Utshintshe ngokukhawuleza
"Isibindi sokutshintsha" nguDan kunye neChip Heath ngumgodi wegolide kuye nabani na onqwenela ukuqalisa utshintsho olunentsingiselo. Abazalwana bakaHeath baqala ngokucela umngeni kwimvakalelo eqhelekileyo yokuchasa utshintsho. Kubo, utshintsho lungokwemvelo kwaye alunakuphepheka. Umceli mngeni ulele kulawulo lotshintsho kwaye kulapho bacebisa khona indlela yabo entsha.
Ngokutsho kweeHeaths, utshintsho luhlala lubonwa njengengozi kwaye yiyo loo nto sixhathisa. Nangona kunjalo, kunye nezicwangciso ezichanekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukukubona kwimbono eyahlukileyo kwaye ulwamkele ngokuqinisekileyo olu tshintsho. Izicwangciso zabo zichitha inkqubo yokutshintsha ibe ngamanyathelo acacileyo, ukuphelisa umba onzima wokutshintsha.
Bakhuthaza ukuba "babone" utshintsho. Kubandakanya ukuchonga oko kufuneka kutshintshwe, ukujonga ikamva elinqwenelekayo, nokuqonda umahluko phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini. Bagxininisa ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuziphatha kwangoku kunye neemeko ezifuna utshintsho.
Inkuthazo yotshintsho
Inkuthazo yinto ephambili yotshintsho oluyimpumelelo. Abazalwana bakwaHeath bagxininisa kwinqaku elithi "Ubuganga bokutshintsha" ukuba inguqu ayingombuzo wentando kuphela, kodwa kunye nenkuthazo. Banikezela ngeendlela ezininzi zokwandisa inkuthazo yethu yokutshintsha, kubandakanya ukubaluleka kokuba nombono ocacileyo wento esifuna ukuyiphumeza kunye nokubaluleka kokubhiyozela uloyiso lwethu oluncinci.
I-Heaths ichaza ukuba ukuchasana notshintsho kuhlala kungenxa yenkuthazo enganelanga kunokuchasa ngabom. Ke ngoko bacebisa ukuguqula utshintsho lube ngumnqweno, onika intsingiselo kumzamo wethu kunye nokwandisa inkuthazo yethu. Ngaphezu koko, bagxininisa indima ebalulekileyo yeemvakalelo ekukhuthazeni utshintsho. Kunokuba banikele ingqalelo kuphela kwiingxoxo ezisengqiqweni, bakhuthaza ukuchukumisa iimvakalelo ukuze kuvuse umnqweno wokutshintsha.
Ngapha koko, bachaza indlela okusingqongileyo okunokuyichaphazela ngayo inkuthazo yethu yokutshintsha. Ngokomzekelo, imeko-bume engathandekiyo inokusidimaza ekutshintsheni, ngoxa imeko-bume entle inokusikhuthaza ukuba sitshintshe. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukudala imeko-bume exhasa ukuthanda kwethu ukutshintsha.
Ngokutsho kwe "Dare to Change", ukuze utshintshe ngempumelelo, kubalulekile ukuqonda izinto ezikhuthaza utshintsho kwaye siyazi indlela yokuzisebenzisa ukuze sizuze.
Ukoyisa imiqobo yokutshintsha
Ukoyisa imiqobo lelinye lawona manqanaba amaqhinga otshintsho. Abazalwana bakaHeath basinika amacebo asebenzayo okoyisa imigibe eqhelekileyo emi endleleni yethu yokutshintsha.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo kukugxila kwingxaki kunesisombululo. I-Heaths icebisa ukubuyisela umva le ndlela ngokugxila kwinto esele isebenza kunye nendlela yokuyiphinda. Bathetha "ngokufumana iindawo eziqaqambileyo," ezichonga impumelelo yangoku kunye nokufunda kuzo ukwenza utshintsho.
Kwakhona bazisa ingcamango "yeskripthi sokutshintsha", isikhokelo sesinyathelo-nge-nyathelo esiza abantu ukuba babone indlela yokulandela. Utshintsho lweskripthi lunika imiyalelo ecacileyo, esebenzayo ukunceda abantu ngenkqubo yotshintsho.
Ekugqibeleni, bagxininisa ukuba utshintsho alukho umcimbi omnye, kodwa yinkqubo. Bakhuthaza ukugcina ingqondo yokukhula kwaye ulungele ukwenza uhlengahlengiso endleleni. Utshintsho luthatha ixesha kunye nomonde, kwaye kubalulekile ukunyamezela nangona kukho imiqobo.
“Kwi-Dare to Change”, abazalwana bakwaHeath basinika izixhobo ezixabisekileyo zokoyisa imingeni yotshintsho kunye nokuguqula amabhongo ethu otshintsho abe yinyani. Ngezi ngcebiso esandleni, sixhotyiswe ngcono ukuba sibe nobuganga bokutshintsha kwaye senze umahluko kubomi bethu.
Ngaba ukulungele ukufumana iimfihlo zotshintsho olusebenzayo? Siyakumema ukuba umamele izahluko zokuqala ze-"Dare to Change" kwividiyo yethu. Ezi zahluko zokuqala ziya kukunika incasa yeengcebiso ezisebenzayo kunye nobuchule abaza kunikelwa ngabazalwane bakwaHeath. Kodwa khumbula, akukho nto inokuthatha indawo yokufunda yonke incwadi ukuze utshintshe ngempumelelo. Uphulaphule kakuhle!
