Ubomi benziwa njalo, wonke umntu unamandla kunye nobuthathaka. Ukuba ungomnye walabo abafuna ukulungele konke, ngokobuthathaka bakho buba yimithintelo yangempela.
Kodwa yazi ukuba awukwazi ukuba yindawo engcono kakhulu kuyo yonke indawo ke kungcono ukuvuma ubuthathaka bakho kwaye uguqule ezikhudlwana zibe namandla.

Qala ngokuqaphela nokwamkela ubuthathaka bomntu:

Ukuguqula ubuthathaka bube namandla, kufuneka uqale ngokubuqonda kwaye uvume, ngamanye amazwi uyeke ukukhanyela.
Ukuba awukhululekanga kwiimeko ezithile, uya kutyekela ekuziphepheni. Ukuba inokukusebenzela, inokukwenzakalisa ngamanye amaxesha.
Eneneni, uya kutyekela ekuvumeleni ukuba le meko ibole kuba nje usala ukujamelana nayo.
Kungenxa yoko kubalulekile ukufumanisa ubuthathaka ngaphambi kokuba uguqulwe ngamandla.

Ukulungiselela, umlingani wakho omhle:

Ukukulungele ukujamelana nemeko kunokukunceda uguquke ube namandla.
Makhe sithathe umzekelo obambekayo: unedinga lokuthethathethana nomxhasi ukuze uthethe ngekhontrakthi kwaye wazi kakuhle ukuba uthetha-thethwano asiyonto ingamandla yakho.
Ngoko ke, ukuphepha ukuzifumana ukwimeko ehlazo, akukho nto ingcono kunokulungiselela le ntlanganiso.
Ngokomzekelo, unokufumana ngokubanzi malunga nomntu oqhagamshelana naye kunye nenkampani yakhe.
Okukhona usiba, kokukhona uya kukhululeka ngakumbi kule meko.

Unganqikazi ukunikezela:

Ukuba kufuneka wenze umsebenzi ongenazo izakhono zawo, wabele lo msebenzi kumntu onezakhono.
Musa ukukubona oku njengokufuna ukubaleka lo msebenzi, kodwa kunokuba nje ukwamkela into yokuba awunazo izakhono eziyimfuneko ukuphumeza lo msebenzi.
Kwaye ungathatha ithuba lokufunda kulo mntu ufanelekileyo.

Umanyano ngamandla!

Kwintlangano yakho, eyimfihlo okanye yobungcali, kunokubakho umntu onobuthathaka obunye okanye obunjalo.
Ngokuzibandakanya nalo mntu ukufumana isisombululo esi sibuthathaka singaba yimpahla.
Enyanisweni, nonke nijamelana neengxaki ezifanayo kunye nokucinga kunye kunye indlela enhle yokuguqula ubuthathaka ibe yimpahla.

Xa ufuna ukuguqula ubuthathaka bakho bube lithamsanqa, into ebalulekileyo kukuthatha inyathelo umva ukuze ubone kakuhle onke amandla anokutsalwa kuwo.
Ubuthathaka bethu abukho ngamabona-ndenzile, eyona nto iphambili kukusixelela ukuba bunokuba luncedo kuthi.