Ukuqonda iziphethu zobuntu noRobert Greene
URobert Greene, owaziwa ngendlela yakhe ejulile nenomthelela Isu, uthatha igxathu elikhulu eliya phambili elithi “Imithetho Yemvelo Yomuntu”. Leli bhuku elithakazelisayo lisikhanyisela ngezici ezicashe kakhulu neziyinkimbinkimbi zokusebenza kwengqondo yomuntu, okwenza abafundi bakwazi ukuzulazula ngempumelelo kusiphithiphithi senhlalo yomhlaba wethu wesimanje.
Isahluko ngasinye sencwadi simele umthetho, umthetho ongehlukaniseki nemvelo yethu yobuntu. U-Greene usiyisa ekuhloleni okujulile komthetho ngamunye, ngezibonelo zomlando nama-anecdotes athakazelisayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuziqonda kangcono, ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho, noma ukukhulisa amandla akho, le mithetho inikeza ukuqonda okubalulekile.
Umthetho Wokuqala, isibonelo, uhlola indima yokuziphatha okungakhulumi ekuxhumaneni kwethu kwansuku zonke. UGreene ugcizelela ukuthi izenzo zethu zikhuluma kakhulu kunamagama ethu futhi uchaza indlela ulimi lwethu lomzimba, isimo sobuso ngisho nephimbo lethu lezwi elidlulisela ngayo imiyalezo enamandla, ngokuvamile equlekile.
Kulesi sihloko, sizobona ukuthi "Imithetho Yemvelo Yomuntu" ingasebenza kanjani njengesiqondiso esibalulekile ekuchazeni izisusa ezifihliwe, ukulindela ukuziphatha futhi, ekugcineni, ukuqonda kangcono abanye kanye nawe.
Ubunkimbinkimbi obungabonakali bemvelo yomuntu
Incwadi ethi “The Laws of Human Nature” kaRobert Greene ikhuluma ngezici ezijulile zokuziphatha kwethu. Ngokungena kule mithetho ecashile neyinkimbinkimbi, sithola izici ezifihlekile zemvelo yethu, okungase kusimangaze ngesinye isikhathi. Imithetho okuxoxwe ngayo lapha ixhumene kakhulu nokusebenzelana kwethu nomphakathi, indlela yethu yokucabanga kanye nendlela esizibona ngayo thina nabanye.
UGreene unikeza ukubonakaliswa kwemvelo yemvelo yethu nemizwelo yethu, egqamisa ithonya lokhu okungaba nalo ekuziphatheni kwethu. Ngakho lisinikeza amathuluzi okuqonda izenzo zethu nendlela esisabela ngayo, kanye neyabantu abasizungezile.
Isici esiyinhloko sale ncwadi ukubaluleka kokuzazi. Ngokuzazi thina nokuqonda izisusa zethu ezijulile, singaphatha kangcono ubudlelwano bethu nabanye, futhi siphinde sisiqondise ekuthuthukisweni komuntu siqu okunokulinganisela nokunempilo.
Izifundo ezitholakala kule mithetho yemvelo yomuntu azigcini nje ngokufunda. Kunalokho, ziwusizo kakhulu futhi zingasetshenziswa kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kusebudlelwaneni bethu bomuntu siqu, emisebenzini yethu yobungcweti, noma ngisho nokusebenzisana kwethu okujwayelekile, le mithetho ingasisiza ukuthi sihambe ngokuhlakanipha okukhulu nokuqonda phakathi kwesiphithiphithi esiyinkimbinkimbi semvelo yomuntu.
Amandla okuzazi
Ku "Imithetho Yemvelo Yomuntu", uRobert Greene ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuzazi. Uvikela umbono wokuthi amandla ethu okuqonda abanye ahlobene ngokuqondile nekhono lethu lokuziqonda thina ngokwethu. Ngempela, ukucwasa kwethu, ukwesaba kwethu, nezifiso zethu esingazi lutho kungasonta indlela esibheka ngayo abanye, kubangele ukungezwani nezingxabano.
UGreene ukhuthaza abafundi bakhe ukuthi bazijwayeze ukuzihlola njalo, ukuze babone lokhu kubandlulula futhi basebenzele ukukuqeda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umbhali uphakamisa ukuthi akufanele sifune ukuqonda izisusa zethu kuphela, kodwa nezabanye. Lokhu kuqondana kungaholela ebudlelwaneni obuvumelanayo futhi obukhiqizayo.
Ekugcineni, uGreene ugomela ngokuthi ukuzazi kuyikhono elingathuthukiswa futhi licwengisiswe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Njengomsipha, ingaqiniswa ukuvivinya umzimba njalo nolwazi. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukubekezela nokuzibophezela kule nqubo yokukhula komuntu siqu esikhathini eside.
Ukuze uthole ukuqonda okuphelele nokunemininingwane ngesihloko, akukho okudlula ukufunda yonke incwadi. Ngakho-ke ungangabazi ukucwila “Emithethweni Yemvelo Yomuntu” ukuze ujulise ulwazi lwakho futhi uthuthukise ubungcweti bakho bemvelo yomuntu. Sikubekele ukufundwa okulalelwayo okugcwele kwencwadi kumavidiyo angezansi.
