Hlaziya ubunyani bakho nge-NLP
Kuninzi lwethu, ukuphila ubomi esibufunayo kubonakala ngathi lithemba elikude. Asikokunqongophala kwentando okanye umnqweno osibuyisela umva, kodwa kunokuba sinciphise iingcinga kunye neendlela zokuziphatha. Ku "Ukufumana Ubomi Obufunayo," uRichard Bandler, umyili weNeuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), unikezela isisombululo esinamandla kule ngxaki.
Kwincwadi yakhe, uBandler wabelana ngeembono zakhe ezintsha malunga nendlela esinokubutshintsha ngayo ubomi bethu ngokuguqula indlela esicinga ngayo. Ibonisa indlela iingcinga kunye neenkolelo zethu, kwanabo singaziyo ukuba banazo, zigqiba njani ubunyani bethu bemihla ngemihla. Uchaza ukuba sonke sinakho ngaphakathi kwethu amandla okuguqula ubomi bethu, kodwa ukuba sihlala sithintelwa yimiqobo yengqondo yendalo yethu.
UBandler ukholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba wonke umntu unakho ukufezekisa ulwaneliseko lobuqu olungazange lubonwe ngaphambili kunye nempumelelo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphumeza oku, kufuneka sifunde ukusebenzisa iingqondo zethu ngokufanelekileyo nangokuyilayo. I-NLP, ngokuka-Bandler, ingasinceda ukuba sifezekise oku ngokusinika izixhobo zokuphonononga kwakhona kunye nokulungisa iinkolelo zethu kunye nesimo sengqondo.
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Emva kokumisela imeko, u-Bandler ungene nzulu entliziyweni yenkqubo yakhe ye-NLP, echaza iindlela ezahlukeneyo zobuchule esinokuzisebenzisa ukutshintsha iingcinga zethu kunye neepatheni zokuziphatha. Akabangi ukuba inkqubo ikhawuleza okanye ilula, kodwa uphikisa ukuba iziphumo zinokuba zikhulu kwaye zihlala ixesha elide.
Le ncwadi igubungela iikhonsepthi ezinje ngokubeka umhlaba, ukubonwa, ukutshintshelwa kwemodyuli, kunye nezinye iindlela ze-NLP onokuzisebenzisa ukophula iipatheni zokucinga ezingalunganga kunye nokuseka ezo zilungileyo. I-Bandler ichaza ubuchule ngamnye ngendlela efikelelekayo, inika imiyalelo ecacileyo yokuphunyezwa kwayo.
NgokukaBandler, isitshixo sokutshintsha kukulawula ingqondo yakho engekho zingqondweni. Ucacisa ukuba iinkolelo zethu ezisikelwe umda kunye nokuziphatha zihlala zimiliselwe kwi-subconscious yethu kwaye kulapho i-NLP yenza umsebenzi wayo ngokwenene. Sisebenzisa ubuchule be-NLP, sinokufikelela kwi-subconscious yethu, sichonge iipatheni zokucinga ezingalunganga ezisibambezelayo kwaye sizithathele indawo ngeengcinga ezintle nezinemveliso kunye nokuziphatha.
Ingcamango kukuba ngokutshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo, unokutshintsha ubomi bakho. Nokuba ufuna ukuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho, ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho zobuqu okanye zobungcali, okanye ngokulula wonwabe kwaye waneliseke ngakumbi, "Ukufumana Ubomi Obufunayo" kunika izixhobo kunye neendlela zokufika apho.
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I-Bandler iphonononga indlela iindlela ze-NLP ezinokusetyenziswa ngayo ukuguqula kungekuphela nje iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha kwethu, kodwa kunye nesazisi sethu sonke. Uthetha ngokubaluleka kokulungelelaniswa phakathi kwemilinganiselo yethu, iinkolelo kunye nezenzo zethu ukuze siphile ubomi obuyinyani kunye nokuzaliseka.
U-Bandler uchaza ukuba xa izenzo zethu ziphikisana neenkolelo zethu kunye nemilinganiselo yethu, kunokukhokelela kuxinzelelo lwangaphakathi kunye nokunganeliseki. Nangona kunjalo, ngokusebenzisa ubuchule be-NLP ukulungelelanisa iinkolelo zethu, ixabiso kunye nezenzo zethu, sinokuphila ubomi obulungeleleneyo kunye nobanelisayo.
Okokugqibela, uBandler uyasikhuthaza ukuba sithathe amanyathelo ekudaleni ubomi esibufunayo. Igxininisa ukuba utshintsho luqala ngathi kwaye sonke sinamandla okuguqula ubomi bethu.
"Ukufumana uBomi obufunayo" sisikhokelo esisebenzayo nesinamandla kuye nabani na ojonge ukuphucula ubomi bakhe. Esebenzisa ubuchule be-NLP, uRichard Bandler usinika izixhobo zokulawula iingqondo zethu, sichaze eyethu imigaqo yempumelelo, kwaye sifezekise ezona njongo zethu zibukhali.
Ukufumana ngakumbi malunga neendlela ze-NLP kunye nendlela ezinokukunceda ngayo ukuguqula ubomi bakho, siyakumema ukuba ubukele ividiyo efunda izahluko zokuqala zencwadi. Khumbula, le vidiyo iyeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokufunda incwadi, kodwa ayinakuyithatha indawo yayo.
