Charisma decoded: kupfuura kuvapo, hukama
Charisma inowanzoonekwa sechipo chekuzvarwa, chimwe chinhu munhu anacho kana kuti asina. Nekudaro, François Aélion, mubhuku rake "Le charisme Relationnel", anopokana nepfungwa iyi. Sekureva kwake, charisma haingori aura isinganzwisisike, asi mhedzisiro yehukama hwakavakwa newe uye nevamwe.
Aélion inosimbisa kukosha kwekubatana kwechokwadi. Munyika inotongwa nesocial media uye kushamwaridzana kwepamusoro, kukudziridza hukama hwakadzama uye hune revo kwakakosha. Huchokwadi uhwu, kugona kuvepo uye kunyatsoteerera, ndiyo kiyi yerudo rwechokwadi.
Chokwadi chinopfuura kungobuda pachena. Kunzwisisa kwakadzama kwehunhu hwemunhu, zvishuvo neganhuriro. Paunoita hukama nehuchokwadi hwechokwadi, unokurudzira kuvimba. Vanhu vanokwezvwa neizvi, kwete chete mutambo wekuvapo.
François Aélion anoenderera mberi nekutanga chinongedzo pakati pecharisma nehutungamiriri. Mutungamiriri ane mutsa haangorevi kuti ndiye anotaura zvakanyanya kana kuti anotora nzvimbo yakawanda. Ndiye mumwe munhu, kuburikidza nekuvapo kwake kwechokwadi, anogadzira nzvimbo iyo vamwe vanonzwa vachionekwa, kunzwiwa uye kunzwisiswa.
Bhuku racho rinotiyeuchidza kuti charisma haisi magumo pachayo. Icho chishandiso, unyanzvi hunogona kukudziridzwa. Uye sehunyanzvi chero hupi, hunoda kudzidzira uye introspection. Pakupedzisira, charisma yechokwadi ndiyo inosimudzira vamwe, inokurudzira, uye inotungamira kune shanduko yakanaka.
Kukudziridza Kuvimba uye Kuteerera: Mbiru dzeRelational Charisma
Mukuenderera mberi kwemaitiro ake ekuongorora kwecharism, François Aélion anogara pambiru mbiri dzakakosha kuvaka iyi hukama hwehukama: kuvimba nekuteerera. Sekureva kwemunyori, zvinhu izvi ndizvo hwaro hwehukama hwese hwechokwadi, hungave hushamwari, hwehunyanzvi kana hwerudo.
Kuvimba chinhu chakasiyana-siyana. Zvinotanga nekuzvivimba, kugona kutenda muhunhu hwako uye nehunyanzvi. Zvisinei, kunowedzerawo pakuvimba nevamwe. Iko kuwirirana uku kunoita kuti zvikwanise kumisa hukama hwakasimba uye hunogara. Aélion anosimbisa kuti kuvimba mari. Inovakwa nekufamba kwenguva, kuburikidza nezviito zvinowirirana uye zvinangwa zvakajeka.
Kuteerera, kune rumwe rutivi, kunowanzozvidzwa. Munyika umo munhu wese anoda kutaura pfungwa dzake, kutora nguva yekunyatsoteerera kwave kushoma. Aélion inopa matekiniki uye maekisesaizi ekuvandudza uku kuterera kwakasimba, kunoenda zvakanyanya kupfuura chokwadi chiri nyore chekunzwa. Ndezvekunyatsonzwisisa maonero emumwe, kunzwa manzwiro avo, uye kupa mhinduro yakakodzera.
Muchato wekuvimba nekuteerera unoumba izvo zvinonzi naAélion "relational charisma". Haisi kukwezva kwepamusoro chete, asi kugona kwakadzama kwekubatanidza, kunzwisisa uye nekukurudzira zvakanaka avo vakakukomberedza. Nekukudziridza idzi mbiru mbiri, munhu mumwe nemumwe anogona kuwana pesvedzero yemusikirwo, yakavakirwa pakuremekedzana uye uchokwadi.
Kupfuura mazwi: Simba remanzwiro uye risingataure
Muchikamu chino chekupedzisira chekuongorora kwake, François Aélion anofumura chidimbu chinowanzo furatirwa cheukama hwehukama: kutaurirana kusingataure uye kungwara kwepfungwa. Kusiyana nezvinodavirwa nevakawanda, charisma haingori yekutaura kwakanaka kana kugona kunoshamisa. Inogarawo mune izvo zvisina kutaurwa, muhunyanzvi hwekuvapo.
Aélion anotsanangura kuti inenge 70% yekukurukurirana kwedu hakusi kwekutaura. Maitiro edu, chimiro chechiso, mamiriro, uye kunyange matauriro enzwi redu zvinowanzotaura zvakawanda kupfuura mashoko acho pachawo. Kubata ruoko kwakapfava kana kutaridzika kunogona kumisa kubatana kwakadzika kana, pane zvinopesana, kugadzira chipingamupinyi chisingakundiki.
Emotional njere inyanzvi yekuziva, kunzwisisa uye kutonga manzwiro edu, tichiva nehanya kune evamwe. Aelion anoratidza kuti iyi ndiyo kiyi yekufambisa zvine hunyanzvi nyika yakaoma yehukama hwevanhu. Nekuteerera manzwiro edu pachedu uye evamwe, tinogona kugadzira kudyidzana kwechokwadi, kunzwira tsitsi uye kunopfumisa.
François Aélion anopedzisa nekurangarira kuti charisma yehukama inowanikwa nemunhu wese. Haisi hunhu hwekuzvarwa, asi seti yehunyanzvi hunogona kuvandudzwa nekutsunga, kuziva uye kuita. Nekushandisa simba remanzwiro uye kutaurirana kusingataure, tese tinokwanisa kuve vatungamiriri vane shasha muhupenyu hwedu pachedu.
Ziva vhezheni yekuteerera ye "Relational Charisma" naFrançois Aélion. Uyu mukana usingawanikwe wekuteerera kubhuku rese uye kuzama zvakadzama muzvakavanzika zveRelational Charisma.
