Veza ama-Saboteurs akho angaphakathi ngokuthi "Fight Against Self-Sabotage"
Incwadi ka-Hazel Gale ethi “Fight Against Self-Sabotage” iyinqolobane yolwazi kulabo abafuna ukuqhubekela phambili emisebenzini yabo. ukuphila komuntu siqu kanye nomsebenzi. Le manuwali ebalulekile isinika ukukhanya kokuthi singaba kanjani izitha zethu ezimbi kakhulu, nokuthi singalwa kanjani nalo mkhuba.
Amandla okuzicekela phansi ahlala ekuqulekeni. U-Gale, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nompetha wesibhakela womhlaba wangaphambili, usikhanyisela ngezixhumanisi phakathi kwengqondo yethu nokuziphatha kwethu okuzilimazayo. Iveza ukuthi laba bahlaseli bangaphakathi bazalwa ngenxa yokwesaba, ukungabaza nokungaqiniseki okunciphisa amandla ethu. Sibondla, ngokuvamile ngokungazi, ngemicabango nemikhuba emibi.
Kodwa kanjani ukuhlonza laba ababhubhisi? I-Gale inikeza amathuluzi abalulekile wokuzibona. Imema ukuzihlola, ukubheka imicabango yethu, imizwa nokuziphatha kwethu. Unikeza namasu okuqonda amaphethini ethu okucabanga aphindelelayo aholela ekuzicekeleni phansi.
Kodwa umbhali akagcini nje ngokukhomba inkinga. Unikeza izixazululo zokunqoba ukuzicekela phansi. Indlela yakhe ihlanganisa ukwelapha kwengqondo nokuziphatha, ukucabangela kanye nokuqeqeshwa kwezemidlalo. Unikeza izivivinyo ezingokoqobo namasu okubhala kabusha amaphethini engqondo asidonsela phansi.
Izifundo ze-“Fight Against Self-Sabotage” zingazuzisa wonke umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqala uhambo lwakho lokuzithuthukisa noma ufuna ukuvula amandla akho ngemva kweminyaka yokunganyakazi. Nge-Gale, sifunda ukuthi ukulwa nokuzicekela phansi akwenzeki nje kuphela, kodwa kubalulekile ukuze uphile impilo eyanelisayo negculisayo.
Guqula ubuthakathaka bakho bube Amandla “Ngokulwa Nokuzilimaza”
Umsebenzi ka-Hazel Gale kwethi “Fight Against Self-Sabotage” uwukuhlola kwangempela ukujula komqondo womuntu. Usifundisa ukuthi ukuze silwe nokuthambekela kwethu kokuzilimaza, kumelwe siqale samukele ukuthi sinobuthakathaka. Kungokuvuma lobu buthakathaka ukuthi singaqala ukubuguqula sibe amandla.
Imfihlo, ngokukaGale, ayikona ukumelana nobuthakathaka bethu, kodwa kunalokho ukwamukela. Kusifundisa ukuthi ukumelana kudala ukungqubuzana okwengeziwe kwangaphakathi futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuzicekela phansi. Kunalokho, ikhuthaza ukwamukelwa. Ukwamukela ukuthi sinokwesaba nokungaqiniseki, nokuqonda ukuthi le mizwa ingokwemvelo, kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuyinqoba.
U-Gale futhi unikeza izeluleko zokuthi singashintsha kanjani izinkolelo zethu ezikhawulelayo. Ngokuvamile lezi zinkolelo zisekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kwangaphambili futhi zilolonga umbono wethu ngezwe. Ngokuziqaphela, singaqala ukuzibuza futhi esikhundleni sazo sicabangele imibono eyakhayo nenika amandla.
Ekugcineni, umbhali unikeza uchungechunge lwezindlela zokuhlakulela ukukhuthazela. Ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuphikelela, ukuqina kanye nokuzizwela enqubweni yokwelapha. Akukhona mayelana nokunqoba ngokushesha ukuzicekela phansi, kodwa ukufunda ukuguquka naphezu kwakho.
I-“Fight Against Self-Sabotage” iyinkomba yanoma ubani ofuna ukugqashula emigomeni yakhe. I-Gale inikeza ukubukeka okuyingqayizivele kokuthi singasebenzisa kanjani ubuthakathaka bethu njengesitebhisi sempilo eyanelisayo neyimpumelelo.
Zikhulule emaketangeni akho “Ngekulwa Nokuzicekela phansi”
Ku-"Fight Against Self-decotage," u-Gale ugcizelela isidingo sokuba khona nokuqaphela imicabango nemizwa yethu. Ugcizelela ukuthi kufanele sifunde ukubheka ngaphandle kokwahlulela, siqaphele indlela esizizwa ngayo, futhi siqaphele imicabango yethu ngalokho eyiyo: imicabango nje, hhayi iqiniso.
Umkhuba wokucabangela uvezwa njengethuluzi elibalulekile lokunqamula umjikelezo wokuzibhubhisa. Ngokuzinza esikhathini samanje, singakwazi ukuqala ukwakha amaphethini emicabango engemihle asibuyisela emuva. Ukwengeza, ukunaka kusisiza ukuba sihlakulele ukuzihawukela, okuyingxenye ebalulekile yokunqoba ukuzilimaza.
Okulandelayo, i-Gale igxile ekubalulekeni kokubuka ngeso lengqondo. Usikisela ukuthi ukubona ngeso lengqondo lapho sifuna ukuba khona ekuphileni kungasisiza sihlele indlela ecacile yokufika lapho. Ngokuzicabangela thina sinqoba izithiyo futhi sifinyelele imigomo yethu, sakha ukuzethemba nokuzimisela kwethu.
Ekugcineni, umbhali uchaza indlela yokwenza uhlelo lokulwa nokuzilimaza. Ugcizelela ukuthi kumele sicacise futhi sibe namaqiniso ezinhlosweni zethu futhi siqinisekise ukuthi zihambisana nezimiso zethu eziyisisekelo kanye nezifiso zethu.
I-“Fight Against Self-Sabotage” ingaphezu kwencwadi, iwumhlahlandlela osebenzayo wokulawula impilo yakho kanye nokufeza amandla akho. I-Hazel Gale ikunikeza amathuluzi okuzikhulula emaketangeni akho futhi uqhubekele phambili ngokuzethemba ufeze amaphupho akho.
Ukuze uthole ukubuka kuqala 'Ukulwa Nokuzicekela phansi', bukela ividiyo engezansi. Khumbula, le vidiyo imane iyinambitha, ayikho into ethatha indawo yokufunda yonke incwadi.
