Loyisa uloyiko lwakho ukuze ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo
Uloyiko yimvakalelo yendalo yonke ehamba nathi kubo bonke ubukho bethu. Inokuba luncedo ekusikhuseleni engozini, kodwa inokusikhubaza kwaye isithintele ekufezekiseni amaphupha ethu. Indlela yokoyisa uloyiko kwaye uyiguqule ibe yinjini yokuphumelela?
Yile nto incwadi ethi "Umthetho we-50 - Uloyiko lolona tshaba lwakho lubi" lusinika ukuba sifumane, ebhalwe nguRobert Greene kunye no-50 Cent, i-rapper eyaziwayo yaseMelika. Le ncwadi iphefumlelwe ubomi be-50 Cent, owayeyazi indlela yokubuyisela ebuntwaneni obunzima kwi-ghetto, umzamo wokubulala kunye nomsebenzi womculo ogcwele imigibe ukuze ube yinkwenkwezi yehlabathi.
Le ncwadi iphinda itsalele kwimizekelo yembali, yoncwadi kunye nefilosofi, ukusuka eThucydides ukuya kuMalcolm X ngeNapoleon okanye uLouis XIV, ukubonisa imigaqo yokungoyiki kunye nempumelelo. Sisifundo sokwenyani kubuchule, ubunkokeli kunye nobuchule, obusimemayo ukuba sibe nesimo sengqondo sokuthatha amanyathelo, ukukhalipha kunye nokuzimela xa sijongene nemiqobo kunye namathuba esiwafumana kubomi.
Umthetho wama-50 enyanisweni ukuhlanganiswa kwe 48 imithetho yamandla, incwadi ethengiswa kakhulu nguRobert Greene echaza imithetho ekhohlakeleyo yomdlalo wentlalo, kunye nomthetho wempumelelo, umgaqo osisiseko ovuselela i-50 Cent kwaye unokushwankathelwa kwesi sivakalisi: "Andoyiki ukuba ndim. -ewe". Ngokudibanisa ezi ndlela zimbini, ababhali basinika umbono wokuqala kunye novuselelayo wophuhliso lomntu.
Nazi izifundo eziphambili onokuzithatha kule ncwadi
- Uloyiko yinkohliso eyenziwe yingqondo yethu, esenza sikholelwe ukuba asinamandla xa sijongana neziganeko. Enyanisweni, sihlala sinokukhetha kunye nokulawula ikamva lethu. Kwanele ukuba siqaphele amandla ethu kunye nemithombo yethu, kwaye senze ngokufanelekileyo.
- Uloyiko luhlala lunxulunyaniswa nokuxhomekeka: ukuxhomekeka kuluvo lwabanye, kwimali, kubomi obutofotofo, kukhuseleko… Ukuze sikhululeke kwaye sizithembe, kufuneka sahlukane noku kuncamathela kwaye sihlakulele ukuzimela kwethu. Oku kuthetha ukuthatha uxanduva, ukufunda ukuziqhelanisa notshintsho kunye nobuganga bokuthatha imingcipheko ebalwayo.
- Uloyiko lukwangumphumo wokungazithembi. Ukuyoyisa, kufuneka sikhulise ubuni bethu kunye nokuba mnye. Kuthetha ukungoyiki ukuba nguwe, ukuvakalisa izimvo zethu, iitalente kunye nezinto esizithandayo, kwaye singahambelani nemilinganiselo yentlalontle. Kukwathetha ukumisela iinjongo zamabhongo nezobuqu, nokusebenza nzima ukuziphumeza.
- Uloyiko lunokuguqulwa lube ngamandla alungileyo ukuba luqhutywa ngendlela eyakhayo. Kunokuba sibaleke okanye siphephe iimeko ezisoyikisayo, simele sijamelane nazo ngenkalipho nangozimiselo. Ivumela ukuba sakhe ukuzithemba kwethu, ukufumana amava kunye nezakhono, kunye nokudala amathuba angalindelekanga.
- Uloyiko lunokusetyenziswa njengesixhobo sobuchule sokuphembelela abanye. Ngokulawula iimvakalelo zethu size sihlale sizolile xa sijamelene nengozi, sinokwenza abantu bahlonelwe negunya. Ngokuphembelela okanye ngokuxhaphaza uloyiko kwiintshaba zethu, sinokuzinzisa kwaye sizilawule. Ngokufaka okanye ukususa uloyiko kumahlakani ethu, sinokubakhuthaza kwaye sibagcine.
Umthetho wama-50 yincwadi ekufundisa indlela yokoyisa uloyiko kwaye uphumelele ebomini. Ikunika izitshixo zokuba yinkokeli, umntu osungula izinto ezintsha kunye nombono, okwaziyo ukufezekisa amaphupha akho kwaye ushiye uphawu lwakho kwihlabathi. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi mamela inguqulelo epheleleyo yencwadi kwiividiyo ezingezantsi.
