Kuti Kulankhulana Mogwira Mtima: Kumveketsa Bwino ndi Mwachidule Koposa Zonse
M’dziko limene chidziŵitso chokhazikika chikhoza kutifooketsa mosavuta, kudziŵa kulankhulana momveka bwino ndi mwachidule kuli luso lamtengo wapatali. Buku la Harvard Business Review la "Master the Art of Communication" limatsindika mfundo imeneyi. zoyambira kulumikizana.
Kaya ndinu mtsogoleri watimu yemwe mukufuna kulimbikitsa mamembala anu, manejala amene akufuna kufotokozera masomphenya abwino, kapena munthu amene akufuna kukonza zochita zawo zatsiku ndi tsiku, bukuli limakupatsani chiwongolero chamtengo wapatali. Ili ndi upangiri wothandiza komanso zitsanzo zenizeni zokuthandizani kufotokoza malingaliro anu mogwira mtima komanso mokopa.
Imodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu zomwe bukhuli limadzutsa ndi kufunikira kwa kufotokoza momveka bwino komanso mwachidule poyankhulana. M'dziko lazamalonda lofulumira komanso laphokoso, chiwopsezo cha kusamvetsetsana kapena kutayika kwa chidziwitso chimakhala chachikulu. Kuti athetse izi, olembawo akutsindika kuti mauthenga ayenera kukhala omveka bwino komanso olunjika. Amalimbikitsa kupewa mawu osafunikira komanso mawu owonjezera, omwe amatha kubisa uthenga waukulu ndikupangitsa kukhala kovuta kumvetsetsa.
Olembawo akuperekanso lingaliro lakuti kumveka bwino ndi mwachidule sizofunikira pakulankhula kokha, komanso polemba. Kaya ndikupanga imelo yopita kwa wogwira naye ntchito kapena kukonzekera ulaliki wapakampani, kugwiritsa ntchito mfundozi kungathandize kuonetsetsa kuti uthenga wanu wamveka ndikukumbukiridwa.
Kuonjezera apo, bukhuli likukamba za kufunika komvetsera mwachidwi, kutsindika kuti kulankhulana sikungolankhula kokha, komanso kumvetsera. Pomvetsetsa ndi kuyankha moyenera ku malingaliro a ena, mutha kupanga zokambirana zenizeni ndikulimbikitsa kumvetsetsana kwabwinoko.
“Kulankhulana Bwino Kwambiri” sikungokuthandizani kuti mumalankhulire bwino, komanso ndi chida chamtengo wapatali chothandizira kumvetsetsa mozama kuti kulumikizana kothandiza kwenikweni ndi chiyani.
Kulankhulana Kopanda Mawu: Kupitirira Mawu
Mu "Master Art of Communication", kufunikira kwa kulankhulana kosalankhula kumatsindika. Olembawo akutikumbutsa kuti zomwe sitinena nthawi zina zimatha kukhala zowulula kuposa zomwe timanena. Kulankhulana ndi manja, maonekedwe a nkhope, ndi matupi onsewo ndi mbali zofunika kwambiri za kulankhulana zimene zingathandize, kutsutsa, kapena m’malo mwa kulankhula kwathu.
Bukuli likugogomezera kufunikira kwa kugwirizana pakati pa chinenero chapakamwa ndi chosalankhula. Kusagwirizana, monga kumwetulira pamene mukupereka nkhani zoipa, kungayambitse chisokonezo ndikuwononga kukhulupirika kwanu. Momwemonso, kuyang'ana m'maso, mawonekedwe, ndi manja kungakhudze momwe uthenga wanu ukulandirira.
Kasamalidwe ka malo ndi nthawi ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri. Kukhala chete kungakhale kwamphamvu, ndipo kupuma kokhazikika kungapangitse mawu anu kukhala olemera. Momwemonso, mtunda womwe mumasunga ndi interlocutor wanu ukhoza kuwonetsa malingaliro osiyanasiyana.
Bukuli limatikumbutsa kuti kulankhulana sikungokhudza mawu chabe. Podziwa luso lolankhulana mosagwiritsa ntchito mawu, mutha kukulitsa luso lakulankhulana kwanu ndikuwongolera maubwenzi anu.
Kukhala Wolankhulana Bwino: Njira Yachipambano
"Master the Art of Communication" ikumaliza ndi mawu amphamvu, kutsindika kuti kulankhulana kogwira mtima n'kofunika kuti munthu apambane ndi luso. Bukhuli limapereka maupangiri othandiza komanso njira zowonjezera luso lanu loyankhulirana, kaya mukufuna kuthetsa mikangano, kulimbikitsa gulu lanu, kapena kumanga ubale wabwino.
Bukuli limalimbikitsa kuchita ndi kuphunzira mosalekeza kuti mukhale olankhulana bwino. Amatsindika kuti kuyanjana kulikonse ndi mwayi wophunzira ndi kuwongolera. Ikuwonetsanso kufunikira kwa kumvetsera mwachidwi ndi chifundo kuti timvetsetse malingaliro a ena.
Zonsezi, "Master the Art of Communication" ndiyofunikira kuwerengedwa kwa aliyense amene akufuna kukonza luso lawo lolankhulana. Limapereka chiwongolero chamtengo wapatali komanso chothandiza poyendera dziko lovuta la kulumikizana pakati pa anthu.
Njira yoti mukhale wolankhulana bwino ndi wautali ndipo imafuna khama lokhazikika. Komabe, pogwiritsa ntchito malangizo ndi njira zomwe zili m'bukuli, mutha kupita patsogolo kwambiri ndikusintha machitidwe anu a tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndipo musaiwale, ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri za kalozera wosangalatsa wa kulumikizanako, mutha kumvera mitu yoyamba pavidiyo. Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yophunzirira zambiri za bukuli, koma sizingalowe m'malo mwa kuwerenga lonse kuti mumvetsetse bwino. Chifukwa chake pangani chisankho kuti mulemeretse luso lanu lolankhulana lero ndikudzilowetsa mu "Master the Art of Communication".
