Izinto Ezisisiseko Zokuphembelela Abanye
Incwadi kaDale Carnegie ethi "How to Make Friends" yapapashwa okokuqala ngo-1936. Ukanti iimfundiso zayo zisasebenza kweli hlabathi lethu lanamhlanje, ngokusekelwe kwimigaqo yeintsebenziswano yoluntu jikelele.
Omnye wemigaqo esisiseko ekhuthazwa nguCarnegie yingcamango yokuba nomdla onyanisekileyo kwabanye. Akunjalo malunga nokwenza ngathi unomdla ekulawuleni abantu, kodwa malunga nokuphuhlisa umnqweno wokwenene wokuqonda abantu abakungqongileyo. Lilula, kodwa icebiso elinamandla elinamandla okuguqula ubudlelwane bakho.
Ukongezelela, uCarnegie ukhuthaza ukubonisa uxabiso kwabanye. Kunokuba agxeke okanye agxeke, ucebisa ukuba abonakalise umbulelo ongazenzisiyo. Inokuba nempembelelo enkulu kwindlela obonwa ngayo kunye nomgangatho wobudlelwane bakho.
Iindlela zokufumana uvelwano
UCarnegie unikezela ngeendlela ezisebenzayo zokufumana uvelwano lwabanye. Ezi ndlela ziquka ukubaluleka kokuncuma, ukukhumbula nokusebenzisa amagama abantu, nokukhuthaza abanye ukuba bathethe ngeziqu zabo. Ezi ndlela zilula, kodwa ezisebenzayo zinokwenza unxibelelwano lwakho lube luhle kwaye lwakhe.
Iindlela zokuqinisekisa
Le ncwadi ikwabonelela ngobuchule bokukholisa abantu kunye nokwenza ukuba bamkele umbono wakho. Kunokuba axambulisane ngokuthe ngqo, uCarnegie ucebisa ukuba kuqala abonise intlonelo ngezimvo zabanye. Ukwacebisa ukwenza umntu azive ebalulekile ngokumamela ngononophelo nokuxabisa izimvo zabo.
Ukuziphatha ukuba yinkokeli
Kwinxalenye yokugqibela yencwadi, uCarnegie ugxile kwizakhono zobunkokeli. Ugxininisa ukuba ukuba yinkokeli ephumelelayo kuqala ngenzondelelo evuselelayo, kungekhona ukunyanzelisa uloyiko. Iinkokeli ezihloniphayo kwaye zibaxabisile abantu bazo zidla ngokufumana iziphumo ezincumisayo.
Jonga kwividiyo "Indlela yokwenza abahlobo"
Emva kokuhamba kwezi ndlela zisisiseko kunye neendlela ezisebenzayo, unokuba nomdla wokujonga yonke incwadi kaDale Carnegie ethi How to Make Friends. Le ncwadi ngumgodi wegolide wokwenyani kuye nabani na ojonge ukuphucula intsebenziswano yabo yentlalo kunye nokwandisa isangqa sabahlobo babo.
Ngethamsanqa, siye sazinzisa ividiyo engezantsi enika ufundo olupheleleyo lwencwadi. Thatha ixesha lokuyiphulaphula kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuyifunda, ukufumanisa nzulu izifundo ezixabisekileyo zikaCarnegie. Ukuphulaphula le ncwadi akunakukunceda nje ukuba wakhe izakhono zentlalo, kodwa kwakhona kukuguqule ube yinkokeli ehloniphekileyo nexabisekileyo kwindawo ohlala kuyo.
Kwaye khumbula, umlingo wokwenyani "wendlela yokwenza abahlobo" ilele ekuziqheliseni ngokuqhubekayo ubuchule obubonisiweyo. Ke, ungalibazisi ukubuyela kule migaqo kwaye uyiphumeze kunxibelelwano lwakho lwemihla ngemihla. Kwimpumelelo yakho kubugcisa bobudlelwane babantu!
