Incwadi yoBomi engapapashwanga-Uphononongo oluTshintshayo
Ihlabathi ligcwele iingcebiso ezingenakubalwa zophuhliso lomntu, kodwa akukho nanye efana nento uJoe Vitale anikezela ngayo kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Incwadi Engapapashwanga Yobomi". U-Vitale akakrwempanga nje phezulu. Endaweni yoko, ihlolisisa ubume bobomi ngokwabo, ihlola indlela esinokuyitshintsha ngayo indlela yethu kuyo yonke into, ukusuka kwimisebenzi yethu ukuya kubudlelwane bethu bobuqu.
Le manuwali ikhethekileyo isuka kude kwi-clichés ehlala iphindaphindwa kwintsimi yophuhliso lomntu kwaye inika imbono eyodwa kunye nokuhlaziya. Akunjalo nje ngokuba yinguqulelo engcono kuwe, kodwa malunga nokuqonda ngokwenene ukuba kuthetha ukuthini "uqobo lwakho". Imalunga nokuphonononga amandla akho ngaphaya kwemida onokuthi uyibeke kuwe.
Ngamnye wethu unenkcazo ekhethekileyo yempumelelo. Kwabanye isenokuba ngumsebenzi ophumelelayo, kwabanye isenokuba bubomi bentsapho obonwabisayo okanye imvakalelo yoxolo lwangaphakathi. Nokuba yeyiphi na injongo yakho, iJoe Vitale's Unpublished Life Manual sisixhobo esixabisekileyo esinokukunceda ukuba usifezekise.
Ngokutshintsha indlela obujonga ngayo ubomi, le ncwadi yokusebenza ibonelela ngendlela eya kulwaneliseko lokwenyani lomntu. Ayikokutshintsha ukuba ungubani na, kodwa malunga nokuqonda ukuba ungubani ngokwenene kunye nokusebenzisa olo lwazi ukuya kwiinjongo zakho ngokucacileyo nangokuzimisela.
Bopha Amandla Akho Angasetyenziswa
Kwi "Incwadi engapapashwanga yoBomi", uJoe Vitale usityhalela ukuba sihlole iimbono zethu malunga nempumelelo kunye nolonwabo. Ayilogqatso lokululandela, kodwa luhambo ekufuneka siluthabathe, ngokuzazi ngokupheleleyo nangokuvisisana neminqweno yethu yokwenyani.
Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yolu hambo kukuphonononga kunye nokusebenzisa amandla ethu angekaphononongwa. UVitale ugxininisa ukuba sonke sisikelelwe ngeetalente kunye nezakhono ezizodwa, ezihlala zingasetyenziswa kakuhle. Kuninzi lwethu, ezi talente zihlala zifihliwe, hayi ngenxa yokuba singenazo, kodwa kuba asizange sifune ukuzibhaqa nokuziphuhlisa.
UVitale ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuqhubeka nemfundo, kuphuhliso lwethu lobuqu kunye nenkqubela phambili yethu yobungcali. Ikhuthaza ukutyala ixesha kunye nomgudu ekufundeni izakhono ezitsha kunye nokuphucula ezo sele sinabo. Kungokuphononongwa rhoqo kwezakhono zethu esinokuthi sifezekise ezona njongo zethu zinqwenelekayo kwaye sifezekise awona maphupha ethu angalawulekiyo.
Le ncwadi ikwacel’ umngeni imbono yethu yokusilela. KuVitale, konke ukusilela lithuba lokufunda kunye nokukhula. Uyasibongoza ukuba singakoyiki ukungaphumeleli, kodwa sikwamkele njengenyathelo elibalulekileyo kuhambo lwethu oluya empumelelweni.
Umlingo Wokucinga Okulungileyo
"Incwadi Yobomi Engapapashwanga" igxininisa amandla okucinga okulungileyo. KuJoe Vitale, ingqondo yethu inefuthe elithe ngqo kwinyani yethu. Iingcinga esizonwaba ngazo, nokuba zilungile okanye zingalunganga, zibumba indlela esilijonga ngayo ilizwe kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ubomi bethu ngokwabo.
UVitale uyasikhuthaza ukuba sitshintshe iingcinga ezingakhiyo ngeengcinga ezakhayo, sibuyisele iingqondo zethu empumelelweni nakulonwabo. Ugxininisa ukuba ingqondo yethu imisela izenzo zethu, kwaye izenzo zethu zigqiba iziphumo zethu. Ngoko, ngokulawula iingqondo zethu, sinokubulawula ubomi bethu.
Ekugqibeleni, "Incwadi yoBomi engapapashwanga" ingaphezulu kakhulu kunesikhokelo sokufumana impumelelo. Liqabane lokwenyani lokuhamba, likunceda ukuba ujongane nobunzima bobomi ngelixa ufuna ukufumana okuninzi kuwe. Sisimemo sokujonga ngaphaya kwenkangeleko, uphonononge amandla akho angaphononongwanga kwaye wamkele umlingo wokucinga okulungileyo.
Ungalibali ukuba unokufumana ikroba lolu hambo lumnandi ngokumamela ividiyo ebonisa izahluko zokuqala zale ncwadi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto ithatha indawo yokufunda lo msebenzi wobugcisa wophuhliso lomntu ngokupheleleyo.
