Incwadi Yempilo Engashicilelwe - Ukuhlola Okushintshayo
Umhlaba ugcwele izeluleko eziningi zokuthuthuka komuntu siqu, kodwa awekho afana nalokhu uJoe Vitale akunikezayo encwadini yakhe ethi “The Unpublished Manual of Life”. U-Vitale akagcini nje ngokuklwebha. Kunalokho, ingena ijule esimweni sempilo ngokwayo, ihlola ukuthi singayishintsha kanjani indlela yethu kuyo yonke into, kusukela emisebenzini yethu kuya ebudlelwaneni bethu bomuntu siqu.
Le manuwali eyisisekelo iyasuka emazwini avamile aphindaphindwayo emkhakheni wokuzithuthukisa futhi inikeza umbono oyingqayizivele noqabulayo. Akukhona nje ngokuba yinguqulo engcono yakho, kodwa mayelana nokuqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini "ngokwakho". Kumayelana nokuhlola amandla akho ngale kwemikhawulo okungenzeka ukuthi uzibekele yona.
Ngamunye wethu unencazelo eyingqayizivele yempumelelo. Kwabanye kungase kube umsebenzi ochumayo, kwabanye kungase kube ukuphila komkhaya okujabulisayo noma umuzwa wokuthula kwangaphakathi. Noma ngabe iyini inhloso yakho, I-Unpublished Handbook of Life ka-Joe Vitale iyinsiza ebalulekile engakusiza ukuyifinyelela.
Ngokushintsha indlela obheka ngayo impilo, leli bhukwana linikeza indlela eya ekugcwalisekeni kwangempela komuntu siqu. Akukhona mayelana nokuguqula lokho oyikho, kumayelana nokuqonda ukuthi ungubani ngempela nokusebenzisa lolo lwazi ukuze ufinyelele ezinhlosweni zakho ngokucaca okusha nokuzimisela.
Bopha Amandla Akho Angasetshenzisiwe
Ku-"The Unpublished Manual of Life", u-Joe Vitale usikhuthaza ukuthi sibuyekeze imibono yethu mayelana nempumelelo nenjabulo. Akuwona umjaho okufanele ulandelwe, kodwa kunalokho uhambo okufanele luthathwe, ngokuzazi ngokugcwele futhi ngokuhambisana nezifiso zethu zangempela.
Ingxenye ebalulekile yalolu hambo ukuhlola kanye nokungena emandleni ethu angakahlolisiswa. U-Vitale ugcizelela ukuthi sonke sinikezwe amathalente namakhono ahlukile avame ukusetshenziswa kancane. Kwabaningi bethu lamathalente ahlala efihliwe, hhayi ngoba singenawo, kodwa ngoba asikaze sifune ukuwavundulula siwathuthukise.
I-Vitale igcizelela ukubaluleka kokuqhubeka nemfundo, kokubili ekuzithuthukiseni kwethu nasekuthuthukeni kwethu emsebenzini. Kusikhuthaza ukuthi sitshale isikhathi nomzamo ekufundeni amakhono amasha futhi sithuthukise lawo esesivele sinawo. Kungalokhu kuhlola okuqhubekayo kwamakhono ethu lapho singakwazi khona ukufeza izinjongo zethu zokuvelela futhi sifeze amaphupho ethu angalawuleki.
Le ncwadi iphinde inselele umbono wethu wokwehluleka. Ku-Vitale, konke ukwehluleka kuyithuba lokufunda nokukhula. Uyasinxusa ukuthi singakwesabi ukwehluleka, kodwa sikuthathe njengesinyathelo esibalulekile ohambweni lwethu oluya empumelelweni.
Umlingo Wokucabanga Okuhle
"Incwadi Engashicilelwe Yokuphila" igxila emandleni okucabanga okuhle. KuJoe Vitale, ingqondo yethu inethonya eliqondile eqinisweni lethu. Imicabango esiba nayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi mihle noma emibi, ilolonga umbono wethu ngezwe futhi, ekugcineni, nempilo yethu ngokwayo.
U-Vitale usikhuthaza ukuthi sishintshe imicabango engemihle sibeke eyakhayo, siqondise izingqondo zethu empumelelweni nasenjabulweni. Ugcizelela ukuthi ukucabanga kwethu kunquma izenzo zethu, futhi izenzo zethu zinquma imiphumela yethu. Ngakho, ngokulawula ingqondo yethu, singakwazi ukulawula ukuphila kwethu.
Ekugcineni, “Imanuwali Yempilo Engashicilelwe” ingaphezulu kakhulu komhlahlandlela wokuzuza impumelelo. Ungumngane wangempela wokuvakasha, okusiza ukuthi ubhekane nobunzima bempilo kuyilapho uzama ukuthola okwengeziwe kuwe. Kuyisimemo sokubheka ngale kokubukeka, ukuhlola amandla akho angakasetshenziswa, futhi wamukele umlingo wokucabanga okuhle.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungathola amazwibela alolu hambo oluhle ngokulalela ividiyo eyethula izahluko zokuqala zencwadi. Kodwa-ke, akukho okungathatha indawo yokufunda ngokugcwele lobu buciko bokuthuthuka komuntu siqu.
