuwe? Bhala isitatimende somgomo wakho esifingqa umbono wakho kanye namagugu. Bheka lesi sitatimende nsuku zonke ukuze sikusize uhlale ugxilile futhi uqondaniswe.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi "ukuqala ngesiphetho engqondweni" akusho ukuthi kufanele ube nemephu yonke imininingwane yohambo lwakho. Kunalokho, kumayelana nokuqonda indawo oya kuyo kanye nokwenza izinqumo ezihambisana nalowo mbono.
Zibuze: ingabe zonke izenzo ozenzayo namuhla zikusondeza embonweni wakho? Uma kungenjalo, yiziphi izinyathelo ongazithatha ukuze ugxile futhi usondele emgomweni wakho?
Ukukhuthala nokuqala ucabanga ngesiphetho yimikhuba emibili enamandla engakusiza ukuthi ulawule impilo yakho futhi ufeze amaphupho akho. Ngakho uyini umbono wakho?
Umkhuba 3 - Ukubeka Izinto Zokuqala Kuqala: Ukubeka Eqhulwini Impumelelo
Manje sihlola umkhuba wesithathu onemininingwane kokuthi “Imikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Abaphumelelayo Kakhulu” ka-Stephen R. Covey, ethi “Beka Izinto Zokuqala Kuqala”. Lo mkhuba ugxile ekuphatheni isikhathi nezinsiza zakho ngendlela efanele.
Ukukhuthala nokuba nombono ocacile wendawo oya kuyo kuyizinyathelo ezimbili ezibalulekile zokufeza amaphupho akho. Nokho, ngaphandle kokuhlela okuphumelelayo nokuhleleka, kulula ukuphambuka noma ukulahleka.
“Ukubeka izinto zokuqala kuqala” kusho ukubeka phambili izinto ezikusondeza embonweni wakho. Kumayelana nokuhlukanisa phakathi kwalokho okubalulekile nokungabalulekile, nokugxilisa isikhathi namandla akho emisebenzini enenjongo ngempela nenomthelela ezinhlosweni zakho zesikhathi eside.
Ukuzivocavoca: Cabanga ngemisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke. Yimiphi imisebenzi ekusondeza embonweni wakho? Lena imisebenzi yakho ebalulekile. Yimiphi imisebenzi ekuphazamisayo noma engangezi lutho ngempela ekuphileni kwakho? Lena imisebenzi yakho engabalulekile kangako. Zama ukunciphisa noma ukuqeda lezi futhi ugxile kakhulu emisebenzini ebalulekile.
Khumbula, akukhona ukwenza okwengeziwe, kodwa ukwenza okubalulekile. Ngokubeka izinto zokuqala kuqala, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi imizamo yakho igxile kulokho okubaluleke ngempela.
Yisikhathi sokulawula, ubeke izinto eziza kuqala kuwe futhi uthathe isinyathelo esiseduze nokufeza amaphupho akho. Ngakho yiziphi izinto zokuqala kuwe?
Umkhuba 4 - Cabanga ngokuwina-ukuphumelela: Yamukela ukuchichima kwengqondo
Sifika kumkhuba wesine ekuhloleni kwethu incwadi ethi “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” kaStephen R. Covey. Lo mkhuba uthi “Thinking win-win”. Lo mkhuba ugxile embonweni wokwamukela umqondo wokuchichima kanye nokufuna izixazululo ezizuzisanayo.
U-Covey uphakamisa ukuthi kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi sibheke izixazululo ezizuzisa bonke abathintekayo, singamane sifune ukuzizuzela okuningi. Lokhu kudinga ukuchichima kwengqondo, lapho sikholelwa ukuthi kukhona impumelelo nezinsiza ezanele zawo wonke umuntu.
Ukucabanga ukuthi uwine kusho ukuqonda ukuthi impumelelo yakho akumele ifike ngezindleko zabanye. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ungasebenza nabanye ukuze udale isimo sokunqoba.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba: Cabanga ngesimo sakamuva lapho ube nokungaboni ngaso linye noma ukungqubuzana. Ubungasondela kanjani kuyo ngomqondo wokunqoba? Ubungasifuna kanjani isixazululo esingazuzisa bonke abathintekayo?
Ukucabanga ukunqoba-win akusho nje ukulwela impumelelo yakho, kodwa nokusiza abanye baphumelele. Kumayelana nokwakha ubudlelwano obuhle nobuhlala njalo obusekelwe ekuhloniphaneni nasekuhlomulaneni.
Ukwamukela isimo sengqondo sokuwina ngeke kukusize nje ukufeza izinhloso zakho, kodwa futhi kudale indawo enhle neyokubambisana. Ngakho-ke ungaqala kanjani ukucabanga ngokuwina-win namuhla?
Umkhuba 5 - Funa kuqala ukuqonda, bese uqondwa: Ubuciko bokuxhumana ngozwela
Umkhuba olandelayo esiwuhlolayo kokuthi “Imikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Abaphumelelayo Kakhulu” ka-Stephen R. Covey uthi “Funa kuqala ukuze uqonde, bese uqondwa”. Lo mkhuba ugxile ekukhulumeni nasekulaleleni ngozwela.
Ukulalela ngozwela kuyisenzo sokulalela ngenhloso yokuqonda ngempela imizwa nemibono yabanye, ngaphandle kokwahlulela. Kuyikhono elibalulekile elingathuthukisa kakhulu ikhwalithi yobudlelwano bakho bomuntu siqu nobuchwepheshile.
