Fumana ubugcisa bokungajongi noMark Manson
Enye yeengcamango eziphambili zencwadi kaMark Manson ethi “Ubugcisa obuchuliweyo bokungancami” kukwamkela imbono ehlakulelwe ngenyameko yokungakhathali ukuze uphile ubomi obanelisayo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko ubani anokucinga ngako, ukugxeka akuthethi ukungakhathali, kodwa kunoko kukhetha izinto esizigqala njengezibalulekileyo.
Umbono kaManson sisithintelo kwimiyalezo eqhelekileyo uphuhliso lomntu ezikhuthaza abantu ukuba basoloko benethemba kwaye basukela ulonwabo ngokungenasiphelo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, uManson uthi undoqo kubomi obonwabisayo nobanelisayo kukufunda ukwamkela nokwamkela ukungaphumeleli, uloyiko nokungaqiniseki.
Kule ncwadi, uManson unikezela ngendlela engafanelekanga kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, indlela evuselela ngabom ecela umngeni kwiinkolelo zethu malunga neyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini. Kunokuba athi “nantoni na inokwenzeka,” uManson ucebisa ukuba sikwamkele ukusikelwa kwethu umda size sifunde ukuphila nako. Uthi kukwamkelela iintsilelo, iimpazamo nokungafezeki kwethu apho sinokufumana ulonwabo nolwaneliseko lokwenene.
Ukucinga kwakhona ngolonwabo kunye neMpumelelo kunye noMark Manson
Kulandelelwano oluya “UbuGcisa obuBuchule bokungaNiki iF***”, uManson wenza uhlalutyo oluhlabayo lweenkolelo zale mihla malunga nolonwabo nempumelelo. Uxela ukuba ukunqula i-positivity engenamqathango kunye nokuxhalaba ngokufezekiswa rhoqo akukona nje okungenakwenzeka, kodwa kunokuba yingozi.
UManson uthetha ngeengozi zenkcubeko "ehlala ininzi" eyenza abantu bakholelwe ukuba kufuneka bahlale bengcono, benze okungakumbi, kwaye babe nokunye. Le ngqondo, uthi, ikhokelela kwimvakalelo eqhubekayo yokunganeliseki kunye nokungaphumeleli, kuba kuya kuhlala kukho into engaphezulu yokufezekisa.
Endaweni yoko, uManson ucebisa ukuba sijonge kwakhona iinqobo zethu ezisemgangathweni kwaye siyeke ukulinganisa ukuzithemba kwethu ngeendlela ezingaphezulu zempumelelo, njengenqanaba lentlalontle, ubutyebi, okanye ukuthandwa. Ngokutsho kwakhe, kungokuqonda nokwamkela imida yethu, ukufunda ukuthi hayi nokukhetha ngabom amadabi ethu ukuze sifikelele ulwaneliseko lokwenene lobuqu.
Izifundo eziBalulekileyo ezisuka “kuBuchule obuchuliweyo bokungakhuphi”
Inyaniso ebalulekileyo uManson anqwenela ukuyidlulisela kubafundi bakhe kukuba ubomi abusoloko bulula, kwaye oko kulungile. Ukufuna rhoqo ulonwabo njengenjongo yokuphela ngumnqweno wokuzitshabalalisa ngenxa yokuba iyayihoya ixabiso kunye nezifundo ezinokuvela kubunzima kunye nemingeni.
Ifilosofi kaManson ikhuthaza abafundi ukuba baqonde ukuba intlungu, ukusilela kunye nokuphoxeka yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi. Kunokuba sifune ukuwaphepha la mava, sifanele siwamkele njengenxalenye ebalulekileyo yophuhliso lwethu lobuqu.
Ekugqibeleni, uManson uyasikhuthaza ukuba samkele iinkalo zobomi ezingamnandanga, samkele ukungafezeki kwethu, kwaye siqonde ukuba asisoloko sikhethekile. Kungokwamkela ezi nyaniso esinokuthi sifumane inkululeko yokuphila ubomi obunenyaniso nobanelisayo.
Unokubukela ividiyo engezantsi ebonisa izahluko zokuqala zencwadi. Noko ke, oku akuthathi indawo yofundo olupheleleyo lwencwadi endikhuthaza ukuba uyifumane.
