Ukuqonda imithombo yoluntu kunye noRobert Greene
URobert Greene, owaziwa ngendlela yakhe enzulu nenempembelelo Iqhinga, ithatha inyathelo elikhulu phambili "ngeMithetho yeNdalo yoMntu". Le ncwadi inika umdla inika ukukhanya kweyona miba ifihlakeleyo nentsonkothileyo yesayikholoji yabantu, ivumela abafundi ukuba bahambe ngendlela esebenzayo kubunzima bentlalo yehlabathi lethu lanamhlanje.
Isahluko ngasinye sale ncwadi simele umthetho, umgaqo ongenakwahlulwa kubume bethu bobuntu. UGreene usithatha usithathele kuphononongo olunzulu lomthetho ngamnye, kunye nemizekelo yembali kunye neembali ezinomdla. Nokuba ufuna ukuziqonda ngcono, uphucule ubudlelwane bakho, okanye wandise impembelelo yakho, le mithetho inika ingqiqo exabiseke kakhulu.
Umthetho wokuQala, umzekelo, uphonononga indima yokuziphatha okungathethiyo kunxibelelwano lwethu lwemihla ngemihla. UGreene ugxininisa ukuba izenzo zethu zithetha ngaphezu kwamagama ethu kwaye ichaza indlela ulwimi lwethu lomzimba, inkangeleko yobuso kunye nethoni yethu yelizwi ehambisa imiyalezo enamandla, ehlala ingekho zingqondweni.
Kweli nqaku, siza kubona indlela "iMithetho yeNdalo yoMntu" enokuthi isebenze njengesikhokelo esixabisekileyo ekuchazeni iinjongo ezifihliweyo, ukulindela ukuziphatha kunye, ekugqibeleni, ukuqonda kangcono abanye kunye nesiqu sakho.
Ukuntsonkotha okungabonakaliyo kwendalo yomntu
Incwadi ethi “The Laws of Human Nature” kaRobert Greene ijongana nemibandela enzulu yokuziphatha kwethu. Ngokungena kule mithetho ichuliweyo nentsokothileyo, sifumanisa iinkalo ezifihlakeleyo zendalo yethu, ezinokuthi ngamanye amaxesha zisimangalise. Imithetho ekuthethwa ngayo apha inxulunyaniswe ngokuphandle nonxibelelwano lwethu loluntu, indlela yethu yokucinga kunye nendlela esizijonga ngayo thina nabanye.
IGreene inika umboniso ngobume bethuku kunye neemvakalelo zethu, iqaqambisa impembelelo ezinokuthi zibe nayo kwindlela esiziphatha ngayo. Ngaloo ndlela isinika izixhobo zokuqonda izenzo zethu nendlela esisabela ngayo, kunye nezo zabantu abasingqongileyo.
Inkalo ephambili yale ncwadi kukubaluleka kokuzazi. Ngokuzazi thina kunye nokuqonda inkuthazo yethu enzulu, singakwazi ukulawula ngcono ubudlelwane bethu nabanye, kwaye sikwasikhokele kuphuhliso lobuqu olulungeleleneyo nolunempilo.
Izifundo ezifunyenwe kule mithetho yendalo yomntu azikho nje iinkcazo-bungcali. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ziluncedo gqitha yaye zinokusetyenziswa kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla. Nokuba kubudlelwane bethu bobuqu, imisebenzi yethu yobungcali, okanye unxibelelwano lwethu oluqhelekileyo, le mithetho inokusinceda sihambe ngobulumko obukhulu nokuqonda kubunzima obuntsonkothileyo bendalo yomntu.
Amandla okuzazi
Kwi "Imithetho yeNdalo yoMntu", uRobert Greene ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuzazi. Uyithethelela ingcamango yokuba amandla ethu okuqonda abanye anxibelelene ngokuthe ngqo namandla ethu okuziqonda. Eneneni, ucalucalulo esinalo, uloyiko esinalo, neminqweno yethu engazi nto inokuyigqwetha indlela esibajonga ngayo abanye, nto leyo ekhokelela ekungaqondani nasekuxabaneni.
UGreene ukhuthaza abafundi bakhe ukuba baziqhelanise ne-introspection rhoqo, ukuze bachonge oku kuthambekela kwaye basebenzele ukuphelisa. Ngaphezu koko, umbhali ucebisa ukuba masifune ukuqonda kungekuphela nje ezethu iinjongo, kodwa nezo zabanye. Oku kuqondana kunokukhokelela kubudlelwane obunemvisiswano kunye nemveliso.
Okokugqibela, uGreene uthi ukuzazi sisakhono esinokuphuhliswa size siphuculwe ekuhambeni kwexesha. Kanye njengesihlunu, inokomelezwa kukwenza umthambo rhoqo namava. Kubalulekile ke ngoko ukuba nomonde nokuzibophelela kule nkqubo yokukhula komntu kwixesha elide.
Ukufumana ukuqonda okupheleleyo kunye neenkcukacha zesifundo, akukho nto idlula ukufunda yonke incwadi. Ke ungathandabuzi ukuntywila “kwiMithetho yeNdalo yoMntu” ukuze wenze nzulu ulwazi lwakho kwaye uphuhlise ubuchule bakho kwindalo yomntu. Sikubekele ufundo olupheleleyo lwencwadi kwiividiyo ezingezantsi.
