Ukujongana nesiphithiphithi ngocwangco
UJordan Peterson, unjingalwazi wezengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseToronto, uxubusha kwincwadi yakhe ethi “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos” imfuneko yokulungelelanisa ucwangco kunye nesiphithiphithi ebomini bethu. Uphikisa ukuba ubomi ngumdaniso phakathi kwala mandla mabini aphikisanayo, kwaye usinika isethi yemithetho yokuhamba kulo mhlaba onzima.
Enye yeengcamango ezisisiseko ezicetywa nguPeterson kukuma nkqo namagxa akho ngasemva. Lo mthetho, osenokubonakala ulula ekuqaleni, eneneni sisikweko sendlela ekufuneka sibujonge ngayo ubomi. Ngokwamkela isimo sokuthembana, sijongana nehlabathi ngokukhawuleza kunokuba siphendule. Sisiqinisekiso sokukwazi kwethu ukoyisa imingeni kwaye silawule ikamva lethu.
Ngaphezu koko, uPeterson ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuzinyamekela. Kanye njengokuba sifanele simphathe umhlobo ofuna uncedo lwethu, nathi sifanele siziphathe. Oku kuquka ukukhathalela impilo yethu yomzimba nengqondo, kunye nokusukela izinto ezisenza sonwabe kwaye saneliseke.
Ngokujongana nale mithetho mibini, uPeterson usimema ukuba sizingise kwihlabathi ngelixa sizikhathalele.
Ukuthatha uxanduva kunye nonxibelelwano oluyinyani
Omnye umxholo ongundoqo wencwadi kaPeterson kukubaluleka kokuthatha uxanduva ngobomi bethu. Icebisa ukuba kufuneka sizibandakanye ngokupheleleyo ebomini, nangona kukho imingeni kunye nobunzima. Ude ade athi kufuneka “sithathe uxanduva ngayo yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bethu”.
NgokukaPeterson, kukuthatha uxanduva ngobomi bethu apho sifumana intsingiselo kunye nenjongo. Kubandakanya ukuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zethu, ukhetho lwethu kunye neempazamo zethu. Ngokuthabatha olu xanduva, sinethuba lokufunda izifundo ezibalulekileyo kwiintsilelo zethu size siphucule njengabantu.
Ukongeza, uPeterson ugxininisa ukubaluleka konxibelelwano oluyinyani. Uthethelela ukuthetha inyani, okanye ubuncinci ukungaxoki. Lo mgaqo awukho nje umbuzo wokunyaniseka, kodwa kunye nokuhlonipha wena kunye nabanye. Ngokunxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo, sihlonela ingqibelelo yethu nesidima sabanye.
UPeterson ugxininisa ukubaluleka kobunyani noxanduva ekusukeleni ubomi obunentsingiselo.
Ukubaluleka kokulinganisela
Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo uPeterson athetha ngayo kukubaluleka kolungelelwaniso kubomi bethu. Nokuba lulungelelwano phakathi kocwangco kunye nesiphithiphithi, phakathi kokhuseleko kunye ne-adventure, okanye phakathi kwesithethe kunye nokuveliswa kwezinto ezintsha, ukufumanisa ukuba ibhalansi ibalulekile ukuze uphile ubomi obunempilo nobanelisayo.
Ngokomzekelo, u-Peterson uchaza ukuba ukucwangciswa okukhulu kunokukhokelela ekuqineni nasekuzinzeni, ngelixa i-chaos eninzi inokukhokelela ekudidekeni nasekungazinzini. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukufumana ulungelelwaniso phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini zigqithisileyo.
Ngokufanayo, kuyimfuneko ukulungelelanisa imfuno yethu yokhuseleko kunye nomnqweno wethu wokuzonwabisa. Ukhuseleko oluninzi lunokusigcina ekuthatheni umngcipheko kwaye sikhule, ngelixa ukuzonwabisa okuninzi kunokusikhokelela ekuthatheni imingcipheko engeyomfuneko kwaye eyingozi.
Okokugqibela, uPeterson ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokulungelelanisa intlonipho yethu yesiko kunye nesidingo sethu sokwenza izinto ezintsha. Ngelixa isithethe sisinika uzinzo kunye nokungaguquguquki, ukusungula izinto ezintsha kusivumela ukuba silungelelanise kwaye siqhubele phambili.
Ingcinga yolungelelwaniso isembindini weemfundiso zikaPeterson. Uyasikhuthaza ukuba sifune olu lungelelwano kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu, ukuze siphile ngokwanelisa ngakumbi.
Ekugqibeleni, "i-12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos" sisikhokelo esinamandla kwabo bafuna ukuqonda ihlabathi, ukufumana intsingiselo ebomini babo, kwaye bathathe uxanduva olupheleleyo kubukho babo.
