KwiiNyathelo zaBathengisi abagqwesileyo: Ubuchwephesha kunye neeMfihlo ezityhiliweyo
Ukuthengisa bubugcisa. Akwanelanga ukuba nemveliso okanye inkonzo elungileyo, kufuneka wazi indlela yokuyibonisa, ukudala isidingo, ukukholisa umthengi ngokusebenziseka kwayo kwaye ekugqibeleni uvale isivumelwano. Kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Amaqhinga kunye neemfihlo ezivezwe ngabathengisi abagqwesileyo", uMichaël Aguilar, ingcali yokuthengisa kunye nokukholisa, wabelana nathi ngokuqwalasela kwakhe kunye nokufumanisa kwakhe kwizakhono ezahlula abathengisi abagqwesileyo.
Ingcamango ephambili kwincwadi kukubaluleka kokuseka ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nomthengi kwasekuqaleni. U-Aguilar ugxininisa ukuba umbono wokuqala ubalulekile ekufumaneni ukuthenjwa komxhasi kunye nokumisela iqonga lengxoxo enemveliso. Oku kubandakanya ukulungiselela ngenyameko, intetho yobungcali kunye nokukwazi ukuseka unxibelelwano lomntu kunye nomthengi.
Le ncwadi iphinda iphonononge ukubaluleka kokuqonda iimfuno zabathengi. Ukuqinisekisa umthengi, akufunekanga wazi imveliso yakho ngaphakathi ngaphandle kuphela, kodwa uqonde iimfuno zomthengi kunye nezinto azifunayo, ukuze ukwazi ukubonisa ukuba imveliso yakho inokubanelisa njani.
Ubuchule bokweyisela yenye into ephambili. I-Aguilar ityhila iingcebiso zokoyisa izichaso, ukudala imvakalelo yongxamiseko kunye nokukholisa umthengi ngokusebenziseka kunye nexabiso lemveliso okanye inkonzo yakho. Ezi ndlela zihamba ngaphaya kweengxoxo ezilula ezinengqondo, zisebenzisa i-psychology, imvakalelo kunye nefuthe lentlalontle ukukholisa umxhasi ukuba athathe inyathelo.
“Iimfihlo zaBathengisi abaPhezulu kunye nobuGcisa butyhiliweyo” bubutyebi bolwazi kuye nabani na obandakanyekayo ekuthengiseni okanye ekufuneni ukuphucula izakhono zabo zokucenga. Inika iingcebiso ezisebenzayo kunye nezicwangciso eziqinisekisiweyo zokuphucula impumelelo yakho yokuthengisa kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo zakho zeshishini.
UbuGcisa boThethathethwano: Fumana amandla akho
Enye inkalo ebalulekileyo yokuthengisa uMichaël Aguilar axoxa ngayo "Ubuchule kunye neemfihlo ezivezwe ngabathengisi abagqwesileyo" kuthethathethwano. Abona bathengisi bagqwesileyo abapheleli nje ngokuba ngababonisi abalungileyo okanye abaqhagamsheli abacengayo, bakwangabo bathethathethwano abagqwesileyo.
Ukuxoxisana, kuchaza u-Aguilar, akukhona nje ngexabiso. Imalunga nokufumana indawo eqhelekileyo eyanelisa bobabini umthengisi kunye nomthengi. Oku kufuna ukuqonda kakuhle imidla yeqela ngalinye, ukukwazi ukufumana izisombululo zoyilo kunye nokuzimisela ukuthomalalisa.
Le ncwadi igxininisa ukubaluleka kokulungiselela uthethathethwano. Akufunekanga wazi kuphela imveliso yakho kunye nemarike yayo ngokucokisekileyo, kodwa kwakhona ulindele inkcaso kunye neempikiswano ezichasayo ezinokuphakanyiswa kwaye ulungiselele iimpendulo ezifanelekileyo.
U-Aguilar ukwabelana ngezicwangciso zokugcina uxoxisana, njengokubuza imibuzo evulekileyo ukukhokela incoko, ukubeka isimo sengqondo esihle, kunye nokusebenzisa umonde kunye nokuzingisa.
“Ubuchule bokuThengisa abaPhezulu kunye neeMfihlo ezityhiliweyo” inika ukuqonda okubalulekileyo kubugcisa bothethathethwano lwentengiso, ngeengcebiso ezisebenzayo kunye nobuchule obuqinisekisiweyo bokubetha izivumelwano zokuphumelela. Nokuba ungumthengisi onamava okanye i-novice, uya kufumana izimvo kunye nezixhobo kule ncwadi ukuphucula izakhono zakho zothethathethwano kunye nokwandisa impumelelo yakho yorhwebo.
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"Ubuchule kunye neemfihlo ezivezwe ngabathengisi abagqwesileyo" nguMichaël Aguilar uphela kwinqaku lokukhuthaza kunye nokuphefumlelwa. Uyasikhumbuza ukuba nabona bathengisi babalaseleyo badibana nemiqobo kunye nokusilela. Eyona nto ibahlulayo kukukwazi kwabo ukubuyela umva nokunyamezela nangona kukho ubunzima.
Ngokutsho kuka-Aguilar, ukunyamezela bubuchule obunokuphuhliswa. Ibonelela ngeengcebiso zokwakha ukomelela kwakho, njengokwamkela ingqondo yokukhula, ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kunye nokuzinikela kwiinjongo zakho zokuthengisa.
Ukongezelela, le ncwadi inika ubuchule bokujongana nokukhatywa kunye nokuchaswa, inxalenye engenakuphepheka yokuthengisa. Kunokuba abone ezi meko njengentsilelo, uAguilar ukhuthaza abafundi ukuba bazibone njengamathuba okufunda nokuphucula.
Ekugqibeleni, "Ubuchwephesha kunye neeMfihlo ezityhiliweyo zabaThengisi abaPhezulu" sisikhokelo esixabisekileyo kunoma yimuphi umthengisi okanye nabani na ofuna ukuphucula izakhono zabo zokuthengisa. Inika iingcebiso ezisebenzayo nezisebenzayo, ubuchule obungqiniweyo kunye nenkuthazo ebalulekileyo kwabo bafuna ukugqwesa kwiintengiso.
Thatha ixesha lokuntywila "kuBuchule kunye neeMfihlo ezityhilwe ngaBathengisi abaBalaseleyo" kwaye ubone ukusebenza kwakho kwentengiso kuphucuka kakhulu.
