Fumana "Izizathu zanele"
Kwincwadi yakhe ethi “Akukho Zingxengxezo Zanele,” umbhali odumileyo kunye nesithethi uWayne Dyer unika umbono oxhokonxa ingcinga malunga nokucela uxolo kunye nendlela ezinokuthi zibe yimiqobo kubomi bethu. ukukhula komntu kunye nobungcali. Le ncwadi ngumgodi wegolide wamacebiso asebenzisekayo nobulumko obunzulu ngendlela yokuthabatha uxanduva ngezenzo zethu size siphile ubomi obunenjongo nolwaneliseko.
NgokukaDyer, uninzi lwabantu aluqapheli ifuthe elikhulu lokucela uxolo olunokuba nalo ebomini babo. Ezi zizathu, ezihlala zigqunywe njengezizathu ezivakalayo zokungenzi nto, zinokusithintela ekuphumezeni iinjongo zethu kwaye siphile ubomi bethu ngokupheleleyo.
Iingqikelelo eziphambili ze "No more apologies"
UWayne Dyer uchonga aze axoxe ngezizathu ezininzi eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswa ngabantu ukuphepha ukwenza izinto. Ezi ngxengxezo zinokususela ku-"Ndimdala kakhulu" ukuya kuthi "andinaxesha," kwaye uDyer uchaza indlela ezi ngxengxezo ezinokusigcina ngayo ukuba siphile ubomi obanelisayo. Uyasikhuthaza ukuba sizikhabe ezi ngxengxezo kwaye sithabathe uxanduva ngezenzo zethu.
Phakathi kwezona ngcamango zibalaseleyo zale ncwadi yingcamango yokuba sinoxanduva lobomi bethu. UDyer ugxininisa ukuba sinamandla okukhetha isimo sethu sengqondo ebomini, kwaye sinokukhetha ukungavumeli izizathu eziphazamisa indlela yokuphila ngokupheleleyo. Le ngcamango inamandla ngakumbi kuba isikhumbuza ukuba sithi kuphela abanokugqiba ngekhondo lobomi bethu.
Indlela “Ukucela Uxolo Okwanele” Okunokutshintsha Ngayo Ubomi Bakho
UDyer uthi ukwamkela uxanduva lobomi bethu kunokukhokelela ekutshintsheni okukhulu kwengqondo kunye nesimo sethu sengqondo. Endaweni yokubona imiqobo njengezizathu zokungenzi nto, siqala ukuyibona njengamathuba okukhula nokufunda. Ngokugatya izizathu, siqala ukuthatha inyathelo lokufezekisa amaphupha ethu kwaye sifezekise iinjongo zethu.
Le ncwadi ikwabonelela ngeendlela ezisebenzisekayo zokoyisa ukuzithethelela. Umzekelo, uDyer ucebisa umthambo wokubonwa ukuze uncede utshintshe iipatheni zethu zokucinga ezingalunganga. Ezi ndlela zilula kodwa zinamandla kwaye zinokusetyenziswa nguye nabani na ojonge ukuphucula ubomi bakhe.
Amandla okuzimela: isitshixo ukoyisa izizathu
Isitshixo sokoyisa izizathu, ngokukaDyer, kukuqonda ukuba sinoxanduva kuphela lwezenzo zethu. Xa sikuqonda oku, siyazikhulula kumakhamandela okuzithethelela kwaye sizinike ithuba lokutshintsha. Ngokuqaphela ukuba sinamandla okulawula ubomi bethu, siyazixhobisa ukoyisa imiqobo kwaye sifezekise iinjongo zethu.
Ngokufutshane: umyalezo ophambili othi "Uxolo lwanele"
"Akukho Zingxengxezo Zanele" yincwadi enamandla ebonisa ngokucacileyo indlela ukuxolisa kunokuthintela ngayo inkqubela yethu kunye nokunciphisa amandla ethu. Ibonelela ngezicwangciso ezibambekayo zokuqaphela kunye nokoyisa ezi zizathu, isinika izixhobo zokuphila ubomi obanelisayo nobanelisayo.
Ukuqukumbela, Uxolo lwanele lungaphezulu nje kwencwadi emalunga nokuxhotyiswa nokuthatha uxanduva. Sisikhokelo esisebenzayo esiya kukunceda utshintshe indlela yakho yokucinga kwaye ube nengqondo eyakhayo nesebenzayo. Nangona sabelane ngesishwankathelo sencwadi kunye nezinto eziphambili ezifundiweyo, kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uyifunde yonke le ncwadi ukuze ufumane inzuzo enkulu kuyo.
Khumbula ukuba, ukuze ungcamle, senze kwafumaneka ividiyo ebonisa izahluko zokuqala zale ncwadi. Esi sisiqalo esihle, kodwa asisokuze sithabathel’ indawo ubutyebi bolwazi oluqulethwe kufundo lwencwadi iphela.
