Dziwani zaluso zosachita chiwerewere ndi Mark Manson
Limodzi mwamalingaliro apakati a Mark Manson's "Luso Lamawonekedwe Losapatsa Mnzake" ndikutengera malingaliro okhazikika osachita zinthu kuti akhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa. Mosiyana ndi zimene munthu angaganize, kupereka chilango sikutanthauza kukhala wopanda chidwi, koma kukhala wosankha pa zinthu zimene timaziona kukhala zofunika.
Masomphenya a Manson ndi mankhwala oletsa mauthenga omwe amachitika nthawi zonse chitukuko cha munthu zomwe zimalimbikitsa anthu kukhala otsimikiza nthawi zonse ndikutsata chisangalalo kosatha. M’malo mwake, Manson amanena kuti chinsinsi cha moyo wachimwemwe ndi wokhutiritsa chagona pa kuphunzira kuvomereza ndi kuvomereza zolephera, mantha ndi zosatsimikizirika.
M'bukuli, Manson amapereka njira yosasangalatsa komanso, nthawi zina, njira yodzutsa dala yomwe imatsutsa zikhulupiriro zathu pa zomwe zili zofunika m'moyo. M’malo monena kuti “chilichonse n’chotheka,” Manson akupereka lingaliro lakuti tiyenera kuvomereza zofooka zathu ndi kuphunzira kukhala nazo. Iye amanena kuti ndi kuvomereza zolakwa zathu, zolakwa zathu ndi kupanda ungwiro kwathu kuti tipeze chimwemwe chenicheni ndi chikhutiro.
Kuganiziranso za Chimwemwe ndi Kupambana ndi Mark Manson
Mu sewero la "Luso Lobisika Losapereka F ***", Manson akuwunika mozama zamalingaliro amasiku ano onena za chisangalalo ndi kupambana. Iye akunena kuti kupembedza kopanda malire ndi kutengeka ndi kupindula kosalekeza sikungokhala kosatheka, komanso kungakhale kovulaza.
Manson amalankhula za kuopsa kwa chikhalidwe cha "nthawi zonse" chomwe chimapangitsa anthu kukhulupirira kuti nthawi zonse amayenera kukhala abwino, kuchita zambiri, ndi kukhala ndi zambiri. Maganizo amenewa, akuti, amachititsa munthu kukhala wosakhutira ndi kulephera nthawi zonse, chifukwa nthawi zonse padzakhala chinachake chokwaniritsa.
M'malo mwake, a Manson akuwonetsa kuti tiwunikenso zomwe timafunikira ndikusiya kudziyesa tokha potengera zomwe tingachite bwino, monga momwe tingakhalire pagulu, chuma, kapena kutchuka. Malinga ndi iye, ndi mwa kuzindikira ndi kuvomereza malire athu, kuphunzira kukana ndi kusankha mwadala nkhondo zathu kuti tipeze chikhutiro chenicheni chaumwini.
Maphunziro Ofunika Kwambiri kuchokera ku "Luso Lobisika la Kusapatsa Mtima"
Chowonadi chofunikira chomwe Manson akufuna kuwuza owerenga ake ndikuti moyo sukhala wophweka nthawi zonse, ndipo zili bwino. Kufunafuna chimwemwe kosalekeza monga cholinga chomaliza ndi kufunafuna kudzigonjetsa chifukwa kumanyalanyaza phindu ndi maphunziro omwe angabwere kuchokera ku zovuta ndi zovuta.
Nzeru ya Manson imalimbikitsa owerenga kumvetsetsa kuti zowawa, kulephera, ndi zokhumudwitsa ndizofunikira kwambiri pamoyo. M’malo mofuna kupeŵa zochitika zimenezi, tiyenera kuzivomereza monga zofunika za kukula kwathu.
Pamapeto pake, Manson amatilimbikitsa kukumbatira zinthu zosasangalatsa m'moyo, kuvomereza kupanda ungwiro kwathu, ndi kumvetsetsa kuti sife apadera nthawi zonse. Ndiko kuvomereza zoonadi zimenezi kuti tipeze ufulu wokhala ndi moyo weniweni ndi wokhutiritsa.
Mutha kuwonera kanema pansipa yomwe ili ndi mitu yoyamba ya bukhuli. Komabe, izi sizilowa m’malo mwa kuŵerenga kotheratu kwa bukhu limene ndikukulimbikitsani kulipeza.
