Ukwesaba ukubheka abanye
Ukwesaba ukubuka kwabanye, ukwesaba okubuya kaningi. Sonke siphila ezimweni eziyinkimbinkimbi! Ngabe ufuna ukuthatha isinyathelo empilweni yakho? Noma ingabe uziveza phambi kwabantu? Noma umane ubuze umbuzo? Noma ngabe kuyizenzo ezincane noma ezinkulu, lokhu kwesaba kungahlala kubuya ukukucindezela futhi kungaze kukushiye ...
Inkinga esithathelwanayo kahle futhi yaziwa emhlabeni wonke. Kungaba nemiphumela emibi ekuvimbela ukuthi ungaqhubeki phambili, ngezinye izikhathi kungakhansela: yiziphi izimfihlo zokulwa nalo? Kuthatha ukuthini ukulihlula futhi uqhubeke uhlala wena?
Ngenxa yalokhu ividiyo ye-2 min, uzoqonda ukuthi kungani, ekugcineni, kungaba lula ukukunqoba nokuqhubeka phambili. Ukwesaba kuvame ukudala ingqondo yethu, inkohliso, ngakho yenza ukwesaba kwakho abanye kubonakale kudidekile.
Izifundo ezilula futhi ezilula ukuzenza uma wazi. Yamukela le nkambo yesenzo futhi uvule ukwesaba kwakho. Vumela ithuba lokuziqhenya futhi uziqinisekise wena!
Kulesi vidiyo uzothola izixazululo namathiphu azosiza ukumelana nokwesaba amehlo abanye futhi wenze ukuphila kwakho kube lula nsuku zonke ..., nakho konke lokho, kumaphuzu we-5 kuphela:
1) Ukucabanga Ungadli isikhathi sokucabanga endaweni yabangane bakho.
I-2) ingazwi linyeé : "ngokuzama kanzima ukujabulisa wonke umuntu, ugcina usujabulisa noma ngubani" kufanele ukhethe!
I-3) Inkaba : Uma izwe lizungezile, kungenzeka ...
I-4) i-relativisation : funda ukuhlukanisa nokucindezeleka okuncane.
I-5) Ukwamukelwa : yamukela imingcele yayo futhi uhambe endleleni yayo.
Usizo oluyigugu oluzokusiza ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke. Angisabi futhi wena?
