Ubungcweti bokukhuluma, isikhali sokuncenga
Inkulumo ingaphezu nje kwendlela yokuxhumana. Ku-"Izwi Lingumdlalo Wokulwa", uBertrand Périer wembula ukuthi igama lingaba kanjani isikhali sangempela sokukholisa. UPérier ungummeli, umqeqeshi, futhi ungumqeqeshi ekukhulumeni esidlangalaleni. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okucebile, uyasiqondisa ezinkingeni eziyinkimbinkimbi inkulumo nobugagu.
Uchaza ukuthi impumelelo yenkulumo ilele ekulungiseleleni. Ukuba nombono ocacile womlayezo ofuna ukuwudlulisa kuyisinyathelo sokuqala senkulumo eyimpumelelo. Kudingeka futhi uqonde izethameli zakho, izinto ezizikhathazayo kanye nezikulindele. Inkulumo yakho kumele yakhiwe ngendlela ezohlangabezana nalokhu okulindelekile.
U-Périer ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuzethemba. Akwenzeki ukukholisa abanye uma wena ungazithembisi. Ukuzethemba kuza nokuzijwayeza kanye nolwazi. U-Périer uphakamisa amasu okuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho nokuphatha ukwethuka kwasesiteji.
"Inkulumo iwumdlalo wokulwa" ingaphezu nje komhlahlandlela wokukhuluma esidlangalaleni. Ukucwila kakhulu kwezobuciko bokuxhumana, ukuncenga nokukhuluma.
Ukwaba isikhala ngamagama
Esigcawini esithi “Izwi Liwumdlalo Wokulwa”, uBertrand Périer ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuthi usifaka kanjani isikhala ngesikhathi senkulumo. Ngokusho kwakhe, isikhulumi akufanele sikhulume kuphela, kufanele sibambe isikhala futhi sisebenzise ubukhona baso ukuqinisa umyalezo waso.
Uchaza ukuthi isikhulumi kumele siqaphele ukuma kwaso, umnyakazo kanye nokunyakazisa kwaso. Lezi zakhi ezingakhulumi zidlala indima ebalulekile ekukhulumisaneni futhi zingakhuluma kakhulu kunamagama. Isikhulumi esihle siyakwazi ukusebenzisa umzimba waso ukuze sigcizelele inkulumo yaso futhi sidonse ukunaka kwezilaleli zaso.
U-Périer uphinde anikeze izeluleko zokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokwesaba nokukhathazeka kwasesiteji. Uphakamisa ukuzijwayeza ukuphefumula okujulile kanye nokubona impumelelo ukuthulisa imizwa ngaphambi kokungena esiteji.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, u-Périer ugcizelela ukubaluleka kobuqiniso. Abalaleli bazwela ubuqiniso nobuqotho, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale uthembekile kuwena nezimiso zakho lapho ukhuluma esidlangalaleni. Uthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokukholisa ukuba yiqiniso.
Ukubaluleka kokuxoxa indaba ekukhulumeni esidlangalaleni
U-Bertrand Périer uphinde akhulume ngesici esibalulekile sokukhuluma esidlangalaleni: ukuxoxa izindaba. Ukuxoxa indaba, noma ubuciko bokuxoxa indaba, iyithuluzi elinamandla lokudonsa ukunaka kwezethameli, ukudala ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo, nokwenza kube lula ukukhumbula umlayezo.
Ngokuka-Périer, indaba enhle inamandla okubandakanya izethameli ngendlela ejulile nenengqondo. Kungakho ekhuthaza izikhulumi ukuthi zifake izindaba zomuntu siqu kanye nama-anecdotes enkulumweni yazo. Lokhu akugcini nje ngokwenza inkulumo ibe mnandi, kodwa futhi kuvumela izethameli ukuthi zixhumane nesikhulumi ngokwezinga lomzwelo.
Umbhali uphinde anikeze izeluleko ezisebenzayo zokuthi ingakhiwa kanjani indaba ehehayo. Ugcizelela ukubaluleka kwesakhiwo esicacile esinesiqalo, esiphakathi nesiphetho, kanye nokusetshenziswa kwemininingwane ecacile ukwakha isithombe sengqondo.
Sengiphetha, "Inkulumo Iwumdlalo Wokulwa" inikeza umhlahlandlela obalulekile kunoma ubani ofisa ukuthuthukisa amakhono akhe okukhuluma esidlangalaleni. Ngeseluleko esisebenzayo namasu asebenzayo avela ku-Bertrand Périer, ungafunda ukusebenzisa izwi lakho ukuze ukholise, ukhuthaze futhi wenze umehluko.
Ungaphuthelwa yividiyo yezahluko zokuqala zencwadi ethi 'Inkulumo Iwumdlalo Wokulwa'. Kuyindlela enhle yokuqhubeka nokuhlola izimfundiso zika-Bertrand Périer. Nokho, khumbula ukuthi lezi zindima aziyithathi indawo yokufunda yonke incwadi. Zinike isikhathi sokungena emininingwaneni futhi uthole ulwazi olugcwele olunganikezwa yincwadi kuphela.
