Thola ukuthula kwangaphakathi ngokuthi “Quietude”
Ezweni eliya liba nezinxushunxushu, u-Eckhart Tolle uyasimema, encwadini yakhe ethi “Quietude”, ukuthi sithole enye indawo yokuphila: ukuthula kwangaphakathi. Uyasichazela ukuthi lokhu kuthula akusona isifiso sangaphandle, kodwa isimo sokuba khona kithina.
Ngokuka-Tolle, ubunikazi bethu abusekelwe emiqondweni yethu noma ekuzicabangeni kwethu kuphela, kodwa futhi nasekujuleni kobuntu bethu. Ubiza lobu bukhulu ngokuthi “Uqobo” olunosonhlamvukazi u-“S” ukuze alwehlukanise nesithombe esinaso ngathi. Kuye, kungukuxhuma kule "Self" ukuthi singafinyelela esimweni sokuzola futhi ukuthula kwangaphakathi.
Isinyathelo sokuqala esibheke kulokhu kuxhumana siwukuqaphela umzuzu wamanje, ukuphila ngokugcwele umzuzu ngamunye ngaphandle kokugajwa imicabango noma imizwa. Lokhu kuba khona okwamanje, u-Tolle ubona kuyindlela yokumisa ukugeleza okungapheli kwemicabango esisusa engqikithini yethu.
Kusikhuthaza ukuba sinake imicabango nemizwelo yethu ngaphandle kokwahlulela noma ukuyivumela isilawule. Ngokuzibheka, singabona ukuthi azizona thina, kodwa ziyimikhiqizo yengqondo yethu. Kungokwakha lesi sikhala sokubuka lapho singaqala khona ukudedela ukuhlonza nge-ego yethu.
Inkululeko ekuhlonzeni i-ego
Ku-"Quietude", u-Eckhart Tolle usinikeza amathuluzi ukuze sihlukane nobunikazi bethu futhi sixhume kabusha kumongo wethu wangempela. Kuye, i-ego ayilutho kodwa ukwakhiwa kwengqondo okusisusa ekuthuleni kwangaphakathi.
Uchaza ukuthi ukuzazisa kwethu kugxila emicabangweni nemizwelo engemihle, njengokwesaba, ukukhathazeka, intukuthelo, umhawu noma ukucasuka. Le mizwa ivame ukuhlotshaniswa nesikhathi esidlule noma ikusasa lethu, futhi isivimbela ukuba siphile ngokugcwele esikhathini samanje. Ngokuzibonakalisa ngobunjalo bethu, sizivumela ukuba sigajwe yile micabango nemizwelo emibi, futhi silahlekelwa ukuthintana nemvelo yethu yangempela.
NgokukaTolle, esinye sezihluthulelo zokugqashula ekuzicabangeni umkhuba wokuzindla. Lo mkhuba usivumela ukuthi sakhe indawo yokuthula engqondweni yethu, indawo lapho singabuka khona imicabango nemizwa yethu ngaphandle kokuzihlanganisa nayo. Ngokuzijwayeza njalo, singakwazi ukuqala ukuzihlukanisa ne-ego yethu futhi sixhumane nengqikithi yethu yangempela.
Kodwa u-Tolle usikhumbuza ukuthi ukuzindla akusona isiphetho ngokwakho, kodwa kuyindlela yokuthola ukuthula. Inhloso akukona ukuqeda yonke imicabango yethu, kodwa ukuthi singabe sisabambeka ekuhlonzweni ne-ego.
Ukugcwaliseka kwemvelo yethu yangempela
Ngokuzihlukanisa ne-ego, u-Eckhart Tolle usiqondisa ekufezeni imvelo yethu yangempela. Ngokusho kwakhe, ingqikithi yethu yeqiniso ingaphakathi kithi, ihlale ikhona, kodwa ivame ukufihlwa ukuhlonza ubuyena bethu. Le ngqikithi iyisimo sokuthula nokuthula okujulile, ngaphezu kwanoma yimuphi umcabango noma imizwa.
U-Tolle usimema ukuthi sibheke imicabango nemizwa yethu ngaphandle kokwahlulela noma ukuphikiswa, njengofakazi othule. Ngokuthatha isinyathelo emuva engqondweni yethu, siyabona ukuthi asiyona imicabango yethu noma imizwelo yethu, kodwa ukuqaphela okuyibonayo. Kuwukuqwashisa okukhululayo okuvula umnyango wokuzola nokuthula kwangaphakathi.
Ukwengeza, u-Tolle uphakamisa ukuthi ukuthula akusona nje isimo sangaphakathi, kodwa indlela yokuba sezweni. Ngokuzikhulula ku-ego, siba khona kakhulu futhi sinake isikhathi samanje. Siqaphela kakhulu ubuhle nokuphelela komzuzu ngamunye, futhi siqala ukuphila ngokuvumelana nokugeleza kokuphila.
Kafushane, "Ukuthula" ka-Eckhart Tolle kuyisimemo sokuthola imvelo yethu yangempela futhi sizikhulule ekubanjweni kokuzazisa. Liyisiqondiso esibalulekile kunoma ubani ofuna ukuthola ukuthula kwangaphakathi futhi aphile ngokugcwele kulesi sikhathi samanje.
Ividiyo yezahluko zokuqala ze-“Quietude” ka-Eckhart Tolle, ehlongozwe lapha, ayithathi indawo yokufundwa okuphelele kwencwadi, iyahambisana nayo futhi iletha umbono omusha. Zinike isikhathi sokuyilalela, iyingcebo yangempela yokuhlakanipha okulindile.
