Iintetho ezinembeko: Iimpazamo ezimbalwa ekufuneka uziphephe!

Ikhava ileta, ileta enkosi, email professional ... Kukho izihlandlo ezininzi xa iifomula ezihloniphekileyo zisetyenziswa, zombini kwiileta zolawulo kunye nee-imeyile zobungcali. Nangona kunjalo, maninzi amazwi ahloniphekileyo onokuthi anikezelwe kwi-imeyile yobuchwephesha enokuthi ibhijelwe ngokukhawuleza. Kweli qela, sichonge, kuwe, ezinye zazo ekufuneka uzigxothe. Ngokwenene azinamveliso. Ukuba ufuna ukuphucula umgangatho wee-imeyile zakho zobuchwephesha, ufike kwindawo elungileyo.

Nceda undiphendule okanye Enkosi kwangethuba: Iindlela zembeko ekufuneka uziphephe

Akulunganga ukucinga ukuba ukubulela umntu ophakamileyo okanye umxhasi kwangaphambili kuya kubakhuthaza ukuba bamkele isicelo sethu okanye isicelo sethu. Kodwa eneneni, sibulela kuphela ngenkonzo esele siyinikiwe hayi uncedo lwexesha elizayo.

Ngelixa ukwimeko yobuchwephesha, ifomula nganye inokubaluleka kwayo kwaye impembelelo yengqondo yamagama akufuneki ingahoywa. Umbono ngokwenene kukuvelisa ukuzibophelela kunye nomntu odibana naye. Kule meko, kutheni ungasebenzisi isigunyaziso?

Ungasebenzisa le mowudi ngelixa uhlala uhloniphekile. Endaweni yokubhala "Enkosi ngokundiphendula", kungcono ukuthi: "Nceda undiphendule" okanye kunoko "Yazi ukuba ungandifumana ...". Uqinisekile ukuba ucinga ukuba ezi fomyula zinoburhalarhume ngandlel' ithile okanye ngethowuni ebossy.

Kwaye okwangoku, ezi ziintetha ezibandakanya kakhulu zembeko ezinika ubuntu kumthumeli we-imeyile kwindawo yobuchwephesha. Oku kuyangqubana nee-imeyile ezininzi ezingenamdla okanye zigqalwa zineentloni kakhulu.

Iifomula ezichubekileyo ezinentsingiselo engafanelekanga: Kutheni uziphephe?

"Ungalibazisi ukunxibelelana nam" okanye "Siya kuqiniseka ukuba sibuyela kuwe". Onke la ngamabinzana achubekileyo aneentsingiselo ezingalunganga ukuba kubalulekile ukuvala kwii-imeyile zakho zobuchwephesha.

Kuyinyani ukuba ezi ziifomula ezilungileyo. Kodwa isibakala sokuba zichazwe ngendlela engafanelekanga maxa wambi izenza zingabi namveliso. Ingqinwe ngenene yi-neuroscience, ingqondo yethu ithande ukungakhathaleli. Iifomula ezingalunganga azisityhalela esenzweni kwaye amaxesha amaninzi zinzima.

Ke, endaweni yokuthi "Zive ukhululekile ukwenza iakhawunti yakho", kungcono ukusebenzisa "Nceda wenze iakhawunti yakho" okanye "Yazi ukuba ungayenza iakhawunti yakho". Uphononongo oluninzi luveze ukuba imiyalezo eyakhayo equlunqwe ngendlela engalunganga ivelisa isantya esincinci soguqulo.

Ngomnqweno wokubandakanya oonxibelelwano kwii-imeyile zakho zobuchwephesha. Uya kuzuza okuninzi ngokukhetha amazwi avumayo embeko. Umfundi wakho uya kuziva enenkxalabo ngakumbi ngesibongozo sakho okanye isicelo sakho.