Bhekana nesiphithiphithi ngokuhleleka
UJordan Peterson, uprofesa wezengqondo eNyuvesi yaseToronto, uxoxa encwadini yakhe ethi “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos” isidingo sokulinganisela ukuhleleka neziyaluyalu ekuphileni kwethu. Uphikisa ngokuthi impilo ingumdanso phakathi kwalawa mandla amabili aphikisanayo, futhi usinikeza isethi yemithetho yokuhamba kule ndawo eyinkimbinkimbi.
Omunye wemibono eyisisekelo u-Peterson ayiphakamisayo wukuma uqonde namahlombe akho efulathele. Lo mthetho, ongase ubonakale ulula ekuqaleni, empeleni uyisingathekiso sendlela okufanele siyibheke ngayo impilo. Ngokwamukela isimo sokwethembana, sibhekana nomhlaba ngokuqhubekayo kunokuba siphendule. Kuwubufakazi bekhono lethu lokunqoba izinselele futhi silawule isiphetho sethu.
Phezu kwalokho, uPeterson ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuzinakekela. Njengoba nje kufanele siphathe umngane odinga usizo lwethu, nathi kufanele siziphathe. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukunakekela impilo yethu engokomzimba nengokwengqondo, nokuphishekela imisebenzi esenza sijabule futhi saneliseke.
Ngokukhuluma ngale mithetho emibili, u-Peterson usimema ukuthi sizibambele mathupha emhlabeni ngenkathi sizinakekela.
Ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nokuxhumana okuyiqiniso
Enye indikimba eyingqikithi yencwadi kaPeterson ukubaluleka kokuzibophezela ngezimpilo zethu. Lisikisela ukuthi kufanele sizibandakanye ngokugcwele ekuphileni, naphezu kwezinselele zayo nobunzima. Uze asho ukuthi kufanele “siziphendulele ngakho konke okwenzeka ezimpilweni zethu”.
NgokukaPeterson, kungenxa yokuthatha umthwalo wezimpilo zethu lapho sithola khona injongo nenjongo. Kubandakanya ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zethu, izinqumo zethu namaphutha ethu. Ngokuthatha lo mthwalo wemfanelo, sinethuba lokufunda izifundo ezibalulekile ekuhlulekeni kwethu futhi sithuthuke njengabantu.
Ukwengeza, u-Peterson ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuxhumana okuyiqiniso. Ukhuthaza ukukhuluma iqiniso, noma okungenani angaqambi amanga. Lo mthetho awuwona nje umbuzo wokwethembeka, kodwa futhi nokuzihlonipha wena nabanye. Ngokukhuluma ngobuqotho, sihlonipha ubuqotho bethu nesithunzi sabanye.
U-Peterson ugcizelela ukubaluleka kobuqiniso nokuzibophezela ekuphishekeleni ukuphila okunenjongo.
Ukubaluleka kokulinganisela
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile uPeterson akhuluma ngalo ukubaluleka kokulinganisela ezimpilweni zethu. Noma ngabe ibhalansi phakathi kokuhleleka nesiphithiphithi, phakathi kokuphepha nokuzidela, noma phakathi kwesiko nokuqanjwa kabusha, ukuthola ukuthi ibhalansi ibalulekile ukuze uphile impilo enempilo negculisayo.
Isibonelo, u-Peterson uchaza ukuthi ukuhleleka okuningi kungaholela ekuqineni nasekumeni, kuyilapho izinxushunxushu eziningi zingabangela ukudideka nokungazinzi. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthola ukulingana phakathi kwalezi zimo ezimbili ezeqisayo.
Ngokufanayo, kuyadingeka ukulinganisa isidingo sethu sokuvikeleka nesifiso sethu se-adventure. Ukuvikeleka okuningi kungasivimbela ekuthatheni ubungozi futhi sikhule, kuyilapho ukuzidela okuningi kungasiholela ekuthatheni izingozi ezingadingekile neziyingozi.
Okokugcina, u-Peterson ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokulinganisa inhlonipho yethu yesiko nesidingo sethu sokusungula izinto ezintsha. Nakuba isiko lisinikeza ukuzinza nokuvumelana, ukusungula izinto ezintsha kusivumela ukuthi sizivumelanise nezimo futhi sithuthuke.
Umbono wokulinganisela usenhliziyweni yezimfundiso zikaPeterson. Usikhuthaza ukuba sifune lokhu kulinganisela kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwethu, ukuze siphile ngokwanelisayo.
Ekugcineni, “Imithetho Eyi-12 Yempilo: I-Antidote to Chaos” iyisiqondiso esinamandla salabo abafuna ukuqonda umhlaba, ukuthola injongo ezimpilweni zabo, futhi bazibophezele ngokugcwele ngokuba khona kwabo.
