Fumana uxolo lwangaphakathi nge "Quietude"
Kwihlabathi eliya lisiba nezidubedube, uEckhart Tolle uyasimema, kwincwadi yakhe ethi “Quietude”, ukuba sifumane omnye umlinganiselo wobukho: uxolo lwangaphakathi. Uyasichazela ukuba olu xolo aluyiyo imfuno yangaphandle, kodwa yimeko yobukho kuthi.
NgokukaTolle, ubuni bethu abusekelwanga kuphela kwingqondo yethu okanye kwi-ego yethu, kodwa nakwinqanaba elinzulu lobuntu bethu. Ubiza lo mlinganiso ngokuba ngu "Self" kunye ne-capital "S" ukuhlula kumfanekiso esinawo ngathi. Kuye, kungokudibanisa kule "Self" ukuba sinokufikelela kwimeko yokuzola kunye uxolo lwangaphakathi.
Inyathelo lokuqala elibhekiselele kolu nxibelelwano kukwazi umzuzu wangoku, ukuphila ngokupheleleyo umzuzu ngamnye ngaphandle kokungcungcuthekiswa ziingcinga okanye iimvakalelo. Obu bukho balo mzuzu, uTolle uyibona njengendlela yokunqanda ukuhamba okungapheliyo kweengcinga ezisithathayo ukusuka kundoqo wethu.
Kusikhuthaza ukuba sinikele ingqalelo kwiingcamango neemvakalelo zethu ngaphandle kokuzigweba okanye ukuzivumela ukuba zisilawule. Ngokuziqwalasela, sinokuqonda ukuba azisithi, kodwa ziyimveliso yengqondo yethu. Kungokudala le ndawo yokujonga apho sinokuqala ukuyeka ukuchongwa kunye ne-ego yethu.
Inkululeko ekuchongeni i-ego
Kwi-"Quietude", u-Eckhart Tolle usinika izixhobo zokuqhawula ukuchonga kwethu kunye ne-ego yethu kwaye siphinde siqhagamshele kundoqo wethu wokwenyani. Kuye, i-ego ayikho into ngaphandle kokwakhiwa kwengqondo esisusa uxolo lwangaphakathi.
Ucacisa ukuba ukuzingca kwethu kuphenjelelwa ziingcamango neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo, ezinjengoloyiko, ixhala, umsindo, umona okanye ingqumbo. Ezi mvakalelo zihlala zinxulunyaniswa nexesha lethu elidlulileyo okanye ikamva lethu, kwaye ziyasithintela ukuba siphile ngokupheleleyo kulo mzuzu wangoku. Ngokuzifanisa ne-ego yethu, sizivumela ukuba songanyelwe zezi ngcinga zingalunganga kunye neemvakalelo, kwaye silahlekelwa ukunxibelelana nobume bethu bokwenyani.
Ngokutsho kukaTolle, esinye sezitshixo zokwahlukana ne-ego kukuqhelisela ukucamngca. Esi senzo sisivumela ukuba senze isithuba sokuzola engqondweni yethu, indawo apho sinokujonga khona iingcinga neemvakalelo zethu ngaphandle kokudibanisa nazo. Ngokuziqhelanisa rhoqo, sinokuqala ukuzihlukanisa ne-ego yethu kwaye sidibanise neyona nto yethu yokwenyani.
Kodwa uTolle usikhumbuza ukuba ukucamngca ayisosiphelo ngokwako, kodwa yindlela yokufumana uxolo. Injongo ayikokususa zonke iingcinga zethu, kodwa ukuba singabe sisabanjiswa ekuchongeni i-ego.
Ukuqonda ubume bethu bokwenyani
Ngokuzahlula kwi-ego, u-Eckhart Tolle usikhokelela ekuqondeni ubume bethu bokwenyani. Ngokutsho kwakhe, undoqo wethu wokwenyani ungaphakathi kwethu, uhlala ekhona, kodwa uhlala efihliwe kukuchongwa kunye ne-ego yethu. Lo mxholo yimeko yokuzola noxolo olunzulu, ngaphaya kwayo nayiphi na ingcamango okanye iimvakalelo.
UTolle usimema ukuba sijonge iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zethu ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukuxhathisa, njengengqina elithuleyo. Ngokuthatha inyathelo elithile ezingqondweni zethu, siyaqonda ukuba asizizo iingcinga okanye iimvakalelo zethu, kodwa sisazela esizijongayo. Kukuqonda okukhululayo okuvula umnyango wokuzola kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi.
Ukongeza, uTolle ucebisa ukuba ukuthula ayisiyonto nje yangaphakathi, kodwa yindlela yokuba sehlabathini. Ngokuzikhulula kwi-ego, siba khona ngakumbi kwaye sinikele ingqalelo ngakumbi kulo mzuzu wangoku. Siba nolwazi ngakumbi ngobuhle kunye nokugqibelela komzuzu ngamnye, kwaye siqala ukuhlala ngokuhambelana nokuhamba kobomi.
Ngamafutshane, "I-Quietude" ngu-Eckhart Tolle sisimemo sokufumana ubunjani bethu bokwenyani kwaye sizikhulule ekubanjweni kwe-ego. Sisikhokelo esixabisekileyo kuye nabani na ojonge ukufumana uxolo lwangaphakathi kwaye aphile ngokupheleleyo kulo mzuzu wangoku.
Ividiyo yezahluko zokuqala ze "Quietude" ngu-Eckhart Tolle, ecetywayo apha, ayithathi indawo yokufunda epheleleyo yencwadi, iyayincedisa kwaye izisa imbono entsha. Ziphe ixesha lokuyiphulaphula, bubutyebi bokwenene bobulumko obulindele wena.
