Ita fungidziro yekutanga isingakanganwike nemaitiro aNicolas Boothman
Mu "Kunyengetedza isingasviki maminetsi maviri", Nicolas Boothman anopa nzira yekuvandudza uye yeshanduko yekubatana nevamwe ipapo ipapo. Icho chishandiso chakakosha kune chero munhu anoda kuvandudza hunyanzvi hwavo mukati kutaurirana uye kunyengetedza.
Boothman anotanga nekutaura kuti kudyidzana kwese mukana wekugadzira isingakanganwike fungidziro yekutanga. Anosimbisa kukosha kwemutauro wemuviri, kunyatsoteerera uye simba remashoko mukugadzira iyo yekutanga pfungwa. Simbiso inoiswa pakukosha kwechokwadi uye kubatana kwepfungwa nevamwe. Boothman anopa maitiro ekuzadzisa chinangwa ichi, mamwe acho angaite seanopesana.
Semuenzaniso, anorayira kutevedzera zvinyoro-nyoro mutauro wemuviri wemumwe munhu kuti ugadzire kubatana kwekare. Boothman anosimbisawo kukosha kwekuteerera nekushingaira uye netsitsi, achisimbisa kwete chete izvo mumwe munhu ari kutaura, asiwo kuti vari kuzvitaura sei uye kuti vari kunzwa sei.
Pakupedzisira, Boothman anosimbirira pakusarudza mazwi. Anotaura kuti mashoko atinoshandisa anogona kuva netapuro huru pamaonerwo atinoitwa nevamwe. Kushandisa mashoko anoita kuti vanhu vavimbe uye vafarire kunogona kutibatsira kuvaka ukama hwakasimba, hunobudirira.
Maitiro matsva ekutaurirana ekukwezva vateereri vako
Imwe yemasimba makuru ebhuku "Kutendesa mune isingasviki maminetsi maviri" iri mukongiri uye anoshanda maturusi ayo munyori Nicolas Boothman anopa kune vaverengi vake. Boothman anosimbisa, sezvatakambotaura, kukosha kwekutanga maonero, achiti munhu ane anenge 2 seconds kuumba hukama hwakanaka nemumwe munhu.
Inosuma pfungwa ye "nzira dzekukurukurirana": kuona, kunzwa uye kinesthetic. Sekureva kwaBoothman, isu tese tine mukana wakasarudzika watinoona nekududzira nyika yakatitenderedza. Semuenzaniso, munhu anoona anogona kuti "Ndinoona zvauri kureva", asi munhu anoteerera angati "Ndinonzwa zvaunotaura". Kunzwisisa nekugadzirisa kutaurirana kwedu kune idzi nzira kunogona kuvandudza zvakanyanya kugona kwedu kuita hukama uye kunyengetedza vamwe.
Boothman anopawo hunyanzvi hwekuita kuonana kwemaziso kunoshanda, kushandisa mutauro wemuviri kuratidza kuvhurika uye kufarira, uye kutanga "girazi" kana kuwiriranisa nemunhu wauri kuedza kunyengetedza, izvo zvinogadzira pfungwa yekuziva uye kunyaradza.
Pakazere, Boothman anopa nzira yakazara yekutaurirana iyo inodarika mazwi atinotaura kusanganisira matauriro atinoaita uye maratidziro atinoita pachedu patinenge tichidyidzana nevamwe.
Kupfuura mazwi: hunyanzvi hwekuteerera zvine simba
Boothman anoenzanisira mu“Kunyengetedza muMaminitsi ari pasi pe2” kuti kunyengetedza hakugumiri pamatauriro edu nekutaura kwatinoita, asiwo kunosvika pakuteerera kwatinoita. Inosuma pfungwa ye”kunyatsoteerera,” nzira inokurudzira kwete kungonzwa mazwi emumwe munhu, asiwo kunzwisisa chinangwa chemashoko iwayo.
Boothman anosimbisa kukosha kwekubvunza mibvunzo yakasununguka, iyo isingagoni kupindurwa ne "hongu" kana "kwete". Iyi mibvunzo inokurudzira hurukuro yakadzama uye inoita kuti mubvunzurudzo anzwe kukosheswa nekunzwisiswa.
Inotsanangurawo kukosha kwekudzokorora, kudzokorora zvakataurwa nemumwe munhu nemashoko edu. Izvi hazvingoratidzi chete kuti tiri kuteerera, asiwo kuti tiri kutsvaga kunzwisisa.
Pakupedzisira, Boothman anopedzisa nekusimbisa kuti kunyengetedza kunopfuura kungopanana ruzivo. Zviri pamusoro pekugadzira kubatana kwechokwadi kwevanhu, izvo zvinoda tsitsi dzechokwadi uye kunzwisisa kwezvinodiwa nemumwe munhu uye zvishuwo.
Iri bhuku mugodhi wegoridhe weruzivo kune ani nani anoda kuvandudza hunyanzvi hwavo hwekutaurirana nekunyengetedza, mungave mune zvehunyanzvi kana zvemunhu. Zviri pachena kuti kiyi yekunyengetedza mumaminitsi asingasviki maviri haisi resipi yakavanzika, asi seti yehunyanzvi hunogona kudzidzwa nekukudzwa nekuita.
Uye usakanganwe, unogona kudzamisa manzwisisiro ako ehunyanzvi uhu nekuteerera kubhuku rinonzi “Convincing in Under 2 Minutes” rose kuburikidza nevhidhiyo. Usamirire zvakare, tsvaga maitiro aungaita hunyanzvi hwako hwekunyengetedza uye kuita mhedziso inogara isingasviki maminetsi maviri!
