Intshayelelo "Ubugcisa obuchuliweyo bokunganikezeli"
"Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunganiki iFuck" nguMark Manson ayiyoncwadi phuhliso lwabantu eqhelekileyo. Esikhundleni sokushumayela isigidimi sokucinga okulungileyo kunye nempumelelo engapheliyo, uManson ukhuthaza indlela yokwenene, ephantsi ukuya emhlabeni ebomini. Ngokutsho kwakhe, isitshixo solonwabo kunye nokuzaliseka asikho ekuphepheni iingxaki, kodwa ekukhetheni ngokuqaphela imizabalazo efanelekileyo.
Amaxabiso angasebenziyo kunye nokubaluleka kokukhetha imizabalazo yakho
UManson ugxeka "imilinganiselo engasebenziyo" exhaphakileyo kuluntu lwanamhlanje, olufana nokuthanda impumelelo, ubutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuthandwa. Ubonisa ukuba ezi njongo ziphezulu ziyasiphazamisa kwimilinganiselo ebaluleke ngokwenene kwaye kufuneka silandele imilinganiselo enempilo, efana Developpement zobuqu, ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye negalelo kuluntu.
Kunokuba sizame ukuphepha iingxaki nobunzima, sifanele sizamkele njengenxalenye yobomi engenakuphepheka size sikhethe ngenyameko imizabalazo ebalulekileyo kuthi. Le filosofi ishwankathelwe ngokugqibeleleyo kwisihloko esichukumisayo sencwadi: "Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunganikezeli".
Ingcamango "yokufa komntu" kunye nokubaluleka kwayo kuphuhliso lomntu
Enye ingqikelelo ephambili "kwiNgcali yoBuchule bokuNganiki iFuck" ngumbono "wokuzibulala". UManson uxoxa ukuba ukukhula kunye nokuvela njengabantu, kufuneka sizimisele ukuvumela ubuntu bethu obudala kunye neenkolelo zethu zife. Kuphela kungokwamkela ukutshintsha kunye nokuvela apho sinokufikelela kuphuhliso lokwenyani lomntu.
Inyaniso engakhululekanga kunye noxanduva
UManson ukwasikhuthaza ukuba samkele iinyaniso ezingonwabanga zobomi, kunokuba sizifihle ngeenkohliso zentuthuzelo. Uthi sinoxanduva lobomi bethu kunye nolonwabo lwethu, kwaye ukugxeka abanye ngeengxaki zethu kuya kusibuyisela umva.
Inyathelo elilandelayo: Zintywilisele “kuBuchule obuchuliweyo bokunganikezeli ngeFuck”
"UbuGcisa obuBuchule bokunganikezeli iFuck" bubonelela ngombono ohlaziyayo kunye noyimfuneko kuphuhliso lomntu. Ngokucela umngeni kwiinqobo ezisemgangathweni kunye nokukhuthaza ukwamkelwa kokubandezeleka kunye noxanduva lobuqu, uMark Manson unikezela ngeengcebiso ezixabisekileyo kwabo bafuna intsingiselo kunye nokuzaliseka okuyinyani ebomini.
Ukuba udiniwe zii-clichés zokuzinceda kwaye ujonge indlela esezantsi-yomhlaba, eyinyani, "UbuGcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunganiki iFuck" yindawo entle yokuqalisa. Usenokungafundi ukuziphepha iingxaki, kodwa uya kufunda ukukhetha imizabalazo efanelekileyo, yaye asibobuchule bokwenene bokuphila obo?
Isicelo kwilizwe lobuchwephesha
"Ubugcisa obuhle bokunganikezeli" bunokubonakala buphikisana nehlabathi lezoshishino eligxile kwimpumelelo kuzo zonke iindleko. Nangona kunjalo, inika izifundo ezibalulekileyo kuye nabani na onqwenela ubunkokeli obuyinyani nobusebenzayo. Ukukhetha ngononophelo imizabalazo ebalulekileyo, ukwamkela inyaniso naxa ingakhululekanga, kunye nokuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zomntu zonke ziyimigaqo enokuphucula ukusebenza komsebenzi kunye nokuphila kakuhle kwendawo yokusebenza. Ekugqibeleni, ukuyifumana inokuba sisitshixo sempumelelo kwihlabathi leshishini.
Ukuba eli nqaku livuse umdla wakho, sinesiphakamiso esikhethekileyo kuwe. Siyenze yafumaneka ividiyo ekubonelela ngokufunda izahluko zokuqala ze "Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunganikezeli". Ewe, oku akuthathi ndawo yokufunda yonke incwadi, kodwa sisiqalo esihle sokuqonda ifilosofi kaManson.