Ukufuna ukuqonda kuqala kusho ukubeka eceleni imicabango nemizwa yakho ukuze uqonde abanye ngokweqiniso. Kudinga isineke, ukuba nomqondo ovulekile nozwela.
Ukuzivocavoca: Cabanga ngengxoxo yakamuva obe nayo. Ingabe umlalele ngempela omunye umuntu, noma wawugxile kakhulu kulokho owawuzokusho ngokulandelayo? Zama ukuzijwayeza ukulalela ngozwela engxoxweni yakho elandelayo.
Khona-ke ukufuna ukuqondwa kusho ukuveza imizwa yakho nemibono yakho ngendlela enenhlonipho necacile. Ukubona ukuthi umbono wakho ufanelekile futhi ufanelwe ukulalelwa.
Ukufuna ukuqonda kuqala, bese ukuqondwa kuyindlela enamandla yokuxhumana engaguqula ubudlelwano bakho futhi ikusize uphumelele kuzo zonke izici zempilo yakho. Ulungele ukuletha ukujula okusha ekusebenzisaneni kwakho?
Umkhuba 6 - Ukuvumelanisa: Ukujoyina Amabutho Ukuze Uphumelele
Ngokubhekana nomkhuba wesithupha wencwadi ethi “Imikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Abaphumelelayo Kakhulu” kaStephen R. Covey, sihlola umqondo wokusebenzisana. I-Synergy isho ukusebenza ndawonye ukuze kuzuzwe izinto okungekho muntu ongafinyelela kuzo eyedwa.
I-Synergy isukela embonweni wokuthi yonke inkulu kunesamba sezingxenye zayo. Ngamanye amazwi, lapho sihlanganisa amandla futhi sihlanganisa amathalente ethu ahlukile namakhono, siyakwazi ukufeza okuningi kakhulu kunokuba besisebenza sodwa.
Ukuhlanganisa amandla ukuze uphumelele akusho nje ukubambisana kumaphrojekthi noma imisebenzi. Kusho futhi ukuqinisekisa nokugubha ukuhlukana komunye nomunye nokusebenzisa lowo mehluko njengamandla.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba: Cabanga ngesikhathi sakamuva lapho nisebenza njengeqembu. Ukubambisana kuwuthuthukise kanjani umphumela? Ungawusebenzisa kanjani umqondo wokusebenzisana kwezinye izici zempilo yakho?
Ukuthola i-synergy akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kudinga inhlonipho, ukuvuleleka nokuxhumana. Kodwa uma sikwazi ukudala i-synergy yangempela, sithola izinga elisha lokusungula nokukhiqiza. Ngakho-ke, ingabe usukulungele ukujoyina amandla ukuze uphumelele?
Umkhuba 7 - Ukulola Isaha: Ukubaluleka Kokuthuthukiswa Okuqhubekayo
Umkhuba wesikhombisa nowokugcina kweka-Stephen R. Covey ethi “Imikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Abaphumelelayo Kakhulu” uthi “Ukulola Isaha”. Lo mkhuba ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuthuthuka okuqhubekayo kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwethu.
Umqondo “wokulola isaha” ukuthi kubalulekile ukugcina njalo nokuthuthukisa impahla yethu enkulu kakhulu: ngokwethu. Kuhilela ukunakekela imizimba yethu ngokuzivivinya nokudla okunempilo, izingqondo zethu ngokufunda impilo yonke, imiphefumulo yethu ngemisebenzi enenjongo, kanye nobudlelwano bethu ngokukhulumisana ngozwela.
Ukulola isaha akuwona umsebenzi wesikhathi esisodwa, kodwa kuwumkhuba wempilo yonke. Kuyisiyalo esidinga ukuzinikela ekuzithuthukiseni nasekuzivuseleleni.
Ukuzivocavoca: Zihlole ngobuqotho impilo yakho. Yiziphi izici ongathanda ukuzithuthukisa? Dala uhlelo lokusebenza ukuze "ulole isaha lakho" kulezi zindawo.
UStephen R. Covey uveza ukuthi uma sihlanganisa le mikhuba eyisikhombisa ezimpilweni zethu, singazuza impumelelo kuzo zonke izici zempilo yethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyimisebenzi yethu, ubudlelwano bethu, noma inhlalakahle yethu yomuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke, ingabe usukulungele ukulola isaha lakho?
Nweba uhambo lwakho ngevidiyo yencwadi
Ukukusiza ukuthi uqinise le mikhuba eyigugu nakakhulu empilweni yakho, ngikumema ukuthi ubukele ividiyo yencwadi ethi "Imikhuba Eyisi-7 yalabo abafeza konke abakwenzayo". Ithuba elihle lokuzwa nokuqonda imiqondo ngokuqondile kumbhali, uStephen R. Covey.
Nokho, khumbula ukuthi ayikho ividiyo engangena esikhundleni sokufunda incwadi ngokugcwele. Uma uthole lokhu kuhlola Kwemikhuba Eyisi-7 kuwusizo futhi kukhuthaza, ngincoma kakhulu ukuthi uthathe incwadi, kungaba esitolo sezincwadi, ku-inthanethi, noma kumtapo wolwazi wendawo. Vumela le vidiyo ibe isiqalo sohambo lwakho lokungena endaweni yonke ye-7 Habits futhi usebenzise incwadi ukuze ujulise ukuqonda kwakho.
Ngakho-ke, usukulungele ukwenza noma yini ozimisele ukuyenza? Isinyathelo sokuqala silapha, ngokuchofoza nje kude. Ukubuka okujabulisayo nokufunda okujabulisayo!
