Ushintsho lokuhola ngesibindi
"Isibindi Sokushintsha" ka-Dan kanye ne-Chip Heath iyimayini yegolide kunoma ubani ofisa ukuqalisa ushintsho olunenjongo. Abazalwane bakwaHeath baqala ngokubekela inselele umuzwa ovamile wokumelana noshintsho. Kubo, uguquko lungokwemvelo futhi alunakugwenywa. Inselelo ilele kakhulu ekuphathweni koshintsho futhi yilapho behlongoza khona indlela yabo emisha.
Ngokusho kwabakwaHeaths, ushintsho luvame ukubonwa njengosongo yingakho simelana nalo. Kodwa-ke, ngamasu alungile, kungenzeka ukukubona ngombono ohlukile futhi wamukele kahle lolu shintsho. Amasu abo ephula inqubo yoshintsho ibe izinyathelo ezicacile, asuse isici esisabisayo soshintsho.
Bakhuthaza “ukubona” ushintsho. Kuhilela ukukhomba lokho okudingeka kushintshwe, ukubona ngeso lengqondo ikusasa olifisayo, nokuqonda umehluko phakathi kwakho kokubili. Bagcizelela ukubaluleka kokuqaphela ukuziphatha kwamanje nezimo ezidinga ushintsho.
Isisusa soshintsho
Ukugqugquzela kuyisici esibalulekile soshintsho oluyimpumelelo. Abazalwane bakwaHeath bagcizelela kwesithi “Isibindi sokushintsha” ukuthi uguquko akuwona nje umbuzo wentando, kodwa futhi nogqozi. Banikeza izindlela ezimbalwa zokwandisa isisusa sethu sokushintsha, okuhlanganisa ukubaluleka kokuba nombono ocacile walokho esifuna ukukufeza kanye nokubaluleka kokugubha ukunqoba kwethu okuncane.
AbakwaHeath bachaza ukuthi ukumelana noshintsho kuvame ukubangelwa ukungakwazi ukugqugquzelwa esikhundleni sokumelana ngamabomu. Ngakho-ke baphakamisa ukuguqula uguquko lube yimfuno, okunikeza incazelo emzamweni wethu futhi kwandise nogqozi lwethu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bagcizelela indima ebalulekile yomzwelo ekukhuthazeni ushintsho. Esikhundleni sokugxila ezingxoxweni ezinengqondo kuphela, bakhuthaza ukukhanga imizwelo ukuze kuvuse isifiso soshintsho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, zichaza ukuthi indawo ezungezile ingasithinta kanjani isisusa sethu sokushintsha. Ngokwesibonelo, indawo engeyinhle ingasidikibalisa ekushintsheni, kuyilapho indawo enhle ingasishukumisela ukuba sishintshe. Ngakho, kubalulekile ukwakha indawo esekela intando yethu yokushintsha.
Ngokusho kwe-"Dare to Change", ukuze uguqule ngempumelelo, kubalulekile ukuqonda izici ezikhuthaza ushintsho futhi wazi ukuthi singazisebenzisa kanjani ukuze sizuze.
Ukunqoba izithiyo zokushintsha
Ukunqoba izithiyo kungenye yezigaba eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu zoshintsho. I-Heath Brothers isinika amasu asebenzayo okunqoba izingibe ezivamile eziphazamisa indlela yethu yokushintsha.
Iphutha elivamile ukugxila enkingeni kunesixazululo. I-Heaths iluleka ukubuyisela emuva lo mkhuba ngokugxila kulokho osekusebenzayo nokuthi ungakuphindaphinda kanjani. Bakhuluma “ngokuthola izindawo ezikhanyayo,” okukhomba impumelelo yamanje nokufunda kuzo ukwenza ushintsho.
Baphinde bethule umqondo "weskripthi sokushintsha", umhlahlandlela wesinyathelo ngesinyathelo esiza abantu ukuba babone indlela okufanele bayilandele. Umbhalo woshintsho unikeza imiyalelo ecacile, esebenza ukusiza abantu ngenqubo yoshintsho.
Ekugcineni, bagcizelela ukuthi uguquko akuwona umcimbi owodwa, kodwa inqubo. Bakhuthaza ukugcina ingqondo yokukhula futhi balungele ukwenza izinguquko endleleni. Ushintsho luthatha isikhathi nesineke, futhi kubalulekile ukubekezela naphezu kwezithiyo.
Kuthi “Isibindi Sokushintsha”, abazalwane bakwaHeath basinika amathuluzi abalulekile okunqoba izinselele zoshintsho futhi siguqule izifiso zethu zoshintsho zibe ngokoqobo. Ngalawa macebiso esandleni, sikuhlomele kangcono ukulokotha siguqule futhi senze umehluko ezimpilweni zethu.
Ulungele ukuthola izimfihlo zoshintsho olusebenzayo? Sikumema ukuthi ulalele izahluko zokuqala ze-“Dare To Change” kuvidiyo yethu. Lezi zahluko zokuqala zizokunikeza ukunambitha ngezeluleko ezisebenzayo namasu amaHeath Brothers okufanele awanikeze. Kodwa khumbula, akukho okungathatha indawo yokufunda yonke incwadi ukuze kube noshintsho oluphumelelayo. Ukulalela kahle!
