Bweretsani zenizeni zanu ndi NLP
Kwa ambiri aife, kukhala ndi moyo womwe tikufuna kumawoneka ngati chiyembekezo chakutali. Si kusowa kufuna kapena chikhumbo chimene chimatilepheretsa, koma maganizo athu ndi makhalidwe athu olepheretsa. Mu "Kupeza Moyo Umene Ukufuna," Richard Bandler, wopanga nawo Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), akupereka njira yopambana ku vuto ili.
M'buku lake, Bandler akugawana nzeru zake zatsopano za momwe tingasinthire miyoyo yathu pongosintha momwe timaganizira. Zimawonetsa momwe malingaliro athu ndi zikhulupiriro zathu, ngakhale zomwe sitikuzidziwa, zimatsimikizira zenizeni zathu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Iye akufotokoza kuti tonsefe tili ndi kuthekera mkati mwathu kuti tisinthe miyoyo yathu, koma kuti nthawi zambiri timatsekeredwa ndi zopinga zamaganizo zomwe ife tokha tapanga.
Bandler amakhulupirira motsimikiza kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi kuthekera kokwaniritsa kukwaniritsidwa kwake komwe sikunachitikepo komanso kuchita bwino. Komabe, kuti tikwaniritse izi, tiyenera kuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro athu mogwira mtima komanso mwanzeru. NLP, malinga ndi Bandler, ikhoza kutithandiza kukwaniritsa izi potipatsa zida zowunikiranso ndikukonzanso zikhulupiriro ndi malingaliro athu.
Konzaninso malingaliro anu kuti apambane
Atakhazikitsa zochitikazo, Bandler amalowa mkati mwa mtima wa dongosolo lake la NLP, akufotokoza njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe tingagwiritse ntchito kusintha maganizo athu ndi machitidwe athu. Iye sakunena kuti ndondomekoyi ndi yachangu kapena yosavuta, koma amatsutsa kuti zotsatira zake zingakhale zochititsa chidwi komanso zokhalitsa.
Bukuli likukambirana mfundo monga maziko, kuwonetseratu, kusuntha kwa submodality, ndi njira zina za NLP zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti muwononge maganizo oipa ndikukhazikitsa zabwino. Bandler amafotokoza njira iliyonse m'njira yofikirika, ndikupereka malangizo atsatanetsatane ogwiritsira ntchito.
Malinga ndi Bandler, chinsinsi chosinthira ndikuwongolera malingaliro anu osazindikira. Akufotokoza kuti zikhulupiriro zathu zochepetsera ndi machitidwe nthawi zambiri zimakhazikika mu chikumbumtima chathu ndipo ndipamene NLP imagwira ntchito yake. Pogwiritsa ntchito njira za NLP, titha kulowa mu chikumbumtima chathu, kuzindikira malingaliro oyipa omwe akutilepheretsa, ndikusintha malingaliro ndi machitidwe abwino komanso opindulitsa.
Lingaliro ndiloti mwa kusintha momwe mumaganizira, mutha kusintha moyo wanu. Kaya mukufuna kukulitsa kudzidalira kwanu, kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu zaumwini kapena zaukadaulo, kapena kungokhala osangalala komanso kukhutitsidwa, Pezani Moyo Umene Mukufuna imapereka zida ndi njira zomwe zimakufikitsani kumeneko.
Mphamvu ya Kusintha kwa Munthu
Bandler amawunika momwe njira za NLP zingagwiritsire ntchito kusintha osati malingaliro athu ndi machitidwe athu okha, komanso umunthu wathu wonse. Amalankhula za kufunikira kwa kulumikizana pakati pa zomwe timakhulupirira, zikhulupiriro ndi zochita zathu kuti tikhale ndi moyo wowona komanso wokwaniritsidwa.
Bandler akufotokoza kuti zochita zathu zikasemphana ndi zikhulupiriro ndi mfundo zathu, zimatha kuyambitsa kupsinjika kwamkati ndi kusakhutira. Komabe, pogwiritsa ntchito njira za NLP kugwirizanitsa zikhulupiriro, zikhulupiriro, ndi zochita zathu, titha kukhala ndi moyo wokhazikika komanso wokhutiritsa.
Pomaliza, Bandler amatilimbikitsa kuti tikhale okhazikika pakupanga moyo womwe tikufuna. Iye akugogomezera kuti kusintha kumayambira ndi ife komanso kuti tonsefe tili ndi mphamvu zosintha miyoyo yathu.
"Pezani Moyo Umene Mukuufuna" ndi chitsogozo chothandiza komanso champhamvu kwa aliyense amene akufuna kusintha moyo wawo. Pogwiritsa ntchito njira za NLP, Richard Bandler amatipatsa zida zowongolera malingaliro athu, kukhazikitsa zomwe tikufuna kuti tipambane, ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zathu zolimba mtima.
Kuti mudziwe zambiri za njira za NLP komanso momwe zingakuthandizireni kusintha moyo wanu, tikukupemphani kuti muwone vidiyo yomwe imawerenga mitu yoyamba ya bukhuli. Musaiwale kuti kanemayu ndi wothandiza kwambiri powerenga bukuli, koma silingalowe m'malo mwake.
