Iimfihlo zeenkosi ezinkulu

Ngaba unalo iphupha, umnqweno, italente? Ngaba uyafuna ukuphumelela kubomi bakho bobuqu kunye nobuchwephesha? Ngaba ufuna ukuba nempembelelo entle kwihlabathi? Emva koko kufuneka ufunde incwadi ethi "Ukufezekiswa kokuGqwesa nguRobert Greene", etyhila iimfihlo zeenkosi ezinkulu kwimbali.

URobert Greene ngumbhali othengisa kakhulu, owaziwayo kwiincwadi zakhe malunga namandla, ukuhenda, iqhinga kunye nendalo yomntu. Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Achieving Excellence, uhlalutya ibhayografi yabantu abakhethekileyo abafana noMozart, uEinstein, uDa Vinci, uProust noFord, aze achonge imigaqo eyabavumela ukuba bafikelele incopho yobugcisa babo.

Le ncwadi asiyongqokelela ilula yee-anecdotes okanye iingcebiso. Sisikhokelo esisebenzayo sokwenyani, esikukhapha inyathelo nenyathelo kuhambo lwakho olusingise ekugqweseni. Ikubonisa indlela yokukhetha intsimi oyikhethileyo, indlela yokufunda ngokufanelekileyo, indlela yokuphuhlisa ubuchule bakho bokuyila, indlela yokoyisa imiqobo kunye nendlela yokuphembelela abanye.

Kweli nqaku, ndiza kukwazisa kwiinqanaba ezintathu eziphambili zenkqubo yobuchule echazwe nguRobert Greene:

  • Ukufunda
  • Uyilo olusebenzayo
  • Ubuchule

Ukufunda

Inyathelo lokuqala lokufikelela ekugqweseni kukufunda. Esi sesona sigaba side kwaye sinzima kakhulu senkqubo, kodwa kwakhona sibaluleke kakhulu. Kungeli xesha apho uya kufumana iziseko ezibalulekileyo zokulawula intsimi yakho.

Ukuze ufunde ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka ulandele le migaqo:

  • Khetha indawo ehambelana notyekelo lwakho lwendalo, oko kukuthi, into ekwenza ube nemincili kwaye ikukhuthaze ngokunzulu. Musa ukuzivumela ukuba uphenjelelwe ziifashoni, iingcinezelo zasekuhlaleni okanye izinto ezilindelwe ngabanye. Landela ithuku lakho kunye nomdla wakho.
  • Fumana umcebisi oza kukukhokela, akucebise kwaye adlulisele ulwazi lwakhe kuwe. Khetha umntu osele ephumelele ukugqwesa kwicandelo lakho kwaye onokukunika ingxelo eyakhayo. Zithobe, ube nenkathalo, kwaye ube nombulelo kumcebisi wakho.
  • Ziqhelise ngokuzingisileyo kwaye rhoqo. Zinikele ubuncinane iiyure ezine ngosuku ekufundeni kwakho, ngaphandle kweziphazamiso okanye iziphazamiso. Phinda uqhelisele ude ube uyincutshe ngokugqibeleleyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha ufuna ukuphucula ubuchule bakho kwaye ulungise iimpazamo zakho.
  • Linge kwaye uphonononge. Musa nje ukulandela imithetho esekiweyo okanye ukope iitemplates ezikhoyo. Yiba nesibindi sokucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi kwaye uzame iindlela ezintsha, iindibaniselwano ezintsha, iimbono ezintsha. Yiba nomdla kwaye uyile.

Uyilo olusebenzayo

Inyathelo lesibini lokuzuza ukugqwesa kukusebenza ngokuyilayo. Eli linqanaba apho uya kukusebenzisa oko ukufundileyo kwaye ubonakalise ubuntu bakho. Kungeli xesha apho uya kuphuhlisa isitayile sakho esikhethekileyo kunye neyoqobo.

Ukuze ube nobuchule obusebenzayo, kufuneka ulandele le migaqo:

  • Fumana ilizwi lakho. Musa ukufuna ukuxelisa okanye ukukholisa abanye. Qinisekisa ubuwena kunye nezimvo zakho. Chaza indlela oziva ngayo kunye nento oyicingayo. Yiba ngonyanisekileyo kwaye unyaniseke.
  • Ukusungula kunye nokudala ixabiso. Musa ukuphinda-phinda okanye uphucule into esele ikhona. Zama ukunikela ngento entsha neluncedo. Sombulula iingxaki, ugcwalise iimfuno, udale iimvakalelo. Yiba yintsusa kwaye ifanelekile.
  • Thatha umngcipheko kwaye ufunde kwiintsilelo zakho. Ungoyiki ukuphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kwaye ujongane nemiceli mngeni. Unesibindi sokuzama imibono enesibindi kunye neeprojekthi zamabhongo. Yamkela iimpazamo kwaye uzibuze. Yiba nesibindi kwaye womelele.
  • Sebenzisana kwaye ukhuthaze abanye. Musa ukusebenza wedwa kwikona yakho. Jonga utshintshiselwano kunye nokwabelana nabanye abantu ababelana ngokuthanda kwakho kunye nombono wakho. Thatha ithuba lokwahluka kweetalente, amava kunye nezimvo. Yiba nesisa kwaye ube nempembelelo.

Ubuchule

Inyathelo lesithathu lokufezekisa ukugqwesa bubuchule. Eli linqanaba apho uya kufikelela encotsheni yomdlalo wakho kwaye ube luphawu kwindawo yakho. Kungeli xesha apho uya kuthi uhambe ngaphaya kwemida enokwenzeka kwaye wenze imisebenzi yobugcisa.

Ukufezekisa impumelelo, kufuneka ulandele le migaqo:

  • Hlanganisa ulwazi lwakho kunye ne-intuition yakho. Musa ukuthembela kwisizathu sakho okanye kwimvakalelo yakho. Biza ubukrelekrele bakho behlabathi, obudibanisa ingqiqo, ubuchule bokuyila, ithuku kunye namava. Yiba nengqondo kwaye ube nengqiqo.
  • Phuhlisa umbono kunye nesicwangciso sakho. Musa ukonganyelwa ziinkcukacha okanye ungxamiseko. Gcina isishwankathelo kunye nembono yexesha elide. Lindela kwangaphambili iintsingiselo, amathuba kunye nezoyikiso. Yiba nombono kunye neqhinga.
  • Ukugqithiswa kwemigaqo kunye neeparadigms. Musa ukuphelela kwizithethe okanye kwiimfundiso ezisisiseko. Umngeni wafumana izimvo, ucalucalulo kunye nemikhwa. Khangela ukufumanisa iinyani ezintsha, izinto ezintsha ezinokwenzeka, iinyaniso ezintsha. Yiba notshintsho kwaye ube nguvulindlela.
  • Yabelana ngolwazi lwakho kunye nobulumko. Musa ukulugcina kuwe ulwazi okanye impumelelo yakho. Ligqithisele ilifa lakho kwizizukulwana ezizayo. Fundisa, cebisa, khokela, khuthaza. Yiba nesisa nobulumko.

Ukufezekiswa kokuGqwesa yincwadi ekufundisa indlela yokuphuhlisa isakhono sakho kunye nokufezekisa amaphupha akho. Ikubonisa indlela yokuphatha kakuhle intsimi oyikhethileyo kunye nendlela yokuba yinkokeli, umntu ovelisa izinto ezintsha kunye nombono. Kwiividiyo ezingezantsi, le ncwadi iphulaphule ngokupheleleyo.