Kuzindikira zinsinsi za umunthu waumunthu: chinsinsi cha kumvetsetsa
"Malamulo a Chibadwidwe cha Anthu" lolembedwa ndi Robert Greene ndi nkhokwe yanzeru yamtengo wapatali kwa iwo omwe akufuna kudziwa zovuta za umunthu. Powunikira mphamvu zosawoneka zomwe konza khalidwe lathu, bukhuli limapereka chidziŵitso chofunika kwambiri kuti tidzimvetse bwino za ife eni ndi ena.
Chikhalidwe chaumunthu ndi chodzaza ndi zotsutsana ndi zinsinsi zomwe zingawoneke ngati zosokoneza. Greene amapereka njira yapadera yomvetsetsa zododometsazi pofufuza malamulo obadwa nawo omwe amatsogolera khalidwe lathu. Malamulowa, akuti, ndi choonadi chapadziko lonse lapansi chomwe chimadutsa malire a chikhalidwe ndi mbiri yakale.
Limodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu za bukhuli ndi kufunika kwa chifundo pomvetsetsa chibadwa cha munthu. Greene akunena kuti kuti timvetse bwino ena, tiyenera kudziyika tokha mu nsapato zawo ndikuwona dziko ndi maso awo. Zimaphatikizapo kugonjetsa ziweruzo zathu ndi kukondera ndikudzitsegulira tokha ku malingaliro osiyanasiyana.
Kuphatikiza apo, Greene akuwonetsa kufunikira kodzidziwitsa. Iye akugogomezera kuti kumvetsetsa zosonkhezera ndi zokhumba zathu n’kofunika kwambiri kuti timvetsetse za ena. Mwa kukulitsa chidziŵitso chabwinoko, tingakulitsa chifundo chachikulu kwa ena, ndipo, potsirizira pake, maunansi opindulitsa.
“Malamulo a Chibadwidwe cha Munthu” si chitsogozo chabe chothandiza kumvetsetsa khalidwe la munthu. Ndiko kuitana kwa kudzizindikira kokulirapo ndi chifundo chachikulu kwa ena. Limapereka malingaliro otsitsimula pazovuta za umunthu ndi momwe tingayendetsere bwino maubwenzi athu ndi anthu.
Kumvetsetsa Mphamvu Zoyendetsa Ntchito za Anthu
Kumvetsa chibadwa cha munthu kumafuna kufufuza mphamvu zimene zimasonkhezera zochita zathu. M'buku lake, Robert Greene akuwonetsa momwe machitidwe athu amatsogoleredwera ndi zinthu zomwe nthawi zambiri sizimadziwa, koma zodziwikiratu.
Greene akugogomezera momwe kutengeka kumakhudzira chilimbikitso chathu. Iye amavumbula kuti khalidwe lathu limasonkhezeredwa nthaŵi zonse, ngakhale kusonkhezeredwa ndi malingaliro akuya amene sitingathe kufotokoza momveka bwino nthaŵi zonse. Maganizo amenewa, ngakhale atakwiriridwa, akhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zamphamvu pa zochita zathu ndi maubwenzi athu.
Kuonjezera apo, wolemba akufufuza lingaliro la chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi udindo wake mu khalidwe lathu. Iye amanena kuti maganizo athu oti ndife a gulu kapena anthu a m’dera lathu akhoza kukhudza kwambiri khalidwe lathu. Pomvetsetsa momwe timadziwira tokha komanso momwe timaonera malo athu m'deralo, tikhoza kumvetsetsa bwino zochita za ena, komanso zathu.
Komanso, Greene akukhudza mutu wa chikoka ndi mphamvu. Imalongosola momwe chikhumbo cha chikoka ndi kulamulira chingathe kukhala chisonkhezero champhamvu m'mayanjano athu. Pozindikira chikhumbo ichi cha mphamvu ndi kuphunzira kuzilamulira, tingathe kumvetsetsa zovuta za chikhalidwe cha anthu zomwe zimapanga dziko lathu lapansi.
Choncho, bukhu la Greene limapereka chitsogozo chofunika kwambiri chomvetsetsa mphamvu zosaoneka zomwe zimayendetsa zochita zathu ndi kuyanjana kwathu. Zimatipatsa zida zodziwira zolinga za anthu, motero, kuwongolera ubale wathu ndi kudzimvetsetsa kwathu.
Luso la Kumvetsetsa Zovuta za Anthu muvidiyo
Lamulo la Robert Greene la Chikhalidwe Chaumunthu silimangopenda umunthu wa munthu. Ndilo fungulo lomwe limazindikiritsa zochitika zovuta za anthu. Greene amawunikira njira zamkati zomwe zimapanga machitidwe athu ndi machitidwe athu, kutipatsa zida zodzimvetsetsa tokha komanso omwe amatizungulira.
Ili ndi buku lomwe limaphunzitsa chifundo ndi kumvetsetsa, kutikumbutsa kuti kuyankhulana kulikonse ndi mwayi womvetsetsa pang'ono za chikhalidwe cha munthu.
Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri za malangizo ochititsa chidwiwa a malamulo a chikhalidwe cha anthu, mukhoza kumvetsera mitu yoyamba pavidiyoyi. Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwira kuchuluka kwa bukhuli, koma sikungalowe m'malo mwa kuwerenga lonse kuti mumvetsetse bwino. Chifukwa chake lemeretsani kumvetsetsa kwanu kwa chibadwa cha munthu lero pakudzilowetsa mu Malamulo a Chikhalidwe cha Munthu.
