Vuselela iqiniso lakho nge-NLP
Kwabaningi bethu, ukuphila ukuphila esikufunayo kubonakala kuyithemba elikude. Akukhona ukuntula isifiso noma isifiso esisibuyisela emuva, kodwa kunalokho ukucabanga kwethu okulinganiselwe kanye namaphethini okuziphatha. Kokuthi “Ukuthola Impilo Oyifunayo,” u-Richard Bandler, ongumdidiyeli we-Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), uyanikeza isixazululo esiqinile kule nkinga.
Encwadini yakhe, u-Bandler wabelana ngemibono yakhe emisha yokuthi singashintsha kanjani izimpilo zethu ngokushintsha indlela esicabanga ngayo. Ibonisa indlela imicabango nezinkolelo zethu, ngisho nalezo esingazazi, ezinquma ngayo iqiniso lethu lansuku zonke. Uchaza ukuthi sonke sinamandla ngaphakathi kithi okuguqula izimpilo zethu, kodwa ukuthi sivame ukuvinjelwa yizithiyo zengqondo esizidalile thina.
U-Bandler ukholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi wonke umuntu unamandla okuzuza ukugcwaliseka nempumelelo engakaze ibonwe ngaphambili. Nokho, ukuze sifeze lokhu, kumelwe sifunde ukusebenzisa izingqondo zethu ngendlela ephumelela ngokwengeziwe nangobuciko. I-NLP, ngokusho kuka-Bandler, ingasisiza ukuthi sifinyelele lokhu ngokusinika amathuluzi okuhlola kabusha futhi alolonge kabusha izinkolelo zethu nesimo sengqondo.
Hlela kabusha ingqondo yakho ukuze uphumelele
Ngemva kokumisa isigameko, u-Bandler ungena ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yohlelo lwakhe lwe-NLP, echaza ngamasu anhlobonhlobo esingawasebenzisa ukuguqula indlela yethu yokucabanga nokuziphatha. Akasho ukuthi inqubo iyashesha noma ilula, kodwa uphikisa ngokuthi imiphumela ingaba ephawulekayo futhi ehlala isikhathi eside.
Le ncwadi idingida imiqondo efana nokubeka phansi, ukubona ngeso lengqondo, ukushintsha kwe-submodality, namanye amasu e-NLP ongawasebenzisa ukuphula amaphethini emicabango engemihle futhi ubeke emihle endaweni. I-Bandler ichaza inqubo ngayinye ngendlela efinyelelekayo, inikeza imiyalelo enemininingwane yokusetshenziswa kwayo.
Ngokusho kuka-Bandler, ukhiye wokushintsha ukulawula ingqondo yakho equlekile. Uchaza ukuthi izinkolelo zethu ezikhawulelayo nokuziphatha kuvame ukuvela ekungazini kwethu futhi kulapho i-NLP yenza khona umsebenzi wayo ngempela. Ngokusebenzisa amasu e-NLP, singakwazi ukufinyelela ekunganakeni kwethu, sihlonze amaphethini emicabango engemihle asibuyisela emuva, futhi esikhundleni sawo ngemicabango kanye nokuziphatha okuhle nekhiqizayo.
Umqondo uwukuthi ngokushintsha indlela ocabanga ngayo, ungakwazi ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho, ufinyelele imigomo yomuntu siqu noma yobungcweti, noma umane ujabule futhi waneliseke kakhudlwana, Thola Impilo Oyifunayo ikunikeza amathuluzi namasu okukuyisa lapho.
Amandla Okuguqula Umuntu
U-Bandler uhlola ukuthi amasu e-NLP angasetshenziswa kanjani ukuguqula imicabango nokuziphatha kwethu kuphela, kodwa futhi nobunikazi bethu bubonke. Ukhuluma ngokubaluleka kokuqondanisa phakathi kwamagugu ethu, izinkolelo nezenzo zethu ukuze siphile impilo eyiqiniso negculisayo.
U-Bandler uchaza ukuthi uma izenzo zethu zingqubuzana nezinkolelo nezindinganiso zethu, kungaholela ekucindezelekeni kwangaphakathi nokunganeliseki. Kodwa-ke, ngokusebenzisa amasu e-NLP ukuvumelanisa izinkolelo zethu, izindinganiso, kanye nezenzo, singaphila impilo elinganiselayo negculisayo.
Okokugcina, u-Bandler usikhuthaza ukuthi sikhuthale ekudaleni impilo esiyifunayo. Ugcizelela ukuthi ushintsho luqala ngathi nokuthi sonke sinamandla okuguqula izimpilo zethu.
"Thola Ukuphila Okufunayo" liyisiqondiso esisebenzayo nesinamandla kunoma ubani ofuna ukuthuthukisa impilo yakhe. Esebenzisa amasu e-NLP, uRichard Bandler usinika amathuluzi okulawula izingqondo zethu, sizibekele imigomo yethu yempumelelo, futhi sifinyelele izinjongo zethu ezinesibindi.
Ukuze uthole okwengeziwe ngamasu e-NLP nokuthi angakusiza kanjani ukuguqula impilo yakho, sikumema ukuthi ubukele ividiyo efunda izahluko zokuqala zencwadi. Ungakhohlwa, le vidiyo ihambisana kahle kakhulu ekufundeni incwadi, kodwa ayikwazi ukuyibuyisela esikhundleni.
