Izimfihlo zamakhosi amakhulu kakhulu

Ingabe unalo iphupho, uthando, ithalente? Ingabe ufuna ukuchuma empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi? Ingabe ufuna ukuba nomthelela omuhle emhlabeni? Khona-ke kufanele ufunde incwadi ethi "Achieving Excellence by Robert Greene", eveza izimfihlo zamakhosi amakhulu kunawo wonke emlandweni.

URobert Greene ungumbhali othengisa kakhulu, owaziwayo ngezincwadi zakhe mayelana namandla, ukuyenga, isu kanye nemvelo yomuntu. Encwadini yakhe ethi Achieving Excellence, uhlaziya umlando wabantu abavelele abafana noMozart, u-Einstein, uDa Vinci, uProust noma uFord, futhi uveza izimiso ezabavumela ukuba bafinyelele umvuthwandaba wabo wobuciko.

Le ncwadi ayilona iqoqo elilula lama-anecdotes noma izeluleko. Kuyisiqondiso sangempela esisebenzayo, esikuphelezela isinyathelo ngesinyathelo ohambweni lwakho oluya ebuhleni. Ikukhombisa ukuthi ungayikhetha kanjani insimu oyikhethile, ungafunda kanjani ngempumelelo, ungathuthukisa kanjani ubuhlakani bakho, ungazinqoba kanjani izithiyo nokuthi ungabathonya kanjani abanye.

Kulesi sihloko, ngizokwethula izigaba ezintathu ezibalulekile zenqubo yobungcweti echazwe nguRobert Greene:

  • Ukufunda
  • I-creative-active
  • Mastery

Ukufunda

Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuthola impumelelo ukufunda. Lesi yisigaba eside futhi esinzima kakhulu senqubo, kodwa futhi esibaluleke kakhulu. Kungalesi sikhathi lapho uzothola khona izisekelo ezibalulekile zokuphatha kahle insimu yakho.

Ukuze ufunde ngempumelelo, kufanele ulandele le mithetho:

  • Khetha indawo efana nokuthambekela kwakho kwemvelo, okungukuthi, okujabulisayo nokukugqugquzelayo ngokujulile. Ungazivumeli ukuba uthonywe imfashini, ingcindezi yomphakathi noma okulindelwe abanye. Landela umzwelo wakho kanye nelukuluku lakho.
  • Thola umeluleki ozokuqondisa, akweluleke futhi adlulisele ulwazi lwakhe kuwe. Khetha umuntu osevele ephumelele emkhakheni wakho futhi ongakunikeza impendulo eyakhayo. Zithobe, unakekele, futhi ubonge umeluleki wakho.
  • Zijwayeze ngokuzimisela futhi njalo. Nikeza okungenani amahora amane ngosuku ekufundeni kwakho, ngaphandle kweziphazamiso noma iziphazamiso. Phinda izivivinyo uze uwazi kahle kahle. Hlala njalo ufuna ukuthuthukisa indlela yakho futhi ulungise amaphutha akho.
  • Linga futhi uhlole. Ungagcini ngokulandela imithetho emisiwe noma ukopishe izifanekiso ezikhona. Isibindi sokucabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi bese uzama izindlela ezintsha, inhlanganisela entsha, imibono emisha. Yiba nelukuluku futhi udale.

I-creative-active

Isinyathelo sesibili sokuthola impumelelo sisebenza ngokudala. Lesi yisigaba lapho uzosebenzisa khona lokho okufundile futhi uveze ubuntu bakho. Kungalesi sikhathi lapho uzothuthukisa khona isitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele nesangempela.

Ukuze ube ngobuciko, kufanele ulandele le mithetho:

  • Thola izwi lakho. Ungazami ukulingisa noma ukujabulisa abanye. Qinisekisa ubuwena nemibono yakho. Veza lokho okuzwayo nalokho okucabangayo. Yiba qotho futhi ube qotho.
  • Qamba kabusha futhi udale inani. Ungagcini nje ngokuphindaphinda noma uthuthukise osekuvele kukhona. Funa ukunikela ngokuthile okusha nokuwusizo. Xazulula izinkinga, gcwalisa izidingo, dala imizwa. Yiba ngowokuqala futhi uhambisane.
  • Thatha ubungozi futhi ufunde ekuhlulekeni kwakho. Ungesabi ukuphuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka futhi ubhekane nezinselele. Isibindi sokuzama imibono enesibindi namaphrojekthi wokuvelela. Yamukela ukwenza amaphutha futhi uzibuze wena. Yiba nesibindi futhi uqine.
  • Hlanganyela futhi ukhuthaze abanye. Ungasebenzi uwedwa ekhoneni lakho. Bheka ukushintshisana nokwabelana nabanye abantu ababelana ngokuthanda kwakho kanye nombono wakho. Thatha ithuba lokuhlukahluka kwamathalente, ulwazi kanye nemibono. Yiba ophanayo futhi ube nethonya.

Mastery

Isinyathelo sesithathu sokuzuza impumelelo siwukuba nekhono. Lesi yisigaba lapho uzofinyelela khona phezulu kugeyimu yakho futhi ube ibhentshimakhi ensimini yakho. Kungalesi sikhathi lapho uzodlula khona imikhawulo yalokho okungenzeka futhi udale imisebenzi yobuciko.

Ukuze uzuze impumelelo, kufanele ulandele le mithetho:

  • Hlanganisa ulwazi lwakho kanye ne-intuition yakho. Unganciki nje esicathulweni sakho noma emizweni yakho. Shayela ubuhlakani bakho bomhlaba wonke, obuhlanganisa ingqondo, ubuhlakani, umzwelo wemvelo nolwazi. Yiba enembile futhi enengqondo.
  • Thuthukisa umbono wakho namasu. Ungakhungatheki ngemininingwane noma ukuphuthuma. Gcina umbono kanye nombono wesikhathi eside. Lindela izitayela, amathuba nezinsongo. Yiba nombono kanye nosomaqhinga.
  • Dlulisa izimiso namapharadigm. Ungagcini nje ezinkambisweni ezimisiwe noma ezimfundisweni. Inselele ithole imibono, ubandlululo nemikhuba. Funa ukuthola amaqiniso amasha, amathuba amasha, amaqiniso amasha. Yiba onoguquko futhi ube yiphayona.
  • Yabelana ngolwazi lwakho nokuhlakanipha. Ungalugcini kuwe ulwazi noma impumelelo yakho. Dlulisela ifa lakho ezizukulwaneni ezizayo. Fundisa, yeluleka, qondisa, gqugquzela. Yiba nesandla esivulekile futhi uhlakaniphe.

I-Achieving Excellence yincwadi ekufundisa ukuthi ungathuthukisa kanjani ikhono lakho futhi ufeze amaphupho akho. Ikubonisa indlela yokuphatha kahle insimu oyikhethile nokuthi ungaba kanjani umholi, umsunguli kanye nomboni wemibono. Kumavidiyo angezansi, incwadi ilalele ngokugcwele.